They may, but I would think that they give better service to good paying and regular clients.
Do SP's give better services to better looking clients ?
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its possible, but like others say, its not only looks, but connection, chemistry, familiarity, etc.
I am far from being good looking imo, but I do know I have had better service from a few girls. Amazing sessions, no extras, extra time, home incalls, hang outs, hook ups, etc. The common denominator were we were regulars and had a ton of chemistry; in bed and personal too, get a long well. Just simply enjoyed each others company.
I am far from being good looking imo, but I do know I have had better service from a few girls. Amazing sessions, no extras, extra time, home incalls, hang outs, hook ups, etc. The common denominator were we were regulars and had a ton of chemistry; in bed and personal too, get a long well. Just simply enjoyed each others company.
My experience has been that what’s most important is treating the sp well & respecting her wishes. Being nice & respectful can do wonders. Of course personal hygiene is also a big factor & were the shoe on the other foot you’d understand & feel the same. No one wants to be intimate would someone that has bad body odor or halitosis. Take a shower within 30 minutes of the encounter, brush your teeth & use a good mouthwash. And don’t forget to apply deodorant.
Hobbying for 12+ years, and both my looks and wallet went through multiple metamorphosis. At my fattest and ugliest I was 220 lbs at 5'8-9". I used to have a clean shaven head and face. Then I grew the beard. And most recently long hair. My weight is 155-165 lbs now.
I’m not going to go into my personality change and confidence building during the same time. Instead, I’ll only be highlighting the looks department.
In 4th grade, I was such a loser, I was bullied by girls. A girl named Lauren used to spit on my face occasionally, and a kid named Jimmy cut open my brand new jacket with a scissor that I got as a Christmas gift.
Until 2012, I felt so ugly, on a scale from 1 to 10, I was a negative. Which means, I’m so ugly, you deserve a smile from my ugly face for even looking at me. The pleasure was mine to have someone even look at me. I should give you a $1 for taking the time to look at me because you probably just made my day. I don’t know the last time someone ever looked at me. At night, I used to cry and pray to God for good looks. Other times, I wish I had a knife to cut open my skin and burn all the fat and ugliness with a welding torch.
Fast forward 12 years, and the difference? It’s not even comparable. It's like comparing an Ant to an Elephant or a Rat to an Eagle. I am currently living a brand new life in someone else’s body. I went from being completely invisible to girls stopping me in public to compliment me. I get free stuff. People let me cut lines. My hairdresser touches my hair differently. Mothers and their beloved daughters both take turns checking me out.
And, the services from escorts followed suit. Ever since 2018, I’ve only been treated better. I was no longer going in for a girlfriend experience, I was there to give them a Husband experience. It was no longer about what they can give me, rather what can I give them. I wanted to be the greatest thing that ever happened to them.
Moral of the story: spend money on yourself. Improve your style, your smell, your attitude, and everything else you are bothered by about yourself. Get moderately fit once in your life, even if it is for just 1 fucking day. You need to experience life being pretty. You’ll never go back to your old life. It’s a feed-forward loop that will have you addicted.
Escorts have been the Angelic Healers of my life. Their feedback made me into the man I’m today. Don’t pass on this opportunity.
I’m not going to go into my personality change and confidence building during the same time. Instead, I’ll only be highlighting the looks department.
In 4th grade, I was such a loser, I was bullied by girls. A girl named Lauren used to spit on my face occasionally, and a kid named Jimmy cut open my brand new jacket with a scissor that I got as a Christmas gift.
Until 2012, I felt so ugly, on a scale from 1 to 10, I was a negative. Which means, I’m so ugly, you deserve a smile from my ugly face for even looking at me. The pleasure was mine to have someone even look at me. I should give you a $1 for taking the time to look at me because you probably just made my day. I don’t know the last time someone ever looked at me. At night, I used to cry and pray to God for good looks. Other times, I wish I had a knife to cut open my skin and burn all the fat and ugliness with a welding torch.
Fast forward 12 years, and the difference? It’s not even comparable. It's like comparing an Ant to an Elephant or a Rat to an Eagle. I am currently living a brand new life in someone else’s body. I went from being completely invisible to girls stopping me in public to compliment me. I get free stuff. People let me cut lines. My hairdresser touches my hair differently. Mothers and their beloved daughters both take turns checking me out.
And, the services from escorts followed suit. Ever since 2018, I’ve only been treated better. I was no longer going in for a girlfriend experience, I was there to give them a Husband experience. It was no longer about what they can give me, rather what can I give them. I wanted to be the greatest thing that ever happened to them.
Moral of the story: spend money on yourself. Improve your style, your smell, your attitude, and everything else you are bothered by about yourself. Get moderately fit once in your life, even if it is for just 1 fucking day. You need to experience life being pretty. You’ll never go back to your old life. It’s a feed-forward loop that will have you addicted.
Escorts have been the Angelic Healers of my life. Their feedback made me into the man I’m today. Don’t pass on this opportunity.
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I think its really a case by case.
Some escorts genuinly will care only for attitude/respect/hygiene. If you got this they enjoy the time with you.
Some are just good actors...good at their job and even tough they may really dislike you visually they will pull trough and give good services. When i was a booker briefly i remember an escort in the agency telling me how gross a client was but yet she gave him a good service and he even made her a good review .
Some only care for money. If the guy is gufting/typing a lot, it will be enough for them to find attraction.
And finally some will indeed give lesser service to guys they find unatractive but will give better services to younger fit dudes.
Ultimately they are humans so they all are different. There is no real standard.
I never been a stud but for having been 220 and 345 pounds i had great meeting even at my fatest.
Some escorts genuinly will care only for attitude/respect/hygiene. If you got this they enjoy the time with you.
Some are just good actors...good at their job and even tough they may really dislike you visually they will pull trough and give good services. When i was a booker briefly i remember an escort in the agency telling me how gross a client was but yet she gave him a good service and he even made her a good review .
Some only care for money. If the guy is gufting/typing a lot, it will be enough for them to find attraction.
And finally some will indeed give lesser service to guys they find unatractive but will give better services to younger fit dudes.
Ultimately they are humans so they all are different. There is no real standard.
I never been a stud but for having been 220 and 345 pounds i had great meeting even at my fatest.
Thanks for recounting all this. Quite impressive. Did you include surgery in this process?
Nope.
I attacked my problems orthogonally. My solution: think like an illiterate man--intermittent fasting. Our grandparents have never heard of the term calories. Your cats and dogs don't need to get on a fucking healthy plan and get a gym membership to lose weight.
Just intermittent fasting for the weight loss.
I also did carnivorous diet for 25 days last summer. It was really amazing, but way too restrictive and boring. I'll only use this as a weapon if I ever need to go into Monk Mode.
I've tried all the crap that's out there. Omega-3, low carb, high carb, low protein, high protein, juice cleanse, vegetarian, gluten-free, keto, paleo, protein shakes, and other shit no one has ever heard of. It's all crap!
That makes sense, the beast within does not think rationally. Thanks
While I think I still look ok for my age I am not delusional to think I look anything like I looked in my 20-30 when perhaps looks could have played some part in the treatment by an SP.
I can only say that I have always been treated well by every SP I have seen so far and 2 in particular I don’t think I could imagine kinder and more thoughtful young ladies or better treatment.
As always as good as the treatment/ chemistry is even from the most gorgeous SP you can imagine, it still doesn’t come close to being with someone you are totally in love with and that you share your life with, that cannot be purchased with money.
I can only say that I have always been treated well by every SP I have seen so far and 2 in particular I don’t think I could imagine kinder and more thoughtful young ladies or better treatment.
As always as good as the treatment/ chemistry is even from the most gorgeous SP you can imagine, it still doesn’t come close to being with someone you are totally in love with and that you share your life with, that cannot be purchased with money.
About a dozen years ago I noticed getting better services when i’d meet a new girl who instantly would tell me it was nice to meet a younger & fit-looking client for a change since most of her clients were either much older than she was or overweight or unkept. However generally i realized that the quality of services would improve with regulars & just being nice & treat my guests respectfully. Like i’d love & expect to be treated myself.
Years ago one of the top indys whom i ended up befriending once told me that when she had worked in Australia a few years earlier that her favourite client was a dwarf. She remembered the first time she had met him & at first was shocked & started to wonder if she’d be comfortable doing her ‘job’ properly since that was the first time she had been in the company of a much smaller person. But she said he was such a gentleman & respected her so much that she quickly began to consider him a favourite client & began seeing him on a regular basis. She told me he was so nice to her & although she hadn’t seen him for a few years she missed him & still considered him as her favorite client ever. She told me that for her looks were overrated & she’d much rather meet someone unattractive who was nice to her than a hunk who acted like an asshole.
Years ago one of the top indys whom i ended up befriending once told me that when she had worked in Australia a few years earlier that her favourite client was a dwarf. She remembered the first time she had met him & at first was shocked & started to wonder if she’d be comfortable doing her ‘job’ properly since that was the first time she had been in the company of a much smaller person. But she said he was such a gentleman & respected her so much that she quickly began to consider him a favourite client & began seeing him on a regular basis. She told me he was so nice to her & although she hadn’t seen him for a few years she missed him & still considered him as her favorite client ever. She told me that for her looks were overrated & she’d much rather meet someone unattractive who was nice to her than a hunk who acted like an asshole.
I am sure that she got really comfortable with that fellow after some time......he kept coming back and I am sure he was able to please her in ways unimaginable to the most right-sized gentleman, no pun intended. Who knows he was probably the right size in other departments and maybe even larger than life. Thanks for sharing this, it made me smile.
Not all of them will discreminate look, but some will give extra milage (YMMV)…
Reviews are whatever. They are not always (often?) a rounded recounting of what happened. Half the reviewers seem to fall in love with the SP's they are seeing, thus rendering their reviews null, if occasionally entertaining.
I would think falling in love with your SP would be rated as a highly positive review and obvious great service.
i would not consider that review as null quite the opposite.
There is nothing wrong with falling in love with your SP there are many types of love.
I absolutely love my ATF and how kind and thoughtful she is not to mention how gorgeous, but no it is not the kind of love you are talking about.
That kind of love is not something that can be bought and paid for.
I was referencing the reviews that are clearly written wearing "love goggles", so their relevance to anyone else is relatively thin - which was the theme of the post I was replying to. Besides that my main point was that despite some people thinking all was fine and dandy, the SP may not have viewed the session in the same manner. (similar things apply in reverse to the overtly negative reviews, at times)
Fall in love with an SP, no problem with that. But personally I value reviews that have a bit less poetry to them.
Reviews will be highly subjective as each member will get a different experience partly due to YMMV, but I I agree that there's probably a lot of embellishment or details not being mentioned in reviews. Having seen a few providers with mostly positive reviews, my experience has never matched that of the reviews. I'm no stud, but I'm respectable and give a lot of respect, so I I doubt I'm getting a different level of service from the others.
