Do SPs prefer older clients

[minutemenX]

I guess if you feel like all you are being used for is an ATM then you should look for something different or a different escort because the one you are seeing is a really bad actress, take your pick.

Fradi, you kind of contradicting yourself. You stay that if I don’t feel an emotional attachment, she is a bad actress. This means that you agree that the affection is played and is not real. I know the game and often play my part as well going beyond pure lust and that makes meeting more enjoyable . So most often than not we play this game together. From time to time I must been playing my emotions probably all too well as one of my ATFs was even concerned that I take our relation way too seriously

Of course, it is not always black and white, and some degree of the natural affection may be present. But the bottom line is that you will be never ever more than a client to her. Good client, friendly client and any other epithet you can come with but still always a client. And SPs modus operandi is that with a client any natural feelings needs to be supressed. Of course, you may think that you are special and an exception and mean more to her than being just any other client. This is a common trap

 

[EagerBeaver]

She hasn’t heard of Doggie Style?

It sounded weird and fake. I think she just did not want to see fat guys.

 

[Fradi]

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Fradi, you kind of contradicting yourself. You stay that if I don’t feel an emotional attachment, she is a bad actress. This means that you agree that the affection is played and is not real. I know the game and often play my part as well going beyond pure lust and that makes meeting more enjoyable . So most often than not we play this game together. From time to time I must been playing my emotions probably all too well as one of my ATFs was even concerned that I take our relation way too seriously

Of course, it is not always black and white, and some degree of the natural affection may be present. But the bottom line is that you will be never ever more than a client to her. Good client, friendly client and any other epithet you can come with but still always a client. And SPs modus operandi is that with a client any natural feelings needs to be supressed. Of course, you may think that you are special and an exception and mean more to her than being just any other client. This is a common trap

I think the part about not being black or white is where it is at.
I don’t think that all natural feelings are suppressed at all, yes it is a money transaction and whenever I feel like ”just a client“ it is a reason to be polite and thank them for their time and move on.
I am as you say friends with one and with one in particular we are more than just friends but yes if you want it boiled down to it’s simplistic form probably neither would see me if $$ didn’t change hands, but life is never as simple as that is it.

 

[Fradi]

She hasn’t heard of Doggie Style?

Seems she only wanted puppy style.

 

[curly]

Another one in my case is the fact that if you're my age, you can easily date girls my age. And I am not a top model. It's easy for me to feel cute in the eyes of someone 2-3 times my age. But when a dude in his 20s books me I feel like an ugly disappointment even though I do have younger regulars and I'm probably more cute than I think I am haha!

You're not ugly Julia! Come in!

 

[sene5hos]

George Clooney will be 60 years old.

As I know for a fact that the majority of SPs like older clients.

So when they ask for a little description, then here is mine:
I'm in my early sixties, I have a white beard, tall and slender.
It could be me, but it could be a guy like George.

But no I would never do that the girl would be so disappointed

 

[Flyingby]

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Depends which gent shows up....

you could also add to this with
Which merbite she hopes to get. And which one shows up! The latter is more clients

 

[Bbw hunter]

I don’t deny that the girls will try to stroke your ego from time to time, but you make it sound like literally nothing they say is genuine, every possible compliment that comes my way is just her trying to not hurt my feelings or get me to see her again. I don’t believe that and if it really is true, if every girl I have seen just thinks im a complete scumbag with no redeeming attributes worth complimenting well good on them for making me believe otherwise.

You have a really unhealthy mindset if you actually believe that, to think someone can not give you a genuine compliment just cause you paid them to spend time with you. Id like to think of myself a bit more highly than that. You should too.

I tend to somewhat agree with you CN but I think you are reading too much into EB's post. I think his point is that we should take SP comments with a grain of salt. Sure some compliments will be genuine, just by the law of averages. Just don't put too much stock in them.
To answer the original question : Yes, many SPs prefer older clients for all the reasons others have stated. Just don't confuse that with them seeing us as bf material.
We here in the Silver Fox Club have it made!
Aren't we lucky to live in a world where many young women are psychologically scarred with Daddy issues?

 

[TheBlob]

I'm pretty sure that yes they prefer older clients, but that shouldn't be a strict no for younger ones. It's all about personality, i think (and wallet of course).

From time to time we see 'no men under 30' or even under 40. Is a man still young in his 30s? Yes for sure. But usually more mature than a 20 something. It's not a hard rule, though.

 

[funnyricky]

Business wise I'd prefer dealing with older men too! They are more prompt in payment and generally are looking for affection and a sense of love which is easier to provide than a 60min fuck session with horny kids that want you to act like the girl he watches in his porn.

You got the real answer...even if some SP say the opposite...i saw some SP that advertise here and they say the samething! physically easier with older dude! More talking,more cuddling....But there some SP that they like non stop action too....they want it badly! To each is own i guess! I guess this is where the term GFE and PSE take all sense!

 

[Bbw hunter]

I'm pretty sure that yes they prefer older clients, but that shouldn't be a strict no for younger ones. It's all about personality, i think (and wallet of course).

From time to time we see 'no men under 30' or even under 40. Is a man still young in his 30s? Yes for sure. But usually more mature than a 20 something. It's not a hard rule, though.

Agreed. I imagine many SPs also like ( and some may secretly prefer) younger guys. Actually I don't think that age is much of an issue one way or another. It's more about personality & chemistry but mostly making sure they get paid the full amount without any hassle.
Yet I am mighty grateful for those sweet angels who love Silver Foxes.

 

[EagerBeaver]

From time to time we see 'no men under 30' or even under 40.

I have seen way more of those restrictions than "no men over 60" or "no men over 70." In fact I know one Montreal hobbyist who is deep into his 70s and never heard of him being preemptively rejected for being too old. And it's due to all the reasons Julia Sky mentioned earlier in the thread with her on point post, younger guys being full of themselves and wanting a discount for being "hot" (we have even seen some manifestations of that attitude), guys who want to pound relentlessly Rocco Sofreddi style for 58 minutes, and immature and socially inept individuals. A lot of the younger clients fall into one of these groups. I don't really think I was mature enough to handle seeing escorts until my late 30s, which is when I started. So these exclusions are appropriate and I think they also help these guys save money for later on when they are mature and do have money to burn after moving up and growing out of the shit jobs they held from ages 25-35. In that respect, the rejection of the young client is in many cases a win-win for the SP and the young client himself.

As to the rare young clients who have the money, maturity and wisdom of a much older guy, most are probably on SA or have girlfriends. One of the guys who came to our Montreal miniparties was a 36 year old gifted with great looks and 6 figure salary as well as very solid social skills, but this combination of things made it very difficult for us to control him and his massive ego. He would show up at dinners with 2 girls we had not invited (from SA) without asking and expect us to split the tab with him, which is the rude act of a very egotistical person. And then leave after we paid for dinner and take the girls back to his room for duo action for himself. I didn't ban him over this, but he was warned to cut the shit: Good news is he has grown up since and will soon turn 40.

 

[The Nature Boy]

There was a SP who caught my eye who was from out of town who was posting on here prior to the lock down. She was in the more mature age bracket and would post adverts of herself with stuffed animals and coloring books. Was wondering where she disappeared to?

 

[Alina Sandomierski]

I like having a younger customisé once in a while, it's fun and cute . But according to my experience, young client, mean under 50 years old, most of the Time tend after a few RDV, to start wanting more, it's like they start to propose you to "chill" or call Them " any Time you want or need"...

I dont know what they are thinking. To my point if view it's a lack of maturity. I dont need to be "saved", if you want to "chill" with me i dont mind, no problème: it's the same Price... This is a job for me...

This is why i prefer older client, they dont begin to imagine stuff , they know verry well whats going on, they know the game , they just Play IT with me

 

[funnyricky]

I like having a younger customisé once in a while, it's fun and cute . But according to my experience, young client, mean under 50 years old, most of the Time tend after a few RDV, to start wanting more, it's like they start to propose you to "chill" or call Them " any Time you want or need"...

I dont know what they are thinking. To my point if view it's a lack of maturity. I dont need to be "saved", if you want to "chill" with me i dont mind, no problème: it's the same Price... This is a job for me...

This is why i prefer older client, they dont begin to imagine stuff , they know verry well whats going on, they know the game , they just Play IT with me

Lollll older client don't play the game! they dont have time to chill around with SP,they have to chill around with their wife

 

[sene5hos]

But according to my experience, young client, mean under 50 years old, most of the Time tend after a few RDV, to start wanting more,

This is a job for me...

It's nice when you get feedback from an escort.

Since I am in the senior client category, maybe it's more understandable that this is a job for you.

While I think with younger men, they are more intense, and can fall in love with you.

 

[hungry101]

She hasn’t heard of Doggie Style?

You mean cowgirl, correct.

If a girl doesn’t want to see customers of a particular race it is none of my business unless I’m the particular race that she doesn’t want to see. They certainly don’t win any brownie points with me but I’ll still see them. The only girl I asked about her “no-blacks” policy was a Puerto Rican girl who was engaged to a black man. She said that the only time she was robbed by a client was by a black client. She also said that if I used Ebonics or too much slang in my emails and texts she wouldn’t of answered them and would of blocked me.

 

[Fradi]

I don’t question why she doesn’t want to see different clients, it is her business.
There are black SP that don’t want to see black clients, small community they don’t want to run into friends or relatives.
Etc... I will not automatically reject anyone, I will read their web page reviews look at their photographs and decide when I have done my research.

 

[Anna Bijou]

Yes they do!
One and done
When a guy is young. Some girls feel judged. Younger guys tend to try and get or haggle for freebies.
they are usually cheaper as well

less work to fuck an older gent who needs breaks than a young rabbit

I don't think that is necessarily true. There is that concern with younger men but it's not the norm. Same for older men, some with ED are unstoppable lol I wouldn't make any generalization because that's not my experience. HOWEVER I would say that different types of escorts (age, body type) would make a difference on the type of client. I always assumed young spinner model types probably had a higher rate of shitheads than I did. Just don't attract or market to the same clientele. But I'm just guessing obviously. In the end, all escorts get their share of turds. You just learn to spot them. But not based on any physical traits. Words, attitude and actions.

 

[Java]

I think some do as I have seen ads stipulating that they prefer clients 35 or 40 and older. Maybe it is because they do not want meet a 25-30 year old that can work them continuously for a full hour. ( as I could do when I was that age )