For my point of view the answer is no!All the women im friend with are hot and thats why i like her to be around me but if i could i will fuck all off them lol
Can a woman and a man be friends?
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"A woman may very well form a friendship with a man, but for this to endure, it must be assisted by a little physical antipathy."
-Nietzsche.
I hope he's wrong. I want him to be!
Perhaps, I'm also naïve.
I hung out with women whom I loved, pretending it was friendship or just sex. The opposite happend as well. Even casual dating, friends with benefits; regurlarly ends up with one wanting more, one feeling trapped and often both being miserable.
That in itself is a form of violence done upon yourself for sticking around. A form of deception towards the other party not agreeing, respecting one's limits and boundaries.
When it blows up in your face, you're left looking like Daffy Duck, turning your beak back in position. Back to the duct tape and patching holes one tought he'd filled...
I made a great fast friend this winter. For a smart man, I'm dumb as fuck at reading woman's queues. We had the same sense of humour, finsihed each other's sentences and laughed, when everyone else was frowning. There was no sexual attirance on my part. I loved her brain. I told her many times. Out of the blue, she told me she had some thinking to do.
We haven't spoken since.
Nietzsche...You're dishhhpicable...
-Nietzsche.
I hope he's wrong. I want him to be!
Perhaps, I'm also naïve.
I hung out with women whom I loved, pretending it was friendship or just sex. The opposite happend as well. Even casual dating, friends with benefits; regurlarly ends up with one wanting more, one feeling trapped and often both being miserable.
That in itself is a form of violence done upon yourself for sticking around. A form of deception towards the other party not agreeing, respecting one's limits and boundaries.
When it blows up in your face, you're left looking like Daffy Duck, turning your beak back in position. Back to the duct tape and patching holes one tought he'd filled...
I made a great fast friend this winter. For a smart man, I'm dumb as fuck at reading woman's queues. We had the same sense of humour, finsihed each other's sentences and laughed, when everyone else was frowning. There was no sexual attirance on my part. I loved her brain. I told her many times. Out of the blue, she told me she had some thinking to do.
We haven't spoken since.
Nietzsche...You're dishhhpicable...
Bingo.
The fatal flaw in modern sociological thought is believing that humans are infinitely malleable, while we are constrained by the bounds of human nature.
This question always puzzles me.
Because, for one, of course men and women can be friends. SOME of them aren't able to, but there's no shortage of opposite sex friendships in general.
But also, and hear me out. Unpopular opinion but I personally think being friends isn't incompatible with having sex. I've fucked many of my friends. To me the key word in "friends with benefits" is friends. Lol the only thing is communication is important to establish boundaries and make it clear that this isn't turning into a relationship.
Because, for one, of course men and women can be friends. SOME of them aren't able to, but there's no shortage of opposite sex friendships in general.
But also, and hear me out. Unpopular opinion but I personally think being friends isn't incompatible with having sex. I've fucked many of my friends. To me the key word in "friends with benefits" is friends. Lol the only thing is communication is important to establish boundaries and make it clear that this isn't turning into a relationship.
