DFK - Don't be an idiot

[Biggie Smalls]

To be honest, if someone's inquiry is "dfk" first thing and I do meet them, it's more often than not bad, aggressive, wet slobbery kissing and right away.
I kiss, and consider it a specialty of mine, but when it's done like this I can't show off my skills and feel like just giving up. It ceases to be a mutual act, and something gross being done to me that I don't want.
And like another provider said, oral hygiene is a must and if in this situation it's subpar or worse, it becomes something I want to try to get out of.
I've had more than one awful experience with this, and am ready to banish dfk to the tundra. I offer lfk and it becomes more than lfk naturally, so be it -- it is then a mutual act I enjoy.
I do like kissing, but not my face being eaten.

What if I want to use my tongue far enough to taste your breakfast?

 

[jmioffe]

lol, this thread reminds me of this Chris Rock bit.

"When a man is sucking your dick, he can pretend that's something else. When he's eating ass, he knows it's ass"

I can understand how DFK with an unhygenic dude might as well be eating ass.

 

[mauricevachon]

"DFK, its a give and take situation and some say should be included in a GFE session. Well, I have been in a fair share of relationships and I have to tell you, its not always available even when in a relationship."

Exactly.
DFK is highly personal.
No one can expect it.
No one should demand it.

You can buy sex.
You can even buy LFK.
But DFK has to be earned.

 

[Anong]

do not agree with OP post. Each person is different. I will always tell upfront that I seek DFK. During the session I will not push it though, but if there is no DFK or just LFK then I will NOT repeat and move on to the next one. Passionate DFK will make me want to repeat.

I do agree, DFK is a deal breaker like you. But with top notch hygiene, I do care of hygiene very well.

It happened 2 times I did get a big DFK even before I had time to say anything at first meeting.

Yes! It always happened every time I saw Camille Haring. I was able to take one shoe off but she did not let me to take other shoe (no joke).

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Im older now and dfk turns me on faster and more than even a bbbj or daty

Yeah, DFK is the best aphrodisiac for me, works within a few seconds with the right girl.

 

[gaby]

Agree....same for me...agit instantanément....et annonce un bon moment intense.....and as mentionned getting older c'est devenu un incontournable....lolllll

 

[Carmine Falcone]

Exactly.
DFK is highly personal.
No one can expect it.
No one should demand it.

You can buy sex.
You can even buy LFK.
But DFK has to be earned.

This post is confounding to me. If your hygiene is not up to par, you can get rejected for LFK and sex too, not just DFK. The only two relevant questions are, "Does the SP offer DFK?" and "Is your mouth hygiene at that moment good enough to receive it?" If an SP doesn't offer a specific service, including DFK, badgering her for it is 100% counterproductive.

Yes, DFK IS personal. But the hobby has also evolved from CBJ to BBBJ and zero kissing to making out like she is going to have your baby. If an SP generally offers DFK but rejects you, the issue may be you. But if your overall point is don't pressure a woman to offer a service she typically doesn't offer, we're in agreement there.

 

[Kenshiro2029]

This post is confounding to me. If your hygiene is not up to par, you can get rejected for LFK and sex too, not just DFK. The only two relevant questions are, "Does the SP offer DFK?" and "Is your mouth hygiene at that moment good enough to receive it?" If an SP doesn't offer a specific service, including DFK, badgering her for it is 100% counterproductive.

Yes, DFK IS personal. But the hobby has also evolved from CBJ to BBBJ and zero kissing to making out like she is going to have your baby. If an SP generally offers DFK but rejects you, the issue may be you. But if your overall point is don't pressure a woman to offer a service she typically doesn't offer, we're in agreement there.

This is something I cannot really understand, please guys be patient with me. This lovely SP maybe had another 5 or 6 clients before, why would you demand DFK?? I don’t get it. As I say all the tome, “you cannot buy desire” so I think DFk is something should not be demanded but something natural. I guess?

 

[Rebaynia]

Not necessarily disagree but would like to see sp’s input on this

I personally prefer kissing... I honestly don't like when a guy asks for no kissing.. It really hits home where he feels I fit in the mix... Besides for me kissing is a way I can sense and judge where to go from there, and helps make the visit more intimate than strictly work and get to business...
When I go in for a kiss, and am met with sorry no kissing, my excitement for the situation drops dramatically, and am likely to not want to return...
While at the same time if he is so excited and passionate in his kissing that I can feel just how desired I am by him, I get excited to please.

 

[Anna Bijou]

This is something I cannot really understand, please guys be patient with me. This lovely SP maybe had another 5 or 6 clients before, why would you demand DFK?? I don’t get it. As I say all the tome, “you cannot buy desire” so I think DFk is something should not be demanded but something natural. I guess?

Hold your horses, 5 or 6. Lol I've never been tempted to see anywhere near that many clients in a day. Even when I toured. Kudos to providers who do it, I'm assuming that's just how it works at a busy agency. The agency I worked for in Vancouver when I started never booked that many though. It wouldn't have been possible since there was one incall for a few of us. I would have totally burned out & not lasted very long.

 

[Foodie]

There has been a previous thread on the importance of kissing and all its variations that generated heated discussions.

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/the-importance-of-kissing.185620/

Kissing is essential. DFK is not, but in the heat of passion, mutually desired DFK is so hot.
foodie

 

[Rebaynia]

no wonder some sps need to use lube

The lube isn't exactly needed for her not being arroused dryness. Condoms can irritate the sencitive lining inside and cause regular microtears, it's just a wise practise to use the lube even if she is wet because the friction can dry it out, even if she is aroused.

 

[Anna Bijou]

The famous "Jessy" who worked for "Celine" Celine Fantasies then went out on her own and owned Montreal Sex City probably 10 yrs back or so ws a friend and id meet her between appointments downtown.She told me I particuar week she saw 50 clients!

Wild.

I actually remember her. That's when I lived in Vancouver but would visit once in a while and I remember chatting with her a few times. She was a superstar from what I remember lol

no wonder some sps need to use lube

Please don't perpetuate this belief about lube. Lube is safer for condom use and better for pleasure regardless of what your partner looks like. xo

 

[bamer]

Wild.

I actually remember her. That's when I lived in Vancouver but would visit once in a while and I remember chatting with her a few times. She was a superstar from what I remember lol





Please don't perpetuate this belief about lube. Lube is safer for condom use and better for pleasure regardless of what your partner looks like. xo

Wild.

I actually remember her. That's when I lived in Vancouver but would visit once in a while and I remember chatting with her a few times. She was a superstar from what I remember lol





Please don't perpetuate this belief about lube. Lube is safer for condom use and better for pleasure regardless of what your partner looks like. xo

Wild.

I actually remember her. That's when I lived in Vancouver but would visit once in a while and I remember chatting with her a few times. She was a superstar from what I remember lol





Please don't perpetuate this belief about lube. Lube is safer for condom use and better for pleasure regardless of what your partner looks like. xo

As much as I enjoy LFK & DFK I started to avoid both because I was catching a cold or flu at almost every occasion with an escort. I tell them as soon as they walk in of my preference and it seems that there is never a problem, a matter of fact, I think they enjoy my company even more because of it.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

a matter of fact, I think they enjoy my company even more because of it.

Most likely

 

[Don Julio]

Never a fan of DFK even with previous girlfriends or ex-wife. Same with DATO, I mean really? Personal choice.

 

[Nachoy]

Like to read a comment from SP that don’t allow kissing
I find it awkward to resist kissing when I am hugging
Would client kissing on neck /cheek/ear be okay then?

 

[Rebaynia]

Like to read a comment from SP that don’t allow kissing
I find it awkward to resist kissing when I am hugging
Would client kissing on neck /cheek/ear be okay then?

That isn't me... but i believe it has something to do with keeping that intimacy for their relationship only... some people have trouble keeping their heart out of the equation and kissing becomes too personal for them. It breaks the professional barrier. Lol guess french blooded girls are just built differently. If it's about viruses, reality is your breathing within eachothers personal space, your not actually protected from their cold or flu being so close to eachother.

I've got a counter question for guys... what is it with guys asking for daty, but no kissing???
Personally my answer is if your not willing to kiss me your not kissing there.

 

[Gazoo64]

I've got a counter question for guys... what is it with guys asking for daty, but no kissing???
Personally my answer is if your not willing to kiss me you’re not kissing there.

I have no clue since I like DFK (when the lady permits it), but I am not so much into DATY.

But I agree, if the guy asks for DATY, you’d figure kissing would be a given! ‍♂️

 

[Fradi]

This is something I cannot really understand, please guys be patient with me. This lovely SP maybe had another 5 or 6 clients before, why would you demand DFK?? I don’t get it. As I say all the tome, “you cannot buy desire” so I think DFk is something should not be demanded but something natural. I guess?

I don’t think anything should be demanded.
You should do your homework and seek out the provider that you are attracted to and the services she provides so you won’t be disappointed.
Even when you do that there is no guarantee that you will receive exactly what you are looking for but eventually you will find some amazing ladies who will not disappoint.