You don’t need money to be memorable

[Lunaseraphim]

That's why I want to see SPs feedback on that as as client we might not know why at that time it mattered

It really depends on the person. There are experiences that I've had with clients that were memorable, and I won't name them here for multiple reasons... What I can say however, is that the display of money wasn't what made these moments memorable. It was the attention to detail. I have received gifts I'll remember forever, also, and they were inexpensive things but very thoughtful.

I've also had a lot more simple memorable moments with clients who were super genuine and sweet with me and didn't seem to expect me to put on a show.. They seemed to enjoy who I am as a person, they were interested in me, for real. I felt like I could be truly relaxed with them, and they would understand if something in my life was preoccupying me. Some conversations I've had with clients, I'll remember forever. I appreciated their vulnerability and their intelligence. I felt grateful that I was able to be honest about my feelings with some clients at certain times as well, and I have been comforted before.

I know that's now what some people here want to read.

What makes a client memorable to me is someone who is kind and humble and is capable of minding his own business and understanding my boundaries.

 

[urquell]

Wow, some people seem to really think we think a good client is a passed out drunk one because we ''won't have to work''... It's interesting because in over 3 years of being SP, it only happened twice that a client was too drunk to perform, and I actually felt really guilty. One of those times I arrived at the hotel and the client was already drinking, I did stay with him the whole time because he wasn't feeling well. I'm not really sure why SP would volunteer the information to a client that they love hopping from blacked out client to blacked out client at night unless she was trying to mess with him, because it sounds extremely unsafe to do this.

I've done night shifts at MP before, sure some clients were drunk or high but they were more aggressive actually. Often the condom ''fell out''. I don't often get inquiries from clients who seem to be super drunk and often these people aren't coherent and seem volatile.

I think the point of this thread is that if you are a client who is kind with the provider and generous without using money or gifts, we are not talking about fixing the entire person's home, you are more likely to develop a better connection with this provider. She is more likely to give you extra time and to talk to you in between bookings. From what I understand the goal of this thread was that we don't want a ton of money and gift thrown at us necessarily and we may actually remember the guy who was kind and understanding during a rough moment and maybe shared something that could help us a lot more than the one who brought a giant bouquet of flowers and a huge tip but was an asshole.

Luna, when I mentioned that originally, I specified that it was in a hotel ground zero environment, which wouldn't apply to any of you ladies. While it certainly seems to be true for at least some of them nobody seriously thinks that drunks would generally be better for you or your colleagues here as clients. It was more of a light hearted comment and more meant to highlight perspective being reflective of the environment.

 

[luxurystacy]

Maybe I dumb but Im not sure what is a hotel ground zero environment. Either way, meeting at a hotel or a home, Ive never had a client, or even heard our a client pay the girl up front to after pass out. And if he did. hell probably contact the agency or the girl afterward to get his money back because 'nothing happen'.

Also, no matter how many time providers say here that the perfect client is someone who's clean and respectful, thats it, a lot of you still won't believe us. Why do you want our opinions if you dont believe it anyway? Dont you think it's weird thinking that every providers have been lying, for years, on this forum and face to face, and saying and agreeing to the same thing over and over again?
I feel like Im in an another dimension.

If we ask for the strict minimum and human decency, we are liars. If we ask for more, we are too demanding. What do you want exactly?
Do you want to make you feel good about yourself about asking the girls to be this and that and should do this and that etc.
Because the reality is, the clients expectations is 100X time what we expect on them. And you need to justify and convince yourself why your asking all that.

 

[urquell]

Im not sure what is a hotel ground zero environment.

Sorry if that wasn't clear. My fault entirely, as I'm used to using terms that don't necessarily get used in Montreal. A "ground zero" environment is one in which all the SPs and their clients gather in a single spot, usually a bar, so there's no need to pre-shop for company. They are often based in hotels, so that guys staying in the hotel would just go downstairs to the bar, pick up a girl and go back upstairs to their room. Conversely, girls only need to go upstairs, do their thing, powder their nose and then go back downstairs to their next client. Usually every girl in the bar is a working girl and often all or most of the male guests are mongers. In this environment drunk and semi drunk clients are very common, sometimes with the consequences I described before. Sportsmens Lodge or the Taormina in San Jose would be examples of this kind of place. Hope that helps.

Also, please note that I said these circumstances specifically did not apply to you ladies.

 

[luxurystacy]

Okay thank for the explanation. But there is no such thing in Montreal in my knowledge

 

[urquell]

Okay thank for the explanation. But there is no such thing in Montreal in my knowledge

None to mine either, unfortunately. lol.

 

[LC18]

Also, please note that I said these circumstances specifically did not apply to you ladies.

Then why mentioning it here?

 

[LeDodo]

Coming back on the topic, I tried to think of hints that a SP might have appreciated us. There was once at a strip club, there was a dancer who was annoyed by a bunch of young lads like noisy (obviously heavily drunk too) and before they left one of them tried to touch her and excuse himself with a 5 or 10$ bill. She sat with me and thanked me for being normal and looking nice (I didn't do anything to receive the compliment but well I took it lol).

 

[urquell]

Then why mentioning it here?

please see #42.

 

[LeDodo]

please see #42.

I think the comment is not relevant to OP is that what LC meant

 

[philonius]

Respect her body: Don’t just assume she will like certain things because your ex was a big fan of those

Going back to the initial post, the one thing that blows me away is that I've had multiple instances of providers being impressed or delighted (even turned on/pretending to be turned on) when I ask for consent before doing something with their body/switching positions/etc. Not necessarily the act itself but the fact that I asked, which bums me out if I think about it after the fact, bc it means that it's not the norm and unexpected.

 

[luxurystacy]

Going back to the initial post, the one thing that blows me away is that I've had multiple instances of providers being impressed or delighted (even turned on/pretending to be turned on) when I ask for consent before doing something with their body/switching positions/etc. Not necessarily the act itself but the fact that I asked, which bums me out if I think about it after the fact, bc it means that it's not the norm and unexpected.

Yes it is really rare. Its a good thing when its the first meeting, not only consent wise but also because communication is important, you dont know the preference and likes/dislikes of one another so it can help figuring out what each other likes. Sometimes the client will also be more shy and prefer if we take the lead so thats another way to make sure we like it But one of my client who Ive been seeing for 8 years still ask me to this day: is it ok? before everything. Its so cute; even If I tell him all the time that he doesn't have to ask me, he still do. He wants to makes sure Im not too tired and that im enjoying it. He's so cautious about me and thats why he's been one of my OG client. We care about each other

 

[LC18]

Something I wish more people would ask is “can I finger you?” and “can I add another finger?”

It’s so invasive to just shove your fingers in someone without asking especially more than one. It could very much ruin the rest of the date

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think the comment is not relevant to OP is that what LC meant

It's not, and I may be wrong, but to me it felt like the comment was aimed at making us sound like ungrateful people who would jump on the occasion to hop from hotel room to hotel room to take blacked out drunk men's money if we had it. So I do think Stacy's comment was relevant.

This thread was meant to be cute. The way I understood it was "you don't have to have a lot of money to make a positive impression on us" and Lena used an example of a girl who has to work but is not feeling well, which happens to EVERYONE, and a client responding to the situation with kindness and by offering advice. (followed by A SEXUAL SERVICE and NOT followed by a trip to Europe with a million dollars and a new car)

Yet if someone in this industry is not doing well and a client type of client notices, the client may write a review about how fat and ugly she is and how her pussy stank and how she robbed him of his money by not giving him free extras or a free date listening to him complain about how much he hates his wife.

 

[Fradi]

Yet if someone in this industry is not doing well and a client type of client notices, the client may write a review about how fat and ugly she is and how her pussy stank and how she robbed him of his money by not giving him free extras or a free date listening to him complain about how much he hates his wife.

Or the person may inquire what it is that he can do to help her and then go out and buy her a bunch of things she may need until she recovers and give her some cash to make sure she can function until she recuperates.
There are some clients that actually care about the women they see and don’t just look at them like a blow up doll for one purpose.
How ever in cases like this you do need a bit of money to be memorably lol.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Or the person may inquire what it is that he can do to help her and then go out and buy her a bunch of things she may need until she recovers and give her some cash to make sure she can function until she recuperates.
There are some clients that actually care about the women they see and don’t just look at them like a blow up doll for one purpose.
How ever in cases like this you do need a bit of money to be memorably lol.

Yes and that is the human thing to do. If I was hiring an escort and I saw that she just had her period or had just been crying or felt sick or bad, I would try to help as well if I had the means to do so. If I didn't, I would at least offer to listen, and I would not get angry about it.

 

[LeDodo]

It's not, and I may be wrong, but to me it felt like the comment was aimed at making us sound like ungrateful people who would jump on the occasion to hop from hotel room to hotel room to take blacked out drunk men's money if we had it. So I do think Stacy's comment was relevant.

Yes and it's good you and Stacy have shared your experiences that actually this kind of situation instead lead to sentiment of guiltiness or fear instead of an golden opportunity.

Yet if someone in this industry is not doing well and a client type of client notices, the client may write a review about how fat and ugly she is and how her pussy stank and how she robbed him of his money by not giving him free extras or a free date listening to him complain about how much he hates his wife.

That as well make your presence here relevant because most of the time it's a one sided version of the story that people see. Although it's very tiring to each time adjust everything that is said ...

This thread was meant to be cute. The way I understood it was "you don't have to have a lot of money to make a positive impression on us" and Lena used an example of a girl who has to work but is not feeling well, which happens to EVERYONE, and a client responding to the situation with kindness and by offering advice. (followed by A SEXUAL SERVICE and NOT followed by a trip to Europe with a million dollars and a new car)

Coming back to the topic, in one occasion I made sure for the after shower that the towel was reachable for the SP (in the hotel somehow the towel rack was quite high) or the floor towel in place for when she went out she doesn't slip out lol

But again, that's something I did but I'm not sure how noticeable or if it was attention that made her day ...

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I want to add, in respond to another "ironic comment", that if someone offered to help me with something like take my cat to the vet or repair my oven or whatever, I would be much more likely to spend extra time with him.

 

[LeDodo]

I want to add, in respond to another "ironic comment", that if someone offered to help me with something like take my cat to the vet or repair my oven or whatever, I would be much more likely to spend extra time with him.

You'll have tons of DM asking when is your cat sick lol

 

[Fradi]

Yes and that is the human thing to do. If I was hiring an escort and I saw that she just had her period or had just been crying or felt sick or bad, I would try to help as well if I had the means to do so. If I didn't, I would at least offer to listen, and I would not get angry about it.

Just because someone is an escort it doesn’t mean that she can’t be your friend also, it is not that difficult to have this kind of situation and still not take advantage of each other. All it takes is a bit of human kindness and being comfortable with each other and a certain level of trust. For that no you don’t need money but yes it comes in handy if you have it.

As the old saying goes you don’t need money to be happy but I will let you in on a little secret you are guaranteed misery if you don’t. About 90 % of relationships break up over the lack of money and not being able to achieve the life style one expects from the other.
Unfortunately we are all out there working for it.