GG,
Just wondering, do you believe that most SP's in their time off, go clubbing or hang out in bars or other social meeting places? Yes, a lot of the younger ones do go clubbing a lot. How about the rest? Not so much. How does a SP meet a man for a date? Unless she has a good sized social circle, she does not meet that many men for real dates........ even if she has a good sized social circle, most of her close friends that are non-SP's do not want to set her up with their close friends or relatives. So how does she live happily ever after? Like most strippers, she will date her clients, from time to time. Since she is getting a ton of sex at work, she doesn't feel the need to date as much as the average woman, but she still is human & we all need affection & to share our emotions with someone. If she is young, she has gotten used to older men who value her time & beauty(of course, she also likes their freedom with money... compared to boys her age), she will like to be wined & dined, not just a movie & McDonald's. At this point of her life, the boys her age are boring, cheap, stupid, have no class & are bruts in bed- who still think "Dutch Ovens" are funny as sh*t. So how does she meet her boyfriend & who is this man? Most likely, he is a former client that is confident & gets who she is, without judging her.
I am not saying that she loves him. From her advanced knowledge on men, she is very guarded with her heart & emotions. She does need him to feel human & to share things with. He may not even love her. Still they make each other feel good when they are together & that is enough for both of them, for now.
So my short take on the SP world:
SP's don't meet a lot of men that they are attracted to in their normal life.
SP's are human & we all need someone to share things with in our lives.
If SP's had any other way to meet attractive(not just physically, all-around attractiveness), she would, but where does any woman go to meet attractive men that will treat her with respect?
SP's don't consider their clients losers, but yes, they don't find most of them attractive either.
SP's will date a attractive client when they meet him.... but they are very selective.
SP's will tell you they do not mix business with pleasure, because they are not attracted to you, & to be nice to you & to keep your business.
These are not facts, just my opinions..... no need to google anything. Don't worry, I am not saying that you are bad looking or un-attractive, I have never been asked on a date by a SP either. It doesn't change my reality, that most SP's will date clients......... just not me. My question, was more about could the guys handle dating a SP, mentally & emotionally? I still don't know if I got that chance if I could?
Lastly, I don't think attraction is a choice for anyone. Also you cannot bore anyone into liking you. None of this post is a attack on anyone. Peace