Client number X seen that day
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As long as the provider respects the most basic rules of personal hygiene, no, I absolutely don’t mind.
And neither should you.
Actually, going down the rabbit hole of considering the traffic down there sounds like a sure fire way to psych yourself out of any session! I mean, let’s go with the best case scenario: you are the first that day. Well guess what? You’re still just a few showers after the previous john!
I don’t go for the first spot that day because it’ll be the best. I go for my spot and try to make sure it’ll be her best that day.
Cheers!
And neither should you.
Actually, going down the rabbit hole of considering the traffic down there sounds like a sure fire way to psych yourself out of any session! I mean, let’s go with the best case scenario: you are the first that day. Well guess what? You’re still just a few showers after the previous john!
I don’t go for the first spot that day because it’ll be the best. I go for my spot and try to make sure it’ll be her best that day.
Cheers!
I've always found that notion of "first of the day" priority a bit off.
Some say its to have her at her best energy level... but who's really at their best when starting a shift? She might be hungover, tired, grumpy, unmotivated, didn't get her morning coffee, etc... this really varies from girl to girl.
Some say its to maximise "freshness" and not inherit "fluids" from a previous session. If a girl has a lover, who's to say they didn't get nookie before she left for her shift? Personally, I assume she has, and the few showers between sessions with Johns whom she's wore condoms with seems sometimes better in my opinion. And I've seen a few girls in their personal life, and I can promise you that 90% of the time, I was the first of the day...You're seeing an escort, if she's been around for a while, she's had hundreds of Johns (if not more) and that's excluding her personal life. I'm actually less worried about freshness than with a "civilian" I just met.
As Pilgrim said: "I go for my spot and try to make sure it’ll be her best that day."
My preference is mid shift or even end of shift.
Some say its to have her at her best energy level... but who's really at their best when starting a shift? She might be hungover, tired, grumpy, unmotivated, didn't get her morning coffee, etc... this really varies from girl to girl.
Some say its to maximise "freshness" and not inherit "fluids" from a previous session. If a girl has a lover, who's to say they didn't get nookie before she left for her shift? Personally, I assume she has, and the few showers between sessions with Johns whom she's wore condoms with seems sometimes better in my opinion. And I've seen a few girls in their personal life, and I can promise you that 90% of the time, I was the first of the day...You're seeing an escort, if she's been around for a while, she's had hundreds of Johns (if not more) and that's excluding her personal life. I'm actually less worried about freshness than with a "civilian" I just met.
As Pilgrim said: "I go for my spot and try to make sure it’ll be her best that day."
My preference is mid shift or even end of shift.
Being the last actually has significant advantages. No more clients after you. She'll let herself get into it. A provider often doesn't want to let her self go so early in the shift.
You may work at an ice cream shop that lets you eat all the ice cream you want, but if you start out gorging on ice cream, you're going to have a hard time dishing it out for the rest of your day. If you love ice cream and work at an ice cream stop, the better way is so wait until the end of your shift to gorge.
She's also more likely to be more flexible with time if she likes you. No client waiting after you.
The "freshness" bit is overvalued imo. These women have sex with many men. They also probably have better hygiene habits than most men.
You may work at an ice cream shop that lets you eat all the ice cream you want, but if you start out gorging on ice cream, you're going to have a hard time dishing it out for the rest of your day. If you love ice cream and work at an ice cream stop, the better way is so wait until the end of your shift to gorge.
She's also more likely to be more flexible with time if she likes you. No client waiting after you.
The "freshness" bit is overvalued imo. These women have sex with many men. They also probably have better hygiene habits than most men.
Showers are a thing. You need to unpack whatever it is that makes you think we're dirtier past 8am, lol!! A reputable escort is a hygiene professional.
If you shake hands at work for example, you're in for an awakening - every hand you shake has potentially touched a dick in the past 24 hours and hasn't showered since.
If you shake hands at work for example, you're in for an awakening - every hand you shake has potentially touched a dick in the past 24 hours and hasn't showered since.
I would add that they probably have better hygiene than most non-sw women.
Well i hope these guys wash their hands after touching their dick :O lol. Its basic hygiene to wash your hands after fapping or going to the bathroom for #1 or #2.
To answer the thread, i don't really care for "first of the day" in term of hygiene. As long as shower is taken and everything is done properly, there should be no issues. That said i prefer a booking early evening regardless of the spot i am in her schedule. The reason is because if there is a cancellation i have higher hopes of a plan b. I also will have more energy myself. And this may be varying from providers to providers but from past experiences, often girls who would work late night shift were more "party girls". If every clients provided alcohol for instance, later the shift the more chances she show up intoxicated to various degree.
Otherwise if we start to think about what happened with other clients too hard and freak over it, we should get out of this business. I remember one girl once i asked about cim and if it was an extra and her answer was like "nah i don't charge for it, i don't mind it, i had 3 clients today and they all came in my mouth". Just told myself if she used mouthwash/brush her teeth, all is fine. It didn't impacted my session. I didn't felt a bad taste lol.
No because I have always been the first every time….. Just ask her if you are unsure.
Seriously, like Julia said these ladies are hygiene specialists and I have never had an issue with any that I have seen.
Civilian ladies on the other hand sometimes just left the fish market and didn’t have time for a shower.
I see low volume Indies but that is not the reason why, I really couldn’t care less whether I am first or last, hygiene has never been an issue.
What I care about is how she treats me.
Seriously, like Julia said these ladies are hygiene specialists and I have never had an issue with any that I have seen.
Civilian ladies on the other hand sometimes just left the fish market and didn’t have time for a shower.
I see low volume Indies but that is not the reason why, I really couldn’t care less whether I am first or last, hygiene has never been an issue.
What I care about is how she treats me.
Wisdom and respect at its best, hat off to you bro
I don't really care if I am first, second or tenth... I don't think that a better connection is guaranteed based on that.
In fact, I have fully enjoyed having a girl tell me about her previous escapades that day: what she liked, what made her cum (if at all), how she made her client(s) come. Those salty details can really turn me on, and in the right circumstances it can feel quite intimate... kind of like getting in on a secret. And one of the things that I tend to love about escorts is when they are confident in their sexuality... so yeah, I love hearing their sexy stories! (Especially while I am inside them, hehehe). I guess it's a bit of a kink for me, lol. I wonder if other guys do that too?
In fact, I have fully enjoyed having a girl tell me about her previous escapades that day: what she liked, what made her cum (if at all), how she made her client(s) come. Those salty details can really turn me on, and in the right circumstances it can feel quite intimate... kind of like getting in on a secret. And one of the things that I tend to love about escorts is when they are confident in their sexuality... so yeah, I love hearing their sexy stories! (Especially while I am inside them, hehehe). I guess it's a bit of a kink for me, lol. I wonder if other guys do that too?
Just imagine her saying "oh my, your wee wee is much smaller than the last ones"
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You'd be surprised how many people don't practice basic hygiene!
For me any spot works, as long as they follow the hygiene protocol. We also do need to prepare ourselves with good hygiene for encounter.
Any woman who's had to stand in line for 20min to use the bathroom at an event or club knows the majority of men don't wash their hands after they piss. Not hard to figure out when you hear a flushing sound coming from the men's bathroom but mysteriously never hear the water running or the hand dryer but some dude walks out of the bathroom right away. You put 2 and 2 together.
The dudes who do wash their hands are the minority. I know some men wash their hands but some of those men only do it when other people are around to judge them. Like if they're with someone who washes theirs. I'll mention that there's a sharp increase in hand washing in unisex bathrooms. So these men know other people expect them to wash their hands and they know they're supposed to. But they only do when they know others are looking. Smh.
Looks like only 31% of men wash their hands. Hopefully that doesn't include the performative hand washers and 31% is the stat for true hand washers... Ugh I was going to say the majority but damn 69% is getting close to the totality.
This is something that I've found disturbing for a long time. I don't get it. Like you literally put your hand on your dick. Why would you think anyone else has to, for all intents and purposes, have your dick in their own hand to? They don't have a choice but to shake your hand or touch the same door handles, chairs, documents, whatever you touch after handling your dick?! (I don't mean you personally, obviously. But I mean "you", the 69% who are reading this.)
Anyyyway, that's something I realized a long time ago, I just didn't know it was even higher than I thought. Not gonna lie, it's kind of depressing lol I haven't checked the stats for women. I'm sure there are women who don't wash their hands either. But probably not 69%.
Interesting topic. My father once told me when I was a young boy, that I should wash my hands before I take out my pecker to pee and to wash my hands after I pee. When I asked him why before, he replied that what I was touching was god given and sacred and should be treated as such. That thought always stayed with me.
In terms of the spot in the daily schedule, I am not one of the types that considers the first appointment of the day to be the best, or cleanest. I trust that a majority of the ladies practice proper hygiene, it is detrimental to their livelihoods. In fact, I prefer the later appointments as I like to sleep after having a good session, doing so earlier would ruin my day.
In terms of the spot in the daily schedule, I am not one of the types that considers the first appointment of the day to be the best, or cleanest. I trust that a majority of the ladies practice proper hygiene, it is detrimental to their livelihoods. In fact, I prefer the later appointments as I like to sleep after having a good session, doing so earlier would ruin my day.
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I like to be the first or close to first client for the day. But not for hygiene purposes, more for the SPs energy and enthusiasm level. Tends to drop off towards the end of a long day.
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