I only cancel if there is a dire emergency, if you arrive and the have grosely misrepresented themselves the that is IMHO grounds to reneg.
Cancelling Appointment
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Calm yourself and read my post again. I said if a girl uses fake pics, then she should be turned away. Anyone who uses fake pictures does not deserve a cent. My comment about paying a small fee is if the pics are accurate but you just don't like the girl who shows up. If a girl has been honest in her marketing and I send her away at the beginning of the booking, it would be extremely douchy not to give her a little something.
If I go to a restaurant and i order a steak and they bring me a steak and it is cooked the way i asked, but I just dont like the taste and only eat a few bites, I would not expect to walk out without paying. "Customer is King" is meant to be an approach on how business should strive to treat customers, not as a cudgel to be an asshat and get stuff for free.
Dishonesty deserves nothing. An honest case of incompatibility deserves some civility and decency. It isn't that hard.
What if the girl arrives at your door and looks like her pictures, but in the first 10 minutes of chit- chat she completely turns you off?
I had an experience once where I had pre-booked a girl for the day of my arrival in Montreal. When I reached my hotel room, my cell rang with the booker wanting to move my appointment up 2 hours. (She had had a couple of cancellations that day and mine was her last appointment.). The problem was, he wanted to send her over immediately or she was going home. So I said give me 30 minutes. Ran to the ATM, ran back to shower, and stepped out of shower just as I heard her knock on the door.
She was not in a good mood. She was mad that it took me 5 minutes to answer the door and she had to wait outside. She was mad at the two jerks that cancelled on her and she had to wait outside in DT Montreal on a very hot day (Jazz Festival in July). She was hot and sweaty and her makeup had run. She was bored with my introductions and finally said "Let's just get this over with." After about 10 listless minutes in bed, I started watching the clock and wishing "this was over with." But I didn't want to get her any more angry than she already was. I calmly told her that I was satisfied but just tired from my flight. I thought she would be happy to take a quick shower, pick up her donation, and get out early. However she took a 20 minute shower and then instead of leaving early said " Oh we still have about 20 minutes left, I can hang for a little while longer."
So I guess I did the right thing by not cancelling after those initial 10 minutes. She was much nicer after she had a chance to calm down and take her shower. I probably should have suggested that in the beginning. But the lesson I learned was never to pre-book on the day of a late day arrival to Montreal.
Has anyone actually cancelled an appointment(or thought about it) based not on the look of the girl, but rather on the initial 10 minute introduction chit- chat?
I had an experience once where I had pre-booked a girl for the day of my arrival in Montreal. When I reached my hotel room, my cell rang with the booker wanting to move my appointment up 2 hours. (She had had a couple of cancellations that day and mine was her last appointment.). The problem was, he wanted to send her over immediately or she was going home. So I said give me 30 minutes. Ran to the ATM, ran back to shower, and stepped out of shower just as I heard her knock on the door.
She was not in a good mood. She was mad that it took me 5 minutes to answer the door and she had to wait outside. She was mad at the two jerks that cancelled on her and she had to wait outside in DT Montreal on a very hot day (Jazz Festival in July). She was hot and sweaty and her makeup had run. She was bored with my introductions and finally said "Let's just get this over with." After about 10 listless minutes in bed, I started watching the clock and wishing "this was over with." But I didn't want to get her any more angry than she already was. I calmly told her that I was satisfied but just tired from my flight. I thought she would be happy to take a quick shower, pick up her donation, and get out early. However she took a 20 minute shower and then instead of leaving early said " Oh we still have about 20 minutes left, I can hang for a little while longer."
So I guess I did the right thing by not cancelling after those initial 10 minutes. She was much nicer after she had a chance to calm down and take her shower. I probably should have suggested that in the beginning. But the lesson I learned was never to pre-book on the day of a late day arrival to Montreal.
Has anyone actually cancelled an appointment(or thought about it) based not on the look of the girl, but rather on the initial 10 minute introduction chit- chat?
I haven't, but I would have seriously considered it if I experienced what you did. For me, the clincher would be "let's get this over with" I would have stopped there.
I have had girls arrive who seem like they had a tough day at first. That is one of the reasons why I like doing outcall because I always have some snacks and some wine ready to go. I have yet to meet a girl who didnt perk up when offered a little food and drink to go along with some compliments.
I only cancel if there is a serious emergency, (once my daughter had fallen down a staircase at the University).
And when the girl returned, wine, chocolates, and indeed judicious compliments, were on the menu.
On the other hand, my partners canceled, but each time they offered me other possibilities, so for me, no problem.
There is another type of cancellation that no one has brought up (or admitted to), that I would like to discuss. I know that some guys will pre-book a girl a few days ahead of time as a back-up plan. Then on the appointed day, if someone higher on their list of favorites turns up on the schedule, they will cancel the first appointment and book the favorite girl. I always thought this was unfair to the first girl who may be losing out on $$ if no one else takes that slot. Also, I think an agency would not like this if it was a frequent occurrence.
One time, I had pre-booked a girl that I had wanted to see for a long time. But on the afternoon of that day, I got a text that she cancelled. I booked another girl for the evening, but two hours before the appointment, I got a text that the original girl had changed her mind and was coming in. I really wanted to see her, but I just couldn't cancel on the second girl on such short notice. I believe if you book an appointment you should follow through(unless real emergency.)
One time, I had pre-booked a girl that I had wanted to see for a long time. But on the afternoon of that day, I got a text that she cancelled. I booked another girl for the evening, but two hours before the appointment, I got a text that the original girl had changed her mind and was coming in. I really wanted to see her, but I just couldn't cancel on the second girl on such short notice. I believe if you book an appointment you should follow through(unless real emergency.)
That’s actually really f’ed up doin shit like that. It’s happened to me a few times where I really wanted to see one girl, but booked another and then the one I really wanted to see showed up on schedule. I never cancel like u. The one I can remember this happening with was Alison from vogue, ended up seein a Unicorn instead who I prebooked, and was happy I did as it was a great session. Once I book, I don’t cancel unless it’s emergency.
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