Just a note, I think when clients want to go on free dates with us, I don't think it means they want a relationship necessarily. They just want access to who we are outside of sessions, which is understandable if they like us.. But I doubt all these guys who talk about going to the resto or coffee or drinks with SP for free are talking about actually dating them.
They are not better than your exs, it’s just that you are paying them to pretend to be your girlfriend for a short period of time. Don’t lie to yourself. If you would date them in the « real life », You would realize pretty quickly that they are no different.
Also depending on the part of the world a lot of women automatically think clients are bad people or have mental or physical issues of some sort. I've heard the phrase "They're clients for a reason"
I personally don't like that phrase ''they're clients for a reason''.. Yes the reason is they have the money to afford it, or they already took the plunge. A lot of clients do have issues but everyone does. ''issues'' is a vague word. Someone could have trauma they need help through, someone could be very shy, someone could be going through a divorce, etc. That stuff doesn't make somebody unlikable.
Yeah I feel there shouldn't be a stigma for SPs or for clients and that people from both demographics can be loved genuinely by someone regardless of how many partners they've had.
Honestly, I agree with this. I don't like it when people here bash their wives and girlfriends. We are wives and girlfriends too. Not in the sense that ''we're all bad''.. We just all deserve respect, just like clients deserve respect for making the choice to hire SP.
The vast majority of clients don't hire a ton of SP all the time, they do it once in a while or for a period of time. Yes there are clients who really like hiring SP and do it very often and with many different providers, but we tend to forget that a lot more men than we think have hired a SP at some point in their lives. A lot of my clients told me I was the first SP they saw, or that they rarely do this, or that they prefer seeing the same SP for a while.. We all have a different clientele.
Exactly! We are just women like everyone else. I actually have more sexual boundaries as a SP than as a girlfriend.. Except for threesomes
I love duos but I wouldn't have a threesome with a partner and another person.
I think because of this comment:
But my point was more on the free social dates that doesn't necessarily mean a relationship but more of a way to have a win-win situation i.e. sharing a meal after an official encounter. But the win-win is biased towards the client has it might not be reciprocal for the provider.
100% agree. One should not leave or jump into a relationship because it's "better".
Ya but as an sp when you see that you cant deny mentally it does something. All
I think this is being brought up here because some clients think that we will do more for a conventionally attractive client and accept going out for dinner with him for free.. I think maybe a client feels flattered if a SP says yes if he asks her out. It could imply that he's more attractive or nicer or ''better than other clients''.. which brings us back to discussing stigma against clients.
sorry. I should have added a *p.s. my comment regurgitates sarcasm to my post*
SP would lose half their clients if men were loyal
In this life there is a lot of IF.
Weird place to go judgemental, my friend.
