I know a few of us have reduce rates for people with disabilities. It’s worth asking or looking up
Dinner dates and overnights
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I know a few of us have reduce rates for people with disabilities. It’s worth asking or looking up
It is the reduce rate that I am reffering. Anyway, me personally if the rate of any SP was cheaper, I would book longer date or book regularly.
Drinks, getting acquainted, sex, shower, dinner, drinks, massage, sex, shower, cuddle and relax, good night sunshine and sweet dreams.
ooohhh dear love muffin you *for sure* would be showering before any sex would happen.. and how is one supposed to look nice and be dolled up showering so many times and all?
But i must warn you, you may wake up in the middle of the night with my head between your legs, i tend to get hungry late at night. A lite snack never hurts.
Oh, and i have a CPAP machine, so if you find yourself tangled up in my hose, dont think I'm into bondage...
I won’t think you’re into bondage but this certainly reads like you’re into CNC without the first C….
if we’re all physically here and you would’ve said that, im sure there would’ve been an awkward silence and we would’ve all looked at each other like “who gonna tell him?” - which would’ve given you an opportunity to read the room but unfortunately we’re not all here in person and you didn’t read the room so I’ll TOFTT as you call it.
Do you know how creepy that just sounded?? A little “late night snack” never hurt - yeah maybe, but if it’s served with a side of knuckle sandwich it does … cause that’s what would happen the day a client pulls some non consensual shit like this with me.
I sure as fuck hope such things would be discussed beforehand but the “surprise entanglement” tells me that wasn’t even on your radar.
I forgot to ask.
What do you think of duo dinner dates and duo overnights?
What do you think of duo dinner dates and duo overnights?
I've never booked either, but would consider dinner dates if the price structures made more sense.
Dinner first, it builds up the excitement and helps me to eat less, as I don't want to have the private time on full stomach.
As an example, a 3 hour dinner date should not cost more than 1.5 hours of GFE + 1,5 hours of social time. In fact, I think it should be discounted as the cost of the dinner should be factored in (I am assuming $200-300)
An ideal dinner date should be 3-4 hours + the time to get to the incall/outcall location
Duo dinner date sounds intriguing, but I feel like sitting with two very attractive women at dinner could make it a bit obvious to other patrons. However there is also a lot of excitement in that.
I don't understand how duo overnight can work unless there is a custom bed that allows for 3 people to sleep in comfortably. I also believe that all 3 people involved need to know each other very well to make this enjoyable, and I am primarily referring to the resting part.
Dinner first, it builds up the excitement and helps me to eat less, as I don't want to have the private time on full stomach.
As an example, a 3 hour dinner date should not cost more than 1.5 hours of GFE + 1,5 hours of social time. In fact, I think it should be discounted as the cost of the dinner should be factored in (I am assuming $200-300)
An ideal dinner date should be 3-4 hours + the time to get to the incall/outcall location
Duo dinner date sounds intriguing, but I feel like sitting with two very attractive women at dinner could make it a bit obvious to other patrons. However there is also a lot of excitement in that.
I don't understand how duo overnight can work unless there is a custom bed that allows for 3 people to sleep in comfortably. I also believe that all 3 people involved need to know each other very well to make this enjoyable, and I am primarily referring to the resting part.
I met an escort on BP a decade or so ago, she would not charge for the time dining, Lady Ino if my memory is correct. It made for a nice evening as we took our time no rush.
200-300 per person? Most dinners aren't that expensive but if someone would rather give me an extra 300 instead then I mean I'd gladly pay for my own food, to be honest. Lmao !! Most of us who offer social dates do have a lower rate for this already, however.
As for the overnight thing, I've had overnight duos before and a king size bed works well in my opinion!
You are right, I should have divided by 2. So $100-150. But my point was that the cost of a X-Hour Dinner Date should not be exceeding GFE + Social if the total time is the same in my opinion.
I move a lot during sleep, a king size bed is barely enough for me and one more person.
Why dont you book a civilian girl for that dîner then? Many of them would be thrilled going out on a flirty date, knowing they're is no pressure/wish for sex right after.
I did a Duo dinner date longtimes ago with my 2 regulars SP. It was my most memorable experience in my life. . I got a hotel suite with big windows everywhere and having sex with city view..!! that was wonderful night!
I love floor to ceiling windows. I always wonder if people in the nearby buildings can see me. Definitely adds an extra layer of excitement
Hihi exactly! I had 2 ladies in front the windows..!! My dream came truth haha
I love when it's the lady thast offers to keep the curtains open
Yeah I love this too! I have very fond memories of the few times I got railed against a hotel window. I'm always hoping some horny guy across the street will notice me.
The more I think about it and the more I realize that brunch/dinner dates are a good first encounter for people that are shy.
For those who suffer from performance anxiety, it can be a good way to break the ice. Going for dinner first and getting to know each other before spending more private time together.
I’ve recently had an extended dinner date and we did: private time, dinner, private time.
For those who suffer from performance anxiety, it can be a good way to break the ice. Going for dinner first and getting to know each other before spending more private time together.
I’ve recently had an extended dinner date and we did: private time, dinner, private time.
So I would be a "take me on a date" overnight package kind of guy.
How about this, an overnight "all included" rate. You charge the total hours, whatever rate you're comfortable with, add the food/beverages/lodging expenses to the cost, and you treat the man to a date:
- Dinner at Restaurant of the SP choosing
- Hotel or Incall of the SP's choosing
- Fixed # of hours total (sexy time could be before or after, based on preferences... Personally I like both... Let's make out and share oral orgasms before supper, and then flirt and tease the whole time, and wrestle in bed after supper.
About expectations, I would think, dinner dates should be at a reduced rate plus the ladies expenses are paid for.
For the overnights, I think that it should be only available for people that have seen you before, because that's a lot of pressure and potential for disaster otherwise. And I would say, a 10 hour package, that includes +/- 2 hours of sexy time, and 8 hours of miscellaneous chilling/sleeping/enjoying each other's company, and anything that happens, happens...
I wouldn't plan an overnight with someone I just wanted to rail either... I would book 1-2 hours, rail away and then go sleep at home. If I'm overnighting, it's because I genuinely have a GF connection with the person, and want to spend quality time with them, and play pretend for a night.
How about this, an overnight "all included" rate. You charge the total hours, whatever rate you're comfortable with, add the food/beverages/lodging expenses to the cost, and you treat the man to a date:
- Dinner at Restaurant of the SP choosing
- Hotel or Incall of the SP's choosing
- Fixed # of hours total (sexy time could be before or after, based on preferences... Personally I like both... Let's make out and share oral orgasms before supper, and then flirt and tease the whole time, and wrestle in bed after supper.
About expectations, I would think, dinner dates should be at a reduced rate plus the ladies expenses are paid for.
For the overnights, I think that it should be only available for people that have seen you before, because that's a lot of pressure and potential for disaster otherwise. And I would say, a 10 hour package, that includes +/- 2 hours of sexy time, and 8 hours of miscellaneous chilling/sleeping/enjoying each other's company, and anything that happens, happens...
I wouldn't plan an overnight with someone I just wanted to rail either... I would book 1-2 hours, rail away and then go sleep at home. If I'm overnighting, it's because I genuinely have a GF connection with the person, and want to spend quality time with them, and play pretend for a night.
I’ve never had a dinner date which included an overnight. However i’ve had many dinner dates & many overnights.
Whenever i had a dinner date the ‘fun’ would happen prior to going out to dinner. Usually it was with an sp i knew already & we often had code words like ‘cocktail’ or ‘sausage’ whenever we’d set it up. For example “we’ll meet up first & enjoy a cocktail before we go out for dinner” or “i’ll meet you at your hotel & i’ll enjoy eating some sausage before we head out for dinner”. One time instead of waiting for my date in my room I decided to wait for her in the hotel lobby & when she arrived she said “want to go up for a ‘cocktail’ first?” I replied no we should head out to dinner instead. “Are you sure? Are you okay?”, she replied. “Yes i’m okay…let’s go out to dinner & we’ll have a ‘cocktail’ after dinner”, i replied. I simply wanted to change up things.
The main reason i always doing the bedroom stuff before going out for dinner is that it’s been my experience that lovemaking with a full stomach has never worked for me. I feel bloated, heavier & often sleepy after eating. Worse if i drank any alcohol during my meal. Same thing with seeing ladies in the morning or early afternoon. I’ll always wait until my date is over before having my first meal of the day. I’ve always performed better (and looked better) on an empty stomach.
As for overnights i’ve had many however only once with an sp i was seeing for the first time & it was her idea & it hadn’t been planned. Once our date was over instead of going home she decided that she’d be sleeping over. I hadn’t planned on going out so i didn’t mind. It surprised me since the date had only went so-so. She felt her staying overnight would be therapeutic for me. She said she felt i needed to be with someone. Emotionally it would be beneficial. Thinking about it later it was likely that she was the one who needed it more than i did. She had just returned to the biz from being a year away due to a tough personal ordeal she had just been through. She spent a good portion of our date psycho analyzing me. To be honest she’s the one who needed it more than i did! I never repeated with this sp.
The other overnights were all with sp i knew well & got along great with. I enjoyed every one of them. Being in great company makes me happy & it’s always been great for my morale!
Whenever i had a dinner date the ‘fun’ would happen prior to going out to dinner. Usually it was with an sp i knew already & we often had code words like ‘cocktail’ or ‘sausage’ whenever we’d set it up. For example “we’ll meet up first & enjoy a cocktail before we go out for dinner” or “i’ll meet you at your hotel & i’ll enjoy eating some sausage before we head out for dinner”. One time instead of waiting for my date in my room I decided to wait for her in the hotel lobby & when she arrived she said “want to go up for a ‘cocktail’ first?” I replied no we should head out to dinner instead. “Are you sure? Are you okay?”, she replied. “Yes i’m okay…let’s go out to dinner & we’ll have a ‘cocktail’ after dinner”, i replied. I simply wanted to change up things.
The main reason i always doing the bedroom stuff before going out for dinner is that it’s been my experience that lovemaking with a full stomach has never worked for me. I feel bloated, heavier & often sleepy after eating. Worse if i drank any alcohol during my meal. Same thing with seeing ladies in the morning or early afternoon. I’ll always wait until my date is over before having my first meal of the day. I’ve always performed better (and looked better) on an empty stomach.
As for overnights i’ve had many however only once with an sp i was seeing for the first time & it was her idea & it hadn’t been planned. Once our date was over instead of going home she decided that she’d be sleeping over. I hadn’t planned on going out so i didn’t mind. It surprised me since the date had only went so-so. She felt her staying overnight would be therapeutic for me. She said she felt i needed to be with someone. Emotionally it would be beneficial. Thinking about it later it was likely that she was the one who needed it more than i did. She had just returned to the biz from being a year away due to a tough personal ordeal she had just been through. She spent a good portion of our date psycho analyzing me. To be honest she’s the one who needed it more than i did! I never repeated with this sp.
The other overnights were all with sp i knew well & got along great with. I enjoyed every one of them. Being in great company makes me happy & it’s always been great for my morale!
An overnight is typically 12 to 16 hours because you still have to sleep and most people would appreciate at the very least 7 hours. That’s the intention but it doesn’t always end up being that way due to stress, excitement, novelty and not sleeping in your own bed. I know I usually sleep 5-6 hours on overnights so the following day for me is basically not a fully functional day.
Range varies from $1,000 to 10,000 for a night (those are rates I’ve seen on ads and websites) most of my friends and I are around $2,000-3,500
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