Dinner date?

[Mithridate]

I have never been with an Escort never needed to up until now.
If you read my previous post you will know why, I don't want to repeat it.
I struggle with the fact that I will turn into a person that can use a woman purely as an object to satisfy a sexual desire.
That is not what I am all about, I enjoy a women's company on all levels, but it has up until now always been because she wanted to be with me not because I was paying her to.
It is not about the money, it never will be, after all I can't take it with me, money is meant to buy things to improve your quality of life.
Perhaps I am not cut out for the escort world, who knows.
But if I do take the plunge and enter into this world, It would be nice to start with someone like you, who by all your posts seems to take genuine interest in her clients beyond just the obvious sexual encounter.

Hi Sam
There is always a first time, and before 1996 as you, I never needed it, but my life changed
When you say that you will turn into a person who will se an SP as an object for sexual desire, I can understand that especially if you have never took the plunge, but these fine ladies, especially independent have chosen to do this kind of work, when you are with them it is the attitude, yours and hers that make an encounter so blissful, you can search for some who like to exchange emails before, to know you a bit and vice et versa, and believe me after a couple of times you forget the donation and you will not see them as object, there are gems out there, I know a few, especially one, and god knows the term GFE experience take is full meaning even within the boundaries of these encounters that are "sans attaches et libres"
One day you will have to build a wall between being with someone as a wife, girlfriend and an SP, believe me, dating to find someone you will love and cherish at our ages is very complex, and sometime I give up, I prefer to enjoy the company of ladies, either for social time , dinner time , overnight, or a week end, and there is more , much more then just the physical aspect, you have tenderness, sensuality, etc, that cannot be faked, sure there is a price, but now, in the present, for me, it is irrelevant, and I do it as much as my financial status can permit me, sorry for bad english, but i think you got the point
Qapla
J

 

[rollingstone]

Nothing wrong with gathering info, but contributing to the topic of this thread 'dinner date' is like me never owning a dog and then going to a dog forum and discussing the pros and cons of owning a rottweiler vs a doberman.

I was once a newbie and gathered info and asked questions (like the original poster in this thread), but I did not start arguing about social time vs private time with an escort without having ever spent time with one.

 

[Numerati]

Well you guys have your way of interacting with women and qualifying them which is great. I have my own. I am someone who is always testing woman sometimes on purpose sometimes it is not so that is how I gauge things to see if she is worth dealing with long term. SP or not. As long you guys are doing it with respect for her and yourself that is cool. I don't know what is the right or wrong way and honestly I don't think there is any. Just what works for you.

 

[Guillaume]

You better make sure that your lady has some conversation otherwise your dinner will be pretty boring. To spice-up the meal, you can always ask her to go to the washroom and remove her panty and have her place it in your pocket in front of everyone.
I also remember a high end one who took the guy to the washroom at le Latini and gave him a blow job in the ladies rooms. Every women who went there came back telling everyone. There was a rush to the basement. When she came back the SP had a big smile on her face and showed her middle finger to everyone in the restaurant. What a trooper. She was one of FKS top ladies.