Do those around you know that you are meeting escorts?
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Quite easy...friendship over 40 years...we are more like brothers than friends....with sports--politics it's our major topic.....lol.
Yes,
I wear T shirts with their blurred pictures on them.
All my friends are envious of the one with the fabulous ass.
I wear T shirts with their blurred pictures on them.
All my friends are envious of the one with the fabulous ass.
Fradi if I understand everyone knows it, even your children, and they have never commented.
If yes, you are lucky.
I have a chosen few who know, mostly the visitors from Alberta for F-1 and other summer festivals.
As usual you don’t understand.
Why would I advertise that I see escorts, it is nobody else’s business.
A couple of my close friends know, as they were always trying to set me up with their wives girl friends, work colleagues and I finally got fed up and showed them a blurred picture of my ATF and another young lady.
Now they leave me alone and we can concentrate on golf and having a few much deserved beers after.
Hm considering that I have a highly sporadic relationship to the whole thing, I don't consider that I have anything to hide. I've told some of my male friends, which appeared suprised of my experiences and did not ask anything. I also tell the truth to any girlfriend who ask the question. They get curious about the ''whys'' but up to now I've never been rejected because of it. The ones who are 'shocked' simply assume that men and women have the same level of sexual freedom, and getting the reverse message from an man which is attractive enough for them burst their bubble. Their subconcious tells them "If I was a man, maybe I would be doing it too", and then they project their self judgment on me for a few minutes. Very good way to spot immature people. There is also one female ex-girlfriend-now-friend who think my few adventures are interesting, and is curious about it.
The way I view it, my experiences allowed me to get rid of my inner-bitch. There is nothing less ''manly'' than whinning about your sexual frustrations and being a helpless about the situation. Its perfectly normal to test your limits, and a lot can be learned by observing the differences between your experience and your fantasy. Simply knowing that SP-SB-wathever exist and that I can access it at will makes me less nervous sexually, and as a result I'm more attractive. I think its called ''integrating your shadow''. I'm also very grateful to understand a bit more about the lives and challenges of sex workers and their clients. I view it as a part of society that we are not collectively mature enough to deal with. At the end of the day, we are the only one who can truly fool ourselves.
The way I view it, my experiences allowed me to get rid of my inner-bitch. There is nothing less ''manly'' than whinning about your sexual frustrations and being a helpless about the situation. Its perfectly normal to test your limits, and a lot can be learned by observing the differences between your experience and your fantasy. Simply knowing that SP-SB-wathever exist and that I can access it at will makes me less nervous sexually, and as a result I'm more attractive. I think its called ''integrating your shadow''. I'm also very grateful to understand a bit more about the lives and challenges of sex workers and their clients. I view it as a part of society that we are not collectively mature enough to deal with. At the end of the day, we are the only one who can truly fool ourselves.
No,....I keep it a secret, nobody knows.Friendships often sour....and that knowledge could be used against you depending on your martial status or whatever job your holding.There is still a lot of prejudice against SP's and the people who use them. Human nature being what it is.....people just love to gossip....
It sholdn't be too much of a concern for them, it's not like they're gonna catch it next... I hope!
No it's not for them, but they wouldn't want their daddy to not be able to enjoy life the way he wants.
I have never talked about this to anyone, it’s nobody’s business anyway. I think there are too many people who are judgemental in life. what goes on in our private lives can remain private if that’s what we choose. I have close friends of 30+ years and I am not sure what I would gain by telling them about this. A lot of my experiences in life has taught me some things are better left unsaid.
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