It's not the Quantity it's the Quality
Maria Divina said:
Gentlemen,
and please, pardon me my curiosity, but I really want to know...
May I ask you a question that definitively only you can answer to me...???
Is the quantity of the "load" make a real big difference about the quality of your orgasm?? or, the significant change is just as I did myself watch about mine: it is just a question of the duration, just to make the orgasm more longuer???
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Lilly Lombard said:
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So why according so much importance to the size of your load? Really?
As a woman, some days, I can hardly lubricate, some days I get wet, some days I squirt a small amount of fluid and then there are days where I can get the mattress soaking wet... it's not bothering me! I'm not always looking to improve that. It's the way a human body works and I accept it!
I know some men have that fantasy of seeing their loads all over a girl's body but besides that, the amount of sement you are squirting should be irrelevant. It is proven that some men have orgasms without even ejaculating and some men ejaculate without having orgasms. If it's the strong orgasm feeling you are looking for, why not just get a prostate massage?
Anyway, good luck!
Release of histamines from body stores is a requirement for achieving orgasm. Often, men and women who cannot reach orgasm respond to Niacin (Vitamin B3), which causes release of these histamines. Histamine release during sexual excitation is what causes the sex flush: blushing in the face neck, shoulders, chest, etc. The histamine released by niacin results in this same flushing effect, whether there is sexual excitation or not.
I take Niacin about 15-30 minutes before engaging in sex to enhance the natural flush in preparation for orgasm. The niacin-caused histamine release also causes the mucous membranes of the mouth and sexual organs to secrete mucus, which enhances the natural mucus formation in response to sexual activity. Since vitamin B-6 is required to turn the amino acid histidine into histamine, taking B-6 and eating foods high in histidine (meats and cheeses) may also be beneficial.
So my scenario with an a beautiful SP goes like this:
I drink pineapple juice the entire day before.
I usually book for 2 hours. I enjoy the conversational foreplay while listening to music together.
I have assorted finger foods, which includes meats and cheeses. I get my B-6 and so does she.
I have a good Red and White wine to enhance the mood.
I usually start partaking in the Oral activities for a good 15-20 minutes.
When there’s a break in the Oral activities and it’s time for the condom, that’s when I pop 500 milligrams of Niacin.
Then I’ll go at it as long as I can until I feel my skin flush red, itch and get hot (see caution below). That’s when it’s time to release; and where I release depends upon her. What ever she is cool with. Some have thanked me for drinking the pineapple juice.
Let me tell you something…it works. I may not blow bigger loads but my orgasms are intense and enhanced and they last longer. And when I come down from my Niacin enhanced orgasm, I am so very relaxed and fulfilled. That’s when I really enjoy the after-play with her, which is another reason I usually book for 2 hours.
CAUTION: Niacin has some uncomfortable, although not dangerous, side effects. It causes the skin to flush red, itch, and feel hot. This may last 10-20 minutes. These effects are caused by dilation (widening) of blood vessels and by the release of histamine. These side effects are not harmful. They can be reduced by taking niacin on a full stomach and by starting with very small doses, building up the dose slowly. DO NOT take 500 mg to start. Take 50-100. I like the rush of the hot flush, especially when I time it with my orgasm. What a feeling.
Good Luck
Samadams