Can an SP refuse you because your in your 60s? Should I mention it or just turn up and see what happens?:noidea:
Clients age?
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Thanks Julia. Being the gentleman that I am, from now on I going to give them a heads up and what ever happens ... happens.
I always mention my age, then is goes onto weight, then think fuck it and tell my hair loss, since I went this far may as well say a blow in 45 sec, yes.... bring up the small penis and hair on the back.
Fuck..... just gonna cry myself to sleep.
Fuck..... just gonna cry myself to sleep.
Yeah as some peoples said they can refuse you for any reason, its their right, but i never heard of an SP refusing someone because of age. If im basing this on merb's party statistic, its a good chunk of their customer base that is older than 50 
Yes. But that's something that they would/should let you know beforehand. Most of the time an older gent is preferred, saggy balls and all.
Merci les filles pour votre commentaire....et si c"était le cas plusieurs auraient très certainement tourné les talons.....MAIS cela ne m'est JAMAIS JAMAIS arrivé....bien au contraire....comme mentionné.....l'hygiène, bonne attitude, politesse,courtoisie et oui l'expérience sont sûrement les matériaux les plus importants. ...bien avant l'âge...my 2 cents.
I have never been refused, quite the opposite in-fact.
If you are polite and respectful you will have no problem.
btw not all older gents have saggy balls lol.
If you are polite and respectful you will have no problem.
btw not all older gents have saggy balls lol.
If meeting for the first time, I always make it a point to ask if she’ll mind that I’m in my 60’s. They have the right to know, and the right to make up their minds. With the one exception of one who needed to know how far in my sixties, I’ve never been refused. And the respect it generates manifests itself once the door is closed behind you!!
I’ve definitely seen more escorts have an age limit regarding younger guys versus older guys! I know lots of girls who will only meet with gentlemen 35+, 40+... But I have only once seen an escort who refused older men. So older guys: nothing to worry about, go and have all the fun!
I have been a Silver Fox for a couple of years now and age has never been an issue in this hobby. This is a business. These girls are looking for clean,respectful clients and not potential boyfriends. Of course if you are 45+ and go too young you run the risk of not having as a good a connection as you may have with a woman 25+. However, now and then you may be pleasantly surprised and end up having fantastic chemistry with a woman in her early 20s, which has happened to me sometimes. Thank the Lord for emotionally vulnerable young women with Daddy issues...I am eternally grateful! OK I am being glib. Some young sps who are true professionals will want to have a good time with a gentleman they seem to like regardless of the age factor. You have a lot to look forward to,Arthur!
on one hand i am grateful that sps accept or even prefer older gentleman (i am now 50, but look 43 ), but on the other hand it reveals to me that sps do not want any risk of mutual attraction to their clients. An older client is "safe", no chance of falling for him, or the gentleman is less likely to ask out the sex worker because of the age difference...kind of kills the fantasy for me. I like the idea that the sp "could" fall for me, even though that is extremely unlikely.
), but on the other hand it reveals to me that sps do not want any risk of mutual attraction to their clients. An older client is "safe", no chance of falling for him, or the gentleman is less likely to ask out the sex worker because of the age difference...kind of kills the fantasy for me. I like the idea that the sp "could" fall for me, even though that is extremely unlikely.
I think you are overthinking this a little 2fast. Did anyone ever tell you you seem kind of neurotic? LOL. You do actually make an interesting point but it is not something I want to think about; you are running the risk of ruining MY fantasy ha ha. No seriously, just the enjoy the hot moments with these wonderful girls and do not think too much about how they may feel about you "in real life". Remember they are primarily selling dreams, fantasies and stolen moments as much as sex. I do not think older guys are necessarily seen as "safer". I think it has more to do with appreciating respectful clients regardless of age but generally speaking older dudes tend to be more respectful,appreciative and experienced around women. A true pro will lose herself in the passion with you if the chemistry is good. That does not mean she may think of you as bf material once the sex is done. I think that is asking a bit much even if it is a part of your fantasy. Just enjoy the great rides my friend but don´t think too much of what she may feel afterwards.on one hand i am grateful that sps accept or even prefer older gentleman (i am now 50, but look 43
I recently had a few great sessions with a beauty in her early 20s but I am under no delusion that she wants to date me, even though the sex is really hot! Just go with the flow and take these things as they come and be grateful we can still have these great times, even at our age:yo:
This thread is encouraging. I'm 55, got back into the game about three years ago after my long-time marriage fell apart, have absolutely no desire to get back into the dating game or enter into another relationship, and I often wonder how many years I can continue seeing beautiful, young SPs and MPAs. It's part of what drives me to exercise 5-6 times a week and maintain great shape.
As others have stated, it's important (for every guy and especially us older gents) to be well-groomed, have meticulous hygiene and be ultra-respectful.
As others have stated, it's important (for every guy and especially us older gents) to be well-groomed, have meticulous hygiene and be ultra-respectful.
If you tell the provider you are over 50, she will probably prioritize you, not exclude you. It has nothing to do with not wanting to be physically attracted to the client. Nearly every provider will tell you that clients under 25 have a much higher likelihood of being an asshole and at the very least inconsiderate. While there are obviously exceptions, older clients are much more likely to be kind and considerate and treat the girls well.
Whether it is sex work, hairdressing, waitressing, landscaping, or whatever - people prefer not to provide service to assholes.
Whether it is sex work, hairdressing, waitressing, landscaping, or whatever - people prefer not to provide service to assholes.
It's great to have the insight here as it seems many succeed in taking themselves and the service less seriously. Any advice to help someone younger or more susceptible deal with the emotional swings?
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