Can a girl look at a guy the same way after being in the biz

[Doggyluver]

I came across this thread while looking for something else and after reading through decided to impart my feelings and experiences. I for one do NOT look at a woman any differently because she works in this business and do not relate my experiences. I was fortunate enough to meet a therapist at a MP 8 years ago. I went back to see her over and over since we had a great time and sexually we clicked. I finally asked if I could see her outside the MP and to my surprise she agreed. What started out as a client , therapist relationship turned into a passionate love affair that lasted 6 1/2 years. She left the business, we moved in together and she confessed that she had also worked as an escort prior to working in the massage industry. I never asked any questions about her clients, experiences or anything to do with how and why she got into the business. Eventually she told me all I would have ever wanted to know and more. I never felt that she was different as a result of her experience and even though we are no longer together, we remain close friends. When I see her I never think of her as an escort, MP or any link to the business. I was raised to respect others no matter what thier station in life and I continue to live like that today, thank you Mum and Dad. I have gone back to seeing escorts for my own sexual needs and have the utmost of respect for them and the service they provide. They are human beings providing a service, they deserve nothing less than our respect. I know some of the men out there will scoff and think, fuck em, they are pieces of meat and don't deserve my respect, they have my money, do what I want! I feel sad for you and those around you, family and friends as you probably have no respect for them either.

 

[Howard Hughes]

I think no, the same way a guy can not look at a girl the same after he has hobbied.

 

[tiannas]

Interesting question. Before I actually started as an escort I wasn't sure what type of people I would meet and how it might affect my attitude toward men overall. Happily the majority of my clients are nice, decent men, and I haven't experienced any negative feelings at all. I am certainly meeting a higher caliber of men than I did when I was working as a stripper and so I probably have more respect for men than I did before.

Remarkably I have met some truly outstanding hobbyists that I would be proud to call friends. These friendships are especially special as I am able to be myself, without feeling that I am being judged, as we are all in the same game, so to speak.

 

[simonpaul]

I known at least two sp who live a regular life after been in this buisness for at lesat 4 years, now they live a normal life and it is ok for me .Evevery body can change is life and i have no problem with that,it is always depend on your mental no mater what.

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Define ''normal''? One's normality is another one's idea of either heaven or hell...

 

[Maria Divina]

I realized that's an old thread and a chance that I read it before answering to it...
Because I already did it...
But the most fantastic is to realize also that my answer will be exactly the same...
Except that I could had that I am more than ever a romantic person and if I would decide to have someone in my life,
that will be only for a real mutual nice love story

 

[Merlot]

I realized that's an old thread and a chance that I read it before answering to it...
Because I already did it...
But the most fantastic is to realize also that my answer will be exactly the same...
Except that I could had that I am more than ever a romantic person and if I would decide to have someone in my life,
that will be only for a real mutual nice love story

Bonjour Maria,

Could you please open some room in your PM box.

Thanks.

 

[PMikey]

But I am having the strong impression that the best are all taken...

You know, I'd be offended by that if it weren't true.