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Halloween Mike

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I do not see it as unusual at all. I only want kissing if it's a very pretty face. That's probably less than 5% of the female population.
This may be your issue. If only 5% of the female population is "very pretty", your brain may have been affected in some way. Right away in my case of all the SPs i seen (most being face blurred) the vast majority of them were "very pretty". More than the usual women i would see in metro or such.

But hey some peoples say Sydney Sweeney is "mid" facially so clearly in my view peoples have unrealistic standards.
 
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This may be your issue. If only 5% of the female population is "very pretty", your brain may have been affected in some way.
My brain is not affected in any way. If I am very impressed by the face, I want to kiss it. It's subjective, and that's it. As you mentioned most SPs pics are blurred, so whether I ask for the service is entirely unpredictable. But in practical experience, it has been rare.

If I see an SP, it's primarily for getting a BBBJ. It's substantially more the case now than ever before because, I am not ashamed to admit, age, and more specifically high blood pressure medications associated with age, have robbed me of consistent erectile functionality. The good news is I always enjoyed BBBJ more than fucking anyway. The bad news is, it kind of sucks not being able to maintain a consistent boner.
 
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Super curious as well !!

I love kissing too. It's part of the experience to me. It's always a little awkward for me when someone doesnt want to kiss but of course I dont force it haha. If I was a client I wouldn't book someone who won't kiss.

Im also a huge fan of oral both ways, so if I was a client that would probably be super important.

Curious to see clients replies!
Kissing brings me to a full hard on getting ready for that deep slippery bj then a deep pounding! Makes all the difference with it! No kissing and a covered BJ just will not make me solid hard!
 

kkrack

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Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?


I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

It depends really on the level of attractiveness, charisma and price of the girl.

If she's average looking and no bbbj but the 2 other go and she's charging 300$ I will say pass. For another girl who is a smoke show at the same price I would probably say or course. I don't think it is a one solution fits all.

A lesser attracrive man could be ok with the girl I wouldn't be interested in
 

Halloween Mike

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Kissing brings me to a full hard on getting ready for that deep slippery bj then a deep pounding! Makes all the difference with it! No kissing and a covered BJ just will not make me solid hard!
Same. Its what start the engine for me. lol
 

DouMan

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Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?


I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious

In a worse case scenario, the first 2 I could pass and not be a deal breaker . . . however for DATY that would be a definite deal breaker if not offered.

I well know that a big part of an encounter is a fantasy, make-believe, and the most successful SPs are those that can make us believe it's true to some point. Being in the 'senior' age group if by offering cunnilingus I can be led to believe that I can still offer some pleasure to a woman, even for a few moments, that will definitely be the highlight of my day.
 
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mat514

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As long as she visually matches my taste, I just care about feeling my dick inside something :p

None of these are dealbreakers for me
 

philonius

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For me its digit the more important one all the other one i can pass and im good with it !
The more I think about it digits are very important to me too. I love to finger while I eat, while we kiss, while she goes down on me. I bought a nail file just for this purpose lol.
 
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chowzilla

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I don't have any absolute deal breakers, however if there are multiple things missing (looks, services, attitude), that's when I have the courage to refuse.

if we are talking about the window-shopping phase, I think we are all the same trying to find the full package, looks and service.

One thing does give me the ick
when the girl says "babe" during the booking process

"Hi Babe"
"Yes Babe"
"Ok Babe"

holy fake attitude. that's just me tho
 

sharpsharp

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I’m currently shopping for services for the upcoming weeks, and here’s my approach:

I keep three tabs open: one with a lexicon of terms, one for SP reviews, and one listing the SPs and the services they offer.

I shortlist SPs who have good reviews and include terms of interest to me, for example, BBBJ.

It’s not a strict requirement, tho. I think of it as a percentage system: BBBJ might count for 50%, and my threshold is 70%. That means I’d need another feature or term to reach that 70%.

A full package would be worth 100%. Extras would push the total above 100%, which might make me willing to pay more to secure my spot.

On the opposite side, If one day I find an anal goddess then I will transform into an ATM machine.
 

spabble

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ATM ------> Automated teller machine

A2M ------> ass to mouth.

because they both would otherwise have the same letters, the above are the traditionally accepted acronyms that help differentiate the two.
 
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LeDodo

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@LC18's joke and the replies
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Simple questions, 3 answers would you still book if those weren’t offered:

Kissing in a session, dealbreaker or not?

BBBJ in a session, dealbreaker or not?

DATY in a session, dealbreaker or not?


I’ve asked them separately because people all have different needs and I’m curious
Kissing: definitely required to repeat
BBBJ: dealbreaker
DATY: as a newbie, rather not DATY as still worried about STI, probably not logical to worry about this but still do.
 

LC18

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Kissing: definitely required to repeat
BBBJ: dealbreaker
DATY: as a newbie, rather not DATY as still worried about STI, probably not logical to worry about this but still do.

Why do you think there’s more risk with DATY than BBBJ?
 
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