Except it has happened to ladies in the past and in the present. You are all VERY naive if you think every client is as sane and as respectful as you guys may be. Some guys are mentally ill and do wrong stuff for the thrill of it. Some guys literally book girls with the sole purpose of spreading an STI or trying to get them pregnant and disappear. Psychos DO exist, just because you're not a psycho doesn't mean you should ignore the fact that they exist. ''Why the fuck would a guy do this'' because he's a psycho, that's why.
Do you bring your own condoms?
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Haha no I don't. The reason I bring my own is not paranoya, I just have a favorite brand and thin condom model is all. The new box part is because I was once told no because the box was already opened and she prefered to use hers because of that.
I don't mean to speak for GMA, but I don't think the point was that a provider is not allowed to turn any given customer down, but rather that if one chooses to be an escort, you are choosing a business where you have sex with men that you would not otherwise have sex with in your personal life.
Obviously, any escort is free to turn down any man for any reason, but if montreal's beautiful providers only accepted clients they would have have sex with in their personal life, I would never have been able to book any of them. I think I am a good client who treats providers well, but I am under no illusions that these women would go home with a schlubby middle aged American if I met her at the bar.
Isaac Hayes - who is an NBA prospect at Purdue - is currently accused of doing this very thing only with non-pro college girls
Rusty, do you mean Isaac Haas? I just read about this case. He was accused of knowingly infecting several women with herpes. I also just read about Craig Jaret Hutchinson, a Canadian who poked holes in condoms to get his gf pregnant so that she would stay with him. Hutchinson ended up getting eighteen months in prison. This act actually has a name: reproductive coercion.
According to an American study conducted in 2010 by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 4.8% of the women surveyed reported having had an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant when they did not want to and 8.7% of men reported that their partners tried to get pregnant without their consent. https://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/NISVS_Report2010-a.pdf
I haven't found anything on anyone purposely poking holes in condoms to spread disease, but I guess it has probably happened at some point.
Nonetheless, all of this is pretty sobering and depressing. It's for this reason that I could never be an SP (and also that my client base would have to be very niche, lol). I would be way too paranoid of this type of thing happening. It also lends greater context to all those times when SPs look back or felt around to make sure the condom is on. Some must be quite nervous about potential stealthing. I guess that this apprehension would at least partly be assuaged if the client becomes a regular.
According to an American study conducted in 2010 by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 4.8% of the women surveyed reported having had an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant when they did not want to and 8.7% of men reported that their partners tried to get pregnant without their consent. https://www.cdc.gov/ViolencePrevention/pdf/NISVS_Report2010-a.pdf
I haven't found anything on anyone purposely poking holes in condoms to spread disease, but I guess it has probably happened at some point.
Nonetheless, all of this is pretty sobering and depressing. It's for this reason that I could never be an SP (and also that my client base would have to be very niche, lol). I would be way too paranoid of this type of thing happening. It also lends greater context to all those times when SPs look back or felt around to make sure the condom is on. Some must be quite nervous about potential stealthing. I guess that this apprehension would at least partly be assuaged if the client becomes a regular.
More on the lawsuit against Isaac Haas here:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.jconline.com/amp/506982002
It’s embarrassing for Haas at the very least.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.jconline.com/amp/506982002
It’s embarrassing for Haas at the very least.
Never had a girl refuse my condom.Chowzilla: Now I am curious of that brand of condom, if you don't mind sharing it please.
I am old enough to have had the privilege to have a real course on sexuality, even 2 times, one at school and one by my mom who was a health professional as well.
So, it has always been recommended to girls/women that it could be a best idea that she takes care of the condoms so then, she will be sure of how they have been carried/taken care of.
Probably because (and I really saw it, that's not a "légende urbaine") men used to have 1-2 condoms in their wallets, and basically, that's probably the worst way to keep condoms on yourself.
So women with their purses are having certainly a great advantage to bring condoms more securely.
This all said, if I meet someone having his own's, I will just assured myself of their provenance & how they have been taken care of. And if I am having even a subtle doubt (like if they are not brand new), I will use mine.
Someone wanted to use "lamb natural condoms" and well, they are of no use against STI. And that's my personal main concern obviously.
I am old enough to have had the privilege to have a real course on sexuality, even 2 times, one at school and one by my mom who was a health professional as well.
So, it has always been recommended to girls/women that it could be a best idea that she takes care of the condoms so then, she will be sure of how they have been carried/taken care of.
Probably because (and I really saw it, that's not a "légende urbaine") men used to have 1-2 condoms in their wallets, and basically, that's probably the worst way to keep condoms on yourself.
So women with their purses are having certainly a great advantage to bring condoms more securely.
This all said, if I meet someone having his own's, I will just assured myself of their provenance & how they have been taken care of. And if I am having even a subtle doubt (like if they are not brand new), I will use mine.
Someone wanted to use "lamb natural condoms" and well, they are of no use against STI. And that's my personal main concern obviously.
If I were a provider I would have a similar mindset as Maria Divina - I would generally prefer to provide the condoms myself because I generally prefer to control the situation. If the condom is coming from my purse I don't have to worry about tampering, expiration or allergy. If a client brings his own, it would be a case by case basis that generally comes down to me trusting that they guys is not an asshat.
Maria is right about so called lambskin condoms not protecting against STDs:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/melmagazine.com/amp/p/cfbdda34a07f
https://www.google.com/amp/s/melmagazine.com/amp/p/cfbdda34a07f
Oh yes! I remember that, sometimes you could see the outline of the condom on the outside of the wallet.
Guys did it to look cool, like "I might get laid at any time, so I have to be ready".
I am sure most escorts would want to use their own condoms out of safety concerns.
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