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Lily from Montreal
If I have desserts (the food kind) I only have desserts...mind you for longer meeting then 2hr I warn my date he has to feed me...chocolate ,fruits and wine is a ideal lunch menu for me lol
Dinner date?
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So what would be the difference from paying twice the rate during sex to have dinner off the clock to paying a reduced rate for a dinner?
I have a few times taken an SP for drinks or a dinner. I like to oggle their bosoms and face and get as titilated as possible and show her off a tiny bit too. Last time, a well known busty blond kept adjusting her bra straps during our dinner. Took my breath away. One time, a girl said I'm off the clock now since I have no more appointments. We spent a good 4 hours together. She then, at last minute, said gee, could you throw in a little extra cause of all the time I spent? I ended up paying close to 4 full hours of fee and felt cheated, a bit, after all she was a knockout and everyone has to make a living.
I prefer an encounter in hotel lounge for a drink. Upstairs for a session, then dinner and session #2 and I expect a lower rate for the dinner. If that is an hour for meet/first session, then an hour for dinner, then round 2 is a third hour. Should cost 2.5 the hourly rate. However, as I get older a second SOG is pretty hard so I usually do round 2 as just a DATY and HJ combo. Not sure if this helps?
I prefer an encounter in hotel lounge for a drink. Upstairs for a session, then dinner and session #2 and I expect a lower rate for the dinner. If that is an hour for meet/first session, then an hour for dinner, then round 2 is a third hour. Should cost 2.5 the hourly rate. However, as I get older a second SOG is pretty hard so I usually do round 2 as just a DATY and HJ combo. Not sure if this helps?
We all have different needs and preferences, there is no need to judge people or berate their choices. If I was hobbying in the same city I live in (something I never do), then yes I would completely prefer meeting someone only for an indoor only meet. I would also have a preference for incall. But I do not live in Montreal, and visit it maybe only once or twice a year, and hence I have a different agenda than many hobbyists who live there. I would never pay someone their full hourly rate for an encounter that included social time, but I will compensate them in accordance with what is the norm for that market. As for paying someone for a social only encounter, not something I would do, but again to each his own.
Personally my idea of spoiling myself is an 8 hour session that includes indoor and outdoor activities. After 10 years of hobbying I know what keeps me smiling. And I spent way more money on 1-2 hour sessions with a parade of beauties going through my room and not been nearly as content.
Personally my idea of spoiling myself is an 8 hour session that includes indoor and outdoor activities. After 10 years of hobbying I know what keeps me smiling. And I spent way more money on 1-2 hour sessions with a parade of beauties going through my room and not been nearly as content.
I understand what you meant, and I know its not an insult, my friend.
Actually I kind of feel the same way, I know being alone sucks but if I will have to pay for conversation, I feel that it shows my weakness, I hate to admit I am weak... I will just accept that I am by myself.
like you said, whatever makes you happy.
A dinner date, club dancing and then a stroll through town back to your classy hotel room... 007 or whatever fantasy you wanna rock. Common people, sure I can take a friend or a friend's wife to dinner but I sure as hell can't fulfill the fantasy without the guilt!! :smile:
I like to make some kind of philosophic questionning in life to help understand how others could think. :lol:
Tell me, what is the best for the self-esteem, at the end?
To be in public with a beautiful woman exchanging agreeably over a good meal and sharing some other activities
or to be in private with the same beautiful woman without talking at all? :lol:
I'm kidding here, but I think you get the point.
Some are just sapiosexual and their pleasures goes beyond the first level only, and to be able to appreciate someone entirely give them much more pleasures at the end.
Yes, their enjoyment is ten times higher. I think is a very good reason then to share a dinner date. :nod:
Maybe sometimes, you don't have to go the route of BDSM to try to put more pleasures in your life in a different way :lol:
In the other hand, I feel always disappointed to see people who are not living the same realities negatively judging others.
That's exactly how wars were beginning on earth, because others were having a different God, a different language, different habits etc........
At the end, we are all humans, not totally build on the same schemes, not having the same sensibility, and this is very fine. Imagine how dull it will be if so..... horror story :angel:
Nota Bene: by the way, it is just not a coincidence that it is written often a kind of message saying:
"you are paying for my time & my presence and whatever may happen or not is a matter of a personal choice between 2 consenting adults"
I know, for some, that's just a way to stay away from some investigation, but at the end, I have been always surprised that some ladies were dropping that much there donation when it was for "social only" because they were implicitly admitting then something directly, and also it is a kind of depreciation of their time, but we are all entitle to deal it the way we feel it is right. I know that's a very erotic part of an encounter for some gentlemen, so why not deal with it almost equally about "the rest of the encounter"?
Whatever it imply, an encounter is still an encounter: the preparation is the same, to be of a good company is the same, the basic entertaining is the same, if I may say it like that. In fact, it demands less to someone to just be "beautiful without talking" (sois belle et tais-toi) then to be able to entertain and connect on different subjects and even to be able to make laugh your host or your guest. I think that's just different levels of erotism at the end, but still it is.
That's part of the fantasy, the building of this little private bubble we are building to make disappear the rest of the world, for few hours.
Tell me, what is the best for the self-esteem, at the end?
To be in public with a beautiful woman exchanging agreeably over a good meal and sharing some other activities
or to be in private with the same beautiful woman without talking at all? :lol:
I'm kidding here, but I think you get the point.
Some are just sapiosexual and their pleasures goes beyond the first level only, and to be able to appreciate someone entirely give them much more pleasures at the end.
Yes, their enjoyment is ten times higher. I think is a very good reason then to share a dinner date. :nod:
Maybe sometimes, you don't have to go the route of BDSM to try to put more pleasures in your life in a different way :lol:
In the other hand, I feel always disappointed to see people who are not living the same realities negatively judging others.
That's exactly how wars were beginning on earth, because others were having a different God, a different language, different habits etc........
At the end, we are all humans, not totally build on the same schemes, not having the same sensibility, and this is very fine. Imagine how dull it will be if so..... horror story :angel:
Nota Bene: by the way, it is just not a coincidence that it is written often a kind of message saying:
"you are paying for my time & my presence and whatever may happen or not is a matter of a personal choice between 2 consenting adults"
I know, for some, that's just a way to stay away from some investigation, but at the end, I have been always surprised that some ladies were dropping that much there donation when it was for "social only" because they were implicitly admitting then something directly, and also it is a kind of depreciation of their time, but we are all entitle to deal it the way we feel it is right. I know that's a very erotic part of an encounter for some gentlemen, so why not deal with it almost equally about "the rest of the encounter"?
Whatever it imply, an encounter is still an encounter: the preparation is the same, to be of a good company is the same, the basic entertaining is the same, if I may say it like that. In fact, it demands less to someone to just be "beautiful without talking" (sois belle et tais-toi) then to be able to entertain and connect on different subjects and even to be able to make laugh your host or your guest. I think that's just different levels of erotism at the end, but still it is.
That's part of the fantasy, the building of this little private bubble we are building to make disappear the rest of the world, for few hours.
sam21,
with all due respect
i understand that from your point of view it is useless to pay for bringing an sp for the part that is let say social.
but i wonder it hasn't cross your mind that you may build a conenction through that social time.
which will have the consequence to enhance your session and future meeting..
with all due respect
i understand that from your point of view it is useless to pay for bringing an sp for the part that is let say social.
but i wonder it hasn't cross your mind that you may build a conenction through that social time.
which will have the consequence to enhance your session and future meeting..
not all providers only provide sex, many of us are companions. Some people may see it as sad to only pay for sex and not establish a connection with another human being if you are going to repeatedly call on them for sexual services. But as you said, it is all opinion.
Seeking arrangement is expensive as well... and I heard now many ask for allowance beforehand.. imagine you pay a girl from backpage and she takes it and runs away... happened to me once.
Too sad I got zero matches on Tinder..
But on that website you get more than pre established hours with girls. I think it's more worth it but I have to admit I never tried... My golden rule is to never make a sp know that you are vulnerable or desperate.. to me dining with a complete stranger from 800$ and more portrays one of the two. Sorry for your experience.
You have a very good point, I think this would apply to real dating as well. I made a very similar mistake.. and then got manipulated by that girl.. since I showed almost none self-respect.
However dinning with your all time favorite sp, may feel different, as you are comfortable to each other.
Well for one I would never take a civilian girl to say Toque or Verses on a first date. No the Hell way. Civilian girl has to earn it. For an SP if I think she is worth it already earned that right and privilege to be wined and dined at a fine restaurant early on.
I have been on dating site on and off for the last 20 years, I have met many ladies ( civilian girl, first time i hear that expression ) it was always in front of a coffee, after that if there was a connection, I would bring her to a restaurant, or should we say we would go to a restaurant and since we are still in the process of knowing each other it is normal ( at least my fellow workers , all women advise me not to pay the total bill) that we have separate bill, I was never at ease with that, but i do not think its about earning, because earning imply that she must do some thing, like what?
After a certain time depending of the situation I was paying the bill, but then again this a very personal decision, and it is not about gallantry, gallantry is something else
Qapla
M.
Well, on this subject, i will wine, dine and even go to a special place for desert, i am not only doing this for them, its something i enjoy, and going to a nice restaurant with someone and enjoying good food and conversation, i cant really put a price on it, whether its a civilian or working girl. I can say its more enjoyable then being alone, well you can claim your a food critic just so you dont look like you have no friends.
And on the topic of the bill,check, tab, whatever you want to call it, i will always pay for a lady, whether its a bad or good date, i cant see asking a lady to pay, its just not something i can do, i guess you can say i have a little old fashion in me.
Thor Jr
And on the topic of the bill,check, tab, whatever you want to call it, i will always pay for a lady, whether its a bad or good date, i cant see asking a lady to pay, its just not something i can do, i guess you can say i have a little old fashion in me.
Thor Jr
There is actually a very good Japanese TV show called "Kodoku no Gurume", means “a lonely food critic"
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