Do SP's wver enjoy it?
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Of course just ask them and they will be more than happy to tell you, not with everyone, but with you it is special.
I not only enjoy but love my work. Why SPs can't enjoy theirs? On the other note, how you can be good in what you do if you hate it?
Enjoy what part exactly my guy??? Enjoying your company you can tell based off of conversation and vibe I guess.
Or if you mean if they Enjoy the sex? Respect and manors from the beginning can always set a tone sometimes on how things could be enjoyed. Just as an sp will probably ask you what you like, you can also ask them and you can express how you want to know what they like so that they can enjoy themselves as well. Effort goes a long way sometimes
In my experience I believe they enjoy it. But from one to another maybe it's not always the same .
I dunno just my two cents
It would be slightly naïve to oversimplify it this much.
The average person (and by average person, I mean those with monotonous corporate desk jobs, manual labourers, minimum-wage workers, etc) will tell you they hate what they do, but they do it to pay the bills.
I’d think the same goes for SPs. Though there are those who enjoy it, I’d think there are more who really don’t enjoy it, but still do it because it funds the lifestyle, materials, or future that they desire.
Although I can’t speak for them collectively, I’d imagine there are SPs who hate what they do, but at least occasionally enjoy a client they run into who's respectful, more ‘their type’, a decent pipe-layer, and leave a nice tip as the cherry on top.
I almost always enjoy the actual encounter. What I don't enjoy is endless messages from tire-kickers who will never book.
Ironically, in sales, those are called ‘strokers’.
If there was ever an industry that term would be better suited for, I think we found it.
I almost wrote "window shoppers"
"strokers" is too perfect
I also like to use the generalized insult from the mother country: "wanker"
But see, even that is far too simplistic. It isn't as black and white - most jobs operate under shades of grey. What I mean by this is that I think the majority of escorts like they job sometimes and hate it sometimes. Just like people in any other field.
I love what I do but I don't enjoy spending time with every single client I meet. I like being with some more than others. Some days, I'm super horny and motivated, and some other days I wish I could stay in my couch and cancel whatever appointment I have that day - sometimes even when it's a favorite client (but NEVER when there's food involved hahaha).
95% of the time, I’m enjoying myself. When I really am not, I kick them out.
I think you’re talking about sex tho so for that part only I’d say that I don’t always enjoy it but it’s very very rare. There was only 2 times in 2024 that I didn’t enjoy sex. It was for the same reason the 2 times
I think you’re talking about sex tho so for that part only I’d say that I don’t always enjoy it but it’s very very rare. There was only 2 times in 2024 that I didn’t enjoy sex. It was for the same reason the 2 times
Very touchy subject, In my experience, there are those who genuinely enjoy their work and others who are primarily motivated by financial gain, often looking forward to leave. However, I have met a few service providers who engage in this profession for both monetary reasons and a passion for sex. Some of them possess shy personalities, using this as an opportunity to explore their sexuality in a safer environment, rather than seeking out random encounters. There are also those who are nymphomania.Ultimately, the primary motivation for many is financial; it is their bread and butter .With all due respect, Instead of worrying about their enjoyment, focus on making the most of your own experience.
One of the reasons why I've participated in this forum is to show clients that this experience is not monolithic.
Even for someone who thoroughly enjoys having sex with every client and has a really high sex drive, it's a job with pros and cons. It's work, and there are clients they may not like seeing, experiences they don't enjoy, and moments when they really don't feel like working. And someone who's doing it primarily for the money, might discover things they really enjoy about this job. They might discover that some clients are actually cute and charming, that they enjoy the company and other perks.
Every session is completely different for me. I enjoy some more than others but I always learn something new. I've had life changing experiences in this field as well.
If you want the SP to enjoy the session have good hygiene, be polite and friendly, provide good conversations, respect boundaries, etc.
I think it's a good idea to want to make this a pleasant experience for the SP but it's not relevant to question their motives for being in this industry in my opinion.
Even for someone who thoroughly enjoys having sex with every client and has a really high sex drive, it's a job with pros and cons. It's work, and there are clients they may not like seeing, experiences they don't enjoy, and moments when they really don't feel like working. And someone who's doing it primarily for the money, might discover things they really enjoy about this job. They might discover that some clients are actually cute and charming, that they enjoy the company and other perks.
Every session is completely different for me. I enjoy some more than others but I always learn something new. I've had life changing experiences in this field as well.
If you want the SP to enjoy the session have good hygiene, be polite and friendly, provide good conversations, respect boundaries, etc.
I think it's a good idea to want to make this a pleasant experience for the SP but it's not relevant to question their motives for being in this industry in my opinion.
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Pastry shops near me must think I live on cake and cannolis.
The lady at the SAQ greets me as a relative and offers her knowledge on wines with such pleasure.
not every sp is the same individual and i'd say most women like men who are kind and respectful, whether or not they fall into the ''bad boy'' archetype
They always enjoy it
.. the money portion.... "thank you my dear , see you soon I had a good time, "I cannot claim to be a SP, as such I am not certain I even qualify to attempt to answer, but since this is an open forum, I will try. If SP want to correct whjat I write, please feel free to do so , I'll be happy to learn!
Like anything else, SP is a means to make money. as such one can consider it a job (The gov't sure as hell should if it wasn't so hypocritical).
As far as enjoyment, let's first remove all the SP that are coerced and forced into the industry by unscrupulous individuals and organization, who obviously have very little choice in their choosing this line of work. That's a whole other discussion, but all of us have a moral responsability to try and screen our SP in order to avoid this blatant exploitation.
Then, you have ones who have a so called choice, but are forced to do it for addiction issues or socio-economical survival. I am definitely not judging them, as I really believe one does what one can to survive, and we do not know what led people to be where they are at. But SP working to meet basic survival issues seldom do it for fun, and I doubt the fun factor comes in very often.
And then you have SP who choose this line of work because it matches something they like, and it has financial gains, and they can see many benefits. Like any other human being that has a job they chose, they must have great days, and off days, and still need to perform no matter how they feel. Unfortunately many clients in the SP business have the : I pay so I rule attitude.....not unlike real life...Which is a lousy attitude..
Also, and I put myself in the place of an sp....Some of us clients must have terrible attitudes, hygiene, manners, and expectations. That has to be unbearable. Other times some of us might be the opposite.
I know that if I was an SP, there are definitely women I would not want to have intimate interaction with. I honestly could not go past this. But other times I assume it must be fun.
But as a client, all I know, is that I have a responsibility to try and choose my SP ethically, be physically clean, discuss my expectations prior to our meeting, and respect the boundaries agreed upon.
I generally have no issues getting dates and interocurse outside SP, and when I occasionally dip in, it is to try something different, or to satisfy an impulse desire simply and without fuss. But I always approach SP's with the same respect I would any other human beings. I think if we all did that many would probably enjoy the work more!
I personally love my career(s) (s because I have 4 simultaneously). But I have good and bad days. good and bad colleagues. Days where I want to throw it all away and fly to another continent, and days where I feel the rush and adrenaline, and I am still passionate about it after 25 years.
Like anything else, SP is a means to make money. as such one can consider it a job (The gov't sure as hell should if it wasn't so hypocritical).
As far as enjoyment, let's first remove all the SP that are coerced and forced into the industry by unscrupulous individuals and organization, who obviously have very little choice in their choosing this line of work. That's a whole other discussion, but all of us have a moral responsability to try and screen our SP in order to avoid this blatant exploitation.
Then, you have ones who have a so called choice, but are forced to do it for addiction issues or socio-economical survival. I am definitely not judging them, as I really believe one does what one can to survive, and we do not know what led people to be where they are at. But SP working to meet basic survival issues seldom do it for fun, and I doubt the fun factor comes in very often.
And then you have SP who choose this line of work because it matches something they like, and it has financial gains, and they can see many benefits. Like any other human being that has a job they chose, they must have great days, and off days, and still need to perform no matter how they feel. Unfortunately many clients in the SP business have the : I pay so I rule attitude.....not unlike real life...Which is a lousy attitude..
Also, and I put myself in the place of an sp....Some of us clients must have terrible attitudes, hygiene, manners, and expectations. That has to be unbearable. Other times some of us might be the opposite.
I know that if I was an SP, there are definitely women I would not want to have intimate interaction with. I honestly could not go past this. But other times I assume it must be fun.
But as a client, all I know, is that I have a responsibility to try and choose my SP ethically, be physically clean, discuss my expectations prior to our meeting, and respect the boundaries agreed upon.
I generally have no issues getting dates and interocurse outside SP, and when I occasionally dip in, it is to try something different, or to satisfy an impulse desire simply and without fuss. But I always approach SP's with the same respect I would any other human beings. I think if we all did that many would probably enjoy the work more!
I personally love my career(s) (s because I have 4 simultaneously). But I have good and bad days. good and bad colleagues. Days where I want to throw it all away and fly to another continent, and days where I feel the rush and adrenaline, and I am still passionate about it after 25 years.
Voila. Too many seem to be focused on trying to please and sp of which your paying for a fantasy. And ive said this already a couple of times. Doesnt seem
To register or people dont wanna accept it . 95 percent of the time they are acting playing a role . Thats their job and who cares. Like obvio said just enjoy the experience
I think if most would put this much effort and focus on their wifes gfs or even women outside this industry, pleasing them rather than asking “ do they enjoy it” “ did they orgasm” did i daty/dato them to orgasm” “ did they enjoy the dfk” . And most importantly pay. I promise youll be 50 times confident and happy.
Granted theres different situations for everyone but thats my observation
I'm quoting Mark Twain here, "Find a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life". Most of the ladies that I have met showed that they enjoy what they do. And i do agree you have bad days(customers) and good one too.
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