Dinner dates and overnights

[LC18]

Me personally if the rates of indy SP were more cheaper, I would book her more often. There is an great SP that have up her rates recently and now she is out of my range. It is sad because her clientele was disable people and most of the time these people are on welfare (I know because I'm disabled and was on welfare and I know most of them who book SP). Still love her and understand her choices but I don't think she will have lot of disable client more regularly. They will just save for couple of months and when they have enough they will call her or an SP with lower rates.

I know a few of us have reduce rates for people with disabilities. It’s worth asking or looking up

 

[blow20102010]

I know a few of us have reduce rates for people with disabilities. It’s worth asking or looking up

It is the reduce rate that I am reffering. Anyway, me personally if the rate of any SP was cheaper, I would book longer date or book regularly.

 

[LC18]

Thank you @runninggag123

 

[NatashaSnow]

Drinks, getting acquainted, sex, shower, dinner, drinks, massage, sex, shower, cuddle and relax, good night sunshine and sweet dreams.

ooohhh dear love muffin you *for sure* would be showering before any sex would happen.. and how is one supposed to look nice and be dolled up showering so many times and all?

But i must warn you, you may wake up in the middle of the night with my head between your legs, i tend to get hungry late at night. A lite snack never hurts.

Oh, and i have a CPAP machine, so if you find yourself tangled up in my hose, dont think I'm into bondage...

I won’t think you’re into bondage but this certainly reads like you’re into CNC without the first C….

if we’re all physically here and you would’ve said that, im sure there would’ve been an awkward silence and we would’ve all looked at each other like “who gonna tell him?” - which would’ve given you an opportunity to read the room but unfortunately we’re not all here in person and you didn’t read the room so I’ll TOFTT as you call it.

Do you know how creepy that just sounded?? A little “late night snack” never hurt - yeah maybe, but if it’s served with a side of knuckle sandwich it does … cause that’s what would happen the day a client pulls some non consensual shit like this with me.

I sure as fuck hope such things would be discussed beforehand but the “surprise entanglement” tells me that wasn’t even on your radar.

 

[LC18]

I forgot to ask.

What do you think of duo dinner dates and duo overnights?

 

[ThunderLipps]

I met an escort on BP a decade or so ago, she would not charge for the time dining, Lady Ino if my memory is correct. It made for a nice evening as we took our time no rush.

 

[Julia Sky]

In fact, I think it should be discounted as the cost of the dinner should be factored in (I am assuming $200-300)
An ideal dinner date should be 3-4 hours + the time to get to the incall/outcall location

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I don't understand how duo overnight can work unless there is a custom bed that allows for 3 people to sleep in comfortably. I also believe that all 3 people involved need to know each other very well to make this enjoyable, and I am primarily referring to the resting part.

200-300 per person? Most dinners aren't that expensive but if someone would rather give me an extra 300 instead then I mean I'd gladly pay for my own food, to be honest. Lmao !! Most of us who offer social dates do have a lower rate for this already, however.

As for the overnight thing, I've had overnight duos before and a king size bed works well in my opinion!

 

[curly]

Personally, for a first rendez-vous, I prefer no intercourses and no act. 3 hours diner social date is perfect.
It’s all about desire.
I have changed my mind in the past, I was fortunate enough that my equal was willing and available for an extra hour.

Professionally, I am fortunate enough to be free and to send my guess towards my funnel of preferences. My niche prefers to establish a relationship and to get to know each others before the act. I have done exception too.

For overnight, I am neither a guess nor a host, it’s something I reserve for my private life. King size bed and personal room is preferred.

Why dont you book a civilian girl for that dîner then? Many of them would be thrilled going out on a flirty date, knowing they're is no pressure/wish for sex right after.

 

[theyellowman]

I forgot to ask.

What do you think of duo dinner dates and duo overnights?

I did a Duo dinner date longtimes ago with my 2 regulars SP. It was my most memorable experience in my life. . I got a hotel suite with big windows everywhere and having sex with city view..!! that was wonderful night!

 

[LC18]

hotel suite with big windows everywhere

I love floor to ceiling windows. I always wonder if people in the nearby buildings can see me. Definitely adds an extra layer of excitement

 

[theyellowman]

I love floor to ceiling windows. I always wonder if people in the nearby buildings can see me. Definitely adds an extra layer of excitement

Hihi exactly! I had 2 ladies in front the windows..!! My dream came truth haha

 

[What's My Name]

I love floor to ceiling windows. I always wonder if people in the nearby buildings can see me. Definitely adds an extra layer of excitement

I love when it's the lady thast offers to keep the curtains open

 

[Julia Sky]

Yeah I love this too! I have very fond memories of the few times I got railed against a hotel window. I'm always hoping some horny guy across the street will notice me.

 

[LC18]

The more I think about it and the more I realize that brunch/dinner dates are a good first encounter for people that are shy.

For those who suffer from performance anxiety, it can be a good way to break the ice. Going for dinner first and getting to know each other before spending more private time together.

I’ve recently had an extended dinner date and we did: private time, dinner, private time.

 

[LC18]

What do you actually expect from a dinner date and from an overnight?

 

[cru_33]

So I would be a "take me on a date" overnight package kind of guy.

How about this, an overnight "all included" rate. You charge the total hours, whatever rate you're comfortable with, add the food/beverages/lodging expenses to the cost, and you treat the man to a date:


- Dinner at Restaurant of the SP choosing
- Hotel or Incall of the SP's choosing
- Fixed # of hours total (sexy time could be before or after, based on preferences... Personally I like both... Let's make out and share oral orgasms before supper, and then flirt and tease the whole time, and wrestle in bed after supper.


About expectations, I would think, dinner dates should be at a reduced rate plus the ladies expenses are paid for.

For the overnights, I think that it should be only available for people that have seen you before, because that's a lot of pressure and potential for disaster otherwise. And I would say, a 10 hour package, that includes +/- 2 hours of sexy time, and 8 hours of miscellaneous chilling/sleeping/enjoying each other's company, and anything that happens, happens...

I wouldn't plan an overnight with someone I just wanted to rail either... I would book 1-2 hours, rail away and then go sleep at home. If I'm overnighting, it's because I genuinely have a GF connection with the person, and want to spend quality time with them, and play pretend for a night.

 

[LC18]

And I would say, a 10 hour package, that includes +/- 2 hours of sexy time, and 8 hours of miscellaneous

An overnight is typically 12 to 16 hours because you still have to sleep and most people would appreciate at the very least 7 hours. That’s the intention but it doesn’t always end up being that way due to stress, excitement, novelty and not sleeping in your own bed. I know I usually sleep 5-6 hours on overnights so the following day for me is basically not a fully functional day.

Range varies from $1,000 to 10,000 for a night (those are rates I’ve seen on ads and websites) most of my friends and I are around $2,000-3,500

 

[LC18]

The main reason i always doing the bedroom stuff before going out for dinner is that it’s been my experience that lovemaking with a full stomach has never worked for me. I feel bloated, heavier & often sleepy after eating.

I’m with you on that, I feel a lot sexier when my stomach is reasonably empty. Not so much that it starts roaring like a lion but just enough that I don’t feel 4 months pregnant. That’s the sweet spot.

I always try to suggest sexy time before dinner.

 

[cru_33]

An overnight is typically 12 to 16 hours because you still have to sleep and most people would appreciate at the very least 7 hours. That’s the intention but it doesn’t always end up being that way due to stress, excitement, novelty and not sleeping in your own bed. I know I usually sleep 5-6 hours on overnights so the following day for me is basically not a fully functional day.

Range varies from $1,000 to 10,000 for a night (those are rates I’ve seen on ads and websites) most of my friends and I are around $2,000-3,500

That makes sense. I had figured that 8 hours sleep might not come easy, and might not be desired if the connection is right, but definitely 10 hours is short in my example, and 12 to 16 hours sounds great. Pricier, but reasonably so.

 

[LC18]

I am assuming an overnight rate of $3000 for 14 hours based on the numbers LC has given. Let's say the SP usually charges $1000 for a 4 hour dinner date which includes the public time.
This means the client is essentially paying $2000 for 8 hours of "sleep and cuddles". That's a 250/H rate.

A lot of times the overnights started at 8:00 PM so sexy time, sleep and then more sexy time in the morning before breakfast.