Reviews are whatever. They are not always (often?) a rounded recounting of what happened. Half the reviewers seem to fall in love with the SP's they are seeing, thus rendering their reviews null, if occasionally entertaining.
Reviews will be highly subjective as each member will get a different experience partly due to YMMV, but I I agree that there's probably a lot of embellishment or details not being mentioned in reviews. Having seen a few providers with mostly positive reviews, my experience has never matched that of the reviews. I'm no stud, but I'm respectable and give a lot of respect, so I I doubt I'm getting a different level of service from the others.