Ok so I'm curious how other members would react to an experience I had.
Ok so I contacted an indy asking for a meeting after reading her whole website and making sure I followed all of her protocol. Now I get it, there are all types out there so they want to minimise risk. Most of the time the ladies inform their potentiel suitors (I hate that term) that it can take a certain amount of time before they answer our query. Now again I get it : they don't want to spend all their time checking for Emails or texts. So after about 24 hours (which was the amount of time this particular SP had warned could take for her answering our query) I receive a positive on wanting to meet me but a negative on the when. In other words yes I would like to meet you, but I'm not available on such and such a time and day. Nothing else. No other possible times or days. Just yes but no. OK so I answer with : how about this time and day then. 48 hours later and well passed the communicated time, she answers that she wasn't available that day (obviously). This time she gives option so I ask for an appointment inside said schedule. 12 hours later she answers that she no longer has any availabilities on such day but would I be available on such and such time and date. Now at this point it has been four days since my original email. Now I get the delay answering the first email but the second one and the third????? I have dealt with ladies that took their time answering my first query but the followup emails were answered quickly and promptly. Also on her first answer she should have given more information on when we could meet. On the third to me, that's just disrespectful because at this point, the good faith which all of these relationships are based on is out the window and that's what disappoints me. Why should I trust her???? how do I know her reviews weren't posted by a shill???? So I answered her very politely that I had no reason to trust her and that I felt slighted by her approach. Nothing else. I didn't call her names or told her off. Just that I didn't appreciate her approach. You see the reason why I felt slighted is it was like my query was unimportant to her, I was just another John she would have to have sex with. To me it was completely unprofessional. I understand that this is a business transaction but the booking is hard enough as it is, the least an sp can do is make it easier. An easy booking experience establishes a certain amount of good faith and she just didn't get it. It also makes the fantasy easier to create. Now this isn't the first time this happens to me and certainly not the last, but I was just looking for other members points of view.
Cheers
Ok so I contacted an indy asking for a meeting after reading her whole website and making sure I followed all of her protocol. Now I get it, there are all types out there so they want to minimise risk. Most of the time the ladies inform their potentiel suitors (I hate that term) that it can take a certain amount of time before they answer our query. Now again I get it : they don't want to spend all their time checking for Emails or texts. So after about 24 hours (which was the amount of time this particular SP had warned could take for her answering our query) I receive a positive on wanting to meet me but a negative on the when. In other words yes I would like to meet you, but I'm not available on such and such a time and day. Nothing else. No other possible times or days. Just yes but no. OK so I answer with : how about this time and day then. 48 hours later and well passed the communicated time, she answers that she wasn't available that day (obviously). This time she gives option so I ask for an appointment inside said schedule. 12 hours later she answers that she no longer has any availabilities on such day but would I be available on such and such time and date. Now at this point it has been four days since my original email. Now I get the delay answering the first email but the second one and the third????? I have dealt with ladies that took their time answering my first query but the followup emails were answered quickly and promptly. Also on her first answer she should have given more information on when we could meet. On the third to me, that's just disrespectful because at this point, the good faith which all of these relationships are based on is out the window and that's what disappoints me. Why should I trust her???? how do I know her reviews weren't posted by a shill???? So I answered her very politely that I had no reason to trust her and that I felt slighted by her approach. Nothing else. I didn't call her names or told her off. Just that I didn't appreciate her approach. You see the reason why I felt slighted is it was like my query was unimportant to her, I was just another John she would have to have sex with. To me it was completely unprofessional. I understand that this is a business transaction but the booking is hard enough as it is, the least an sp can do is make it easier. An easy booking experience establishes a certain amount of good faith and she just didn't get it. It also makes the fantasy easier to create. Now this isn't the first time this happens to me and certainly not the last, but I was just looking for other members points of view.
Cheers
