Do SPs call you handsome?

[LeDodo]

Yes, i have been called handsome from time to time, i roll with it, and i play the game

Like going: I know right?

 

[rando555]

This sounds so weird to type but you can't fake some things like pupil dilation when someone is genuinely into you, etc.

Also one of the better metrics is to see how she treats you vs other clients tbh but that requires honesty from everyone but that's never been an issue since everyone's always 100% truthful

 

[Rebaynia]

yes, a few do, the liars!!!!!

lol, it is an easy way to call you without having to memorize your name, I like it, it is much better than "hey hon" or other cheap equivalents

I honestly don't feel special just because but someone says handsome, but it is a little piece of a whole;

Just because you don't think yourself particularly attractive doesn't mean someone else doesn't. I am not one to dish out compliments unless I genuinely feel that way. I don't hold myself back. When I have something good to say to them, I think will put a smile on their face, I say it. I see many handsome and attractive people. It also doesn't mean that if I don't say it, I don't feel it. I very much do for most people I see. And who ever said a 7/10 was unattractive. I don't really rate people by looks. I tent to look for any and all attractive points, we are all beautiful in some way, and the rest just doesn't matter. Who someone is, matters 100% more to me then how they look, or what makes them insecure. I also believe we are beautiful in our imperfections as well.

 

[philonius]

Honestly I don't feel comfortable complimenting guys on the size of their dick. Once I told a client I thought he had a big dick, because he really did, and he said ''you're saying this because I'm Asian right?''.. I was shocked... He took it the wrong way. I never said it again after that. Sometimes guys will tell me they think their dick is small, when it isn't true, and I don't feel super comfortable correcting them later. I don't really want to entertain this type of insecurity lol

However, if a man tells me he is worried about his physical appearance, I always take time to reassure him and sometimes we have a little conversation about beauty standards, which men are also affected by.

Despite this specific negative reaction, I doubt most men would be adverse to hearing your positive opinions about any part of them, esp their dick. I always assumed I was of average size before I started seeing sps, and even scoffed at the first couple that said it wasn't (thinking it was like OP says, maybe just fluff for kindness/fantasy), but now I take that compliment to heart (read: erection). Same thing with the actual fucking: If you have received a Very Distinguished Dicking, I guarantee most men will appreciate you saying so.

I like any feedback, negative or positive, before, during, and after sex. You are the professional in this equation, so anything I can improve upon I will take under consideration (within reason ofc; I'm not shaving my beard off, sorry ).

 

[Skym]

Kate XO called me that a couple of times.

That's the only time I recall a SP complimenting me on looks.

 

[jeffmathers]

That's not a friend. What an asshole.

I understand where these insecurities come from.. And I know for instance there are really lean men who have always felt they were too small, and I have to reassure them that I find their body attractive. I also reassure bigger men that it's okay for them to have the body that they have.

I meet a lot of men who have insecurities about their physical appearance and often their worries are really unfounded. I also feel like men get complimented on their looks less often.. Women get complimented by their peers a lot, but not men.

Very true. Also I'm lean and a lot of people don't compliment lean people unless they're women.

 

[jeffmathers]

You're really an angel sent to earth

I agree 100%

 

[Lunaseraphim]

This sounds so weird to type but you can't fake some things like pupil dilation when someone is genuinely into you, etc.

Also one of the better metrics is to see how she treats you vs other clients tbh but that requires honesty from everyone but that's never been an issue since everyone's always 100% truthful

That's just me but I don't treat my clients better if I think they're attractive.. or at least I don't think I do. I imagine maybe it's different for others.

Very true. Also I'm lean and a lot of people don't compliment lean people unless they're women.

I think the pressure men put on themselves comes from other men, often. A lot of guys tell me they wish they were super muscular but most women I know aren't into that, for example

 

[IamNY]

I get called handsome all the time. Or at least until I put the donation on the mattress.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think it's sad that so many of you actually don't believe you're good looking.. I'm sure not everyone agrees with that.

 

[2fast2slow]

to the OP, I beleive in general if a provider says your handsome its because they beleive it (and the posts from our colleague providers in this thread back this up). Of course, there is a lot of interpretation on how its said, when its said, etc. This girl probably likes your look and she expressed it. Now if a lot of providers start telling you you're handsome, then i would start to beleive you are more than a "7" lol

 

[GreyPilgrim]

Used to get that A LOT back when I started hobbying. Granted, that was a quite a few years ago. Back then, I still had the same good looks that got me voted "sexiest guy" at the high school prom! Lol!

Still happens every now and then (the compliments, not the vote, lol!). So I guess I’ve either managed to stay in shape enough to have "aged gracefully"… or at least I’ve kept my roguish charm!

Either way, here’s my advice on SP compliments: don’t think too much of it and don’t think it’s an excuse to be any less of a gentleman!

Cheers!

 

[philonius]

I think it's sad that so many of you actually don't believe you're good looking.. I'm sure not everyone agrees with that.

There's probably some negative self-image going on but you must also remember: There is almost always a significant attractiveness differential going on here. I don't think I'm ugly, but I'm not wheeling absolute smokeshows like y'all IRL either. I think that's the underlying point of the OPs question: Are you getting this on the regular and is it just a courtesy/part of the fantasy or could I actually have a chance at a 10 out in the real world?

 

[MCTJ]

I don't recall, but they've told me that my place is clean, and that's one of the best compliments I can think of.

 

[LeDodo]

I think it's sad that so many of you actually don't believe you're good looking.. I'm sure not everyone agrees with that.

Maybe it's the scale or adjective nuances here at fault. Being told handsome is like on a scale of 10 being a 10. Among the respondents I guess very few will say they are 10s hence handsome.

Here's a list of adjective related to beauty:
Exquisite
Radiant
Enchanting
Captivating
Breathtaking
Graceful
Alluring
Mesmerizing
Serene
Majestic
Stunning
Ethereal
Delicate
Timeless
Splendid
Refined
Transcendent
Harmonious
Bewitching
Sublime

I would say that this define a certain type of beauty. And will make everyone beautiful or handsome in some ways ("horizontally").
Whereas the common interpretation of beauty is vertical and will lead to non beautiful people at one end of the scale

 

[Dvsone]

Some of them. I appreciate positive comments when they are honest, but I don't need them or want to hear them if they are fake and it's usually easy to tell because most of them are bad at it. "Honey, babe, etc." is usually a turn off.

 

[EastWind]

A few SP did and threw in a couple other compliments. Forget what they were. But I do remember this.

I got very excited and then suggested we go engagement ring shopping. Then these SPs took back the compliment. I guess they were just being nice thinking they found a sucker who would come back for longer date repeats. Oh well. Words mean nothing. Action means everything.

 

[cinepervers]

yep, honey and baby total turn off. It's feel to business and break the magic to have some fun and have a great time.

 

[Enjoying life]

My mistress told me your muscles are really showing and after her taking pics it was obvious! I mean i put alot of work in my workout its a fact!

 

[Skym]

To me, it would be a bigger compliment if the SP called me a porn stud than handsome, lmao.