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Do Some Members Take Others for Granted?

steed

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Instead of you guys telling each other through the public forum that you're going to talk to each other in private messages you should probably just actually talk to each other in private messages. lol. :)
IN a Monty Python world , The Colonel would appear at this point shouting " Silly Sketch , absolutly no point ,every one go home "
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TheJames101

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I post reviews for the benefits of those who review as well, unfortunately there is a bunch of selfish lurkers who only take and don't give back.

Something cool would be a VIP section on this forum for active members only. Don't know if it's something feasible

Active members are the ones who post. By definition. If you mean active in terms of those who see girls, then there's no way to know.
 
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Flyingby

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With all due respect, my friend, you've mentioned the terms "white knight" and "simp" a few times now. I understand what those words mean, but I’m genuinely not sure who or what you're referring to.
Here’s an example of your white knighting a thread
When a member of merb has a different viewpoint in a girl who you’ve “discovered”. You immediately challenge or contest their opinion.

Post in thread 'Ashley@ XXXclusive ( The New Spinner and Rising Star.)'
https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/ash...w-spinner-and-rising-star.234861/post-1757533.

You take for granted other members opinion because they differ from yours
 
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Thor Jr

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I post reviews for the benefits of those who review as well, unfortunately there is a bunch of selfish lurkers who only take and don't give back.

Something cool would be a VIP section on this forum for active members only. Don't know if it's something feasible
I have been thinking the same thing for a couple of years now, after some of the reviews I have read in the past years, I was thinking it would be MERB-G section, gentlemen only section. Its not only for reviews but more for the content of the review. If you state a girl is fat, ugly, smells and has a loose vagina, these are not how a gentleman should address or write in a review about. There are ways to get your point across without being crude about it.
 

PSEfreak

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I stopped disagreeing with MERB members long ago. I will chime in from time to time, if a post about someone I have seen, is similar to my positive experience.
I had a negative encounter with a legendary SP many years ago. All she had (and still does) are pages of positive encounters. I had to delete from the backlash and DM assault.
 

Obvio-0bvio

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I post reviews for the benefits of those who review as well, unfortunately there is a bunch of selfish lurkers who only take and don't give back.

Something cool would be a VIP section on this forum for active members only. Don't know if it's something feasible
TER had (or has?) such a VIP model. The problem is that it encourages fake reviews.
I have been thinking the same thing for a couple of years now, after some of the reviews I have read in the past years, I was thinking it would be MERB-G section, gentlemen only section. Its not only for reviews but more for the content of the review. If you state a girl is fat, ugly, smells and has a loose vagina, these are not how a gentleman should address or write in a review about. There are ways to get your point across without being crude about it.
Creating separate sections for members wouldn’t solve the problem. Many members are here simply to gather information on service providers and there’s nothing wrong with that. They’re respectful, don’t cause trouble, and just want to find what suits their preferences. The real issue lies with the few who stir up drama, those with too much time on their hands or resentment toward others who are more active with providers. Splitting the forum won’t stop these same disruptive members from trying to squeeze themselves into any “VIP” area. So in the end, it becomes pointless. And let’s be honest: posting reviews is encouraged but not required. The core purpose of Merb is to share reliable information however you choose to contribute.
 

Eurasian

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I don't think there is a perfect system, but each system can fix a problem. It's just like nobody can please everybody, just doesn't exist.

@Obvio-0bvio I disagree with your last post, doesn't mean you're wrong. But neither am I. Members who are simply here to take, I call them freeloaders and parasites and yes, they bother me, that's why I sometimes I only share in private to others who share. Those that have a different opinion from me don't bother, everyone is different, I don't take it personally. Posting reviews is encouraged but not required? True, but how does that reflect in the real world... ask the 2 other boards that died.

Those that try to squeeze in the vip section, can be squeezed out by vip members, and again, I don't expect everyone to be friends among the VIPs, but they will all be active contributors.
 

Obvio-0bvio

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I don't think there is a perfect system, but each system can fix a problem. It's just like nobody can please everybody, just doesn't exist.

@Obvio-0bvio I disagree with your last post, doesn't mean you're wrong. But neither am I. Members who are simply here to take, I call them freeloaders and parasites and yes, they bother me, that's why I sometimes I only share in private to others who share. Those that have a different opinion from me don't bother, everyone is different, I don't take it personally. Posting reviews is encouraged but not required? True, but how does that reflect in the real world... ask the 2 other boards that died.

Those that try to squeeze in the vip section, can be squeezed out by vip members, and again, I don't expect everyone to be friends among the VIPs, but they will all be active contributors.
I completely respect your opinion, and I agree that what you’re saying makes sense. That said, it’s important to acknowledge that there are definitely freeloaders, people who come here just to take information without giving anything back. Personally, that doesn’t bother me. I don’t expect anything in return. My reviews are often written with exactly those types of freelancers in mind.At least they come, get what they need, and leave quietly without causing trouble.

In fact, I think those members, especially the newer ones, often don’t know their way around the industry yet. If reading a few reviews or posts helps them make smarter decisions and avoid bad experiences, I see value in that. I genuinely feel for those who save up their hard-earned money, only to end up with a terrible experience and then have to start over scraping together funds for another service that might take them months to afford.
What’s even more frustrating is when clients don’t know about forums like MERB and rely on platforms like Leolist, often getting poor service for their money. Some of them don’t even know what GFE is, or that there are reputable agencies offering better service for less. These reviews help guide them toward quality experiences.

That’s why I believe it’s not fair to have a separate section for contributors, leaving the non contributors on the sidelines . I would support a small access fee for that section without leaving the non contributors entirely on the sidelines. I have nothing against freelancers; in fact, MERB exists to serve exactly those who are still figuring this industry.

I appreciate your perspective, and I do agree with you in many ways. At the end of the day, sharing helpful information costs nothing and it can make a huge difference for someone just starting in this hobby.
 
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