We get very heavily criticized on our physical appearance and literally on everything in this business so I don't see why it's surprising that many of us get surgeries. I've seen comments criticize girls who get surgeries, and some criticize girls who DON'T.
You are 100% correct in everything you say however you also need to be realistic.
The profession you have chosen 90 % or maybe even more of the time first contact is purely based on looks, not your personality your kindness or anything else. This is not being critical it is just the way it is.
That has a lot to do with having a connection and repeat visits, but without your looks generating the initial contact you would never meet that person.
It takes a strong individual to look past this and not let herself be swayed or bothered by it.
People shouldn’t criticize for sure but there is nothing wrong with having a preference and choosing someone who meets that.
The 2 ladies I have been seeing are very different in this regard, my ATF is 100% natural no tattoos piercings and I think she is absolutely gorgeous.
The other lady has had some work done has quite a few tattoos and piercings. I thought she was amazing before she had the work done and just as amazing after. What matters is what she wants and how she feels and if in her eyes she feels more beautiful and confident then it was the right thing for her.
The reason I have been seeing both these ladies for over 5 years is definitely not just because they are gorgeous in my eyes but because they are amazingly kind and we have become friends and I genuinely care about them and would really miss not having them in my life.