I have several ATFs that I see at least once a month. In my experience I get better mileage when they know me. I do try new places and people but I find that either it is disappointing or average. I have had good experiences that make me a regular but this is extremely rare. My best bang for the buck is with regulars. What is your experience?
Do you get better mileage as a regular?
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It would be the same as going to the same business on a regular basis, of course you should get better service, if not move on.
You even get discounts at businesses when you purchase a lot of stuff.
You even get discounts at businesses when you purchase a lot of stuff.
There are definitely benefits to being a regular or repeat customer.
I don`t believe in discounts. Never got one and never wanted one. Discounts will eventually put you in a compromising position and eventually bite you in the ass.
There are other benefits I enjoy. Getting good and dependable service. Getting heads up on a new girl. Getting honest feedback on the girl you want to book.
Finding out feedback by clients on a girl beats reading reviews.
Being able to book a girl who is not yet on the schedule. Getting pics on request. All are valuable and intangible benefits to being a regular customer.
Regarding Indies one of the biggest benefits is getting to book her just before she gets fully booked. Getting the max service during YMMV sessions.
I don`t believe in discounts. Never got one and never wanted one. Discounts will eventually put you in a compromising position and eventually bite you in the ass.
There are other benefits I enjoy. Getting good and dependable service. Getting heads up on a new girl. Getting honest feedback on the girl you want to book.
Finding out feedback by clients on a girl beats reading reviews.
Being able to book a girl who is not yet on the schedule. Getting pics on request. All are valuable and intangible benefits to being a regular customer.
Regarding Indies one of the biggest benefits is getting to book her just before she gets fully booked. Getting the max service during YMMV sessions.
You definitely build a trust that leads to much better mileage. Including better service, extra time, freebies, name it...
The drawback is human being human you also loose the spontaneity of a new girl who wants to impress you in order to retain you as a regular
Me it's 3 regular a month plus a new girl. Best I have found
The drawback is human being human you also loose the spontaneity of a new girl who wants to impress you in order to retain you as a regular
Me it's 3 regular a month plus a new girl. Best I have found
It depends on what you mean by being a regular. Do you mean with one girl or one agency? When I have good luck with a particular agency, FKK, clinica... I tend to stick with them until they give me a reason to move on. I don't repeat a lot with the individual girls. I like the newness of each encounter as I try to make my way through the lineup. I can remember repeating with 13 different girls and only one girl 3 times. (Note* This doesn't exactly make me a regular.) I noticed a few things...1st, I enjoy the variety. I do a lot of 3sums for this reason. I like to meet new and different girls from different races, countries, and cultures and fuck them. When I am with the same girl, most of the time I get bored. Variety is why most of us hobby anyways.
2nd, When I have repeated with girls they sometimes relax and don't try as hard the 2nd date. I thought I was in lust with Bella of Golden Time. I booked her for multiple hours and she really took liberty to goof off and relax and sleep and cuddle. I did this again with a repeat date with a girl at Sharks I thought I really liked and she just plopped down and said I'm tired and wanted me to rub her back. The infatuation had worn off. I cut that date short at 30 minutes.
I also want to say, when you have the date of your life sometimes it is just better to not repeat because it can't get any better. Savor that memory and move on.
2nd, When I have repeated with girls they sometimes relax and don't try as hard the 2nd date. I thought I was in lust with Bella of Golden Time. I booked her for multiple hours and she really took liberty to goof off and relax and sleep and cuddle. I did this again with a repeat date with a girl at Sharks I thought I really liked and she just plopped down and said I'm tired and wanted me to rub her back. The infatuation had worn off. I cut that date short at 30 minutes.
I also want to say, when you have the date of your life sometimes it is just better to not repeat because it can't get any better. Savor that memory and move on.
There are definate advantages although I may be doing things all wrong.
I see a few that I repeat with and I kind of feel guilty at not seeing them enough as I do enjoy their company and they are all super kind to me each time.
They are all unique in their own way and I would be happy at having anyone of them as an ATF.
Then there is one in particular who I have lost count in how many times I have seen.
With her it is different, yeah I know it is PFP I am not that stupid, but it is like being with a magical enchantress each time, someone I can't wait to see to talk to and just to be with.
I guess it helps that she is the one I have always found to be the most gorgeous and nobody treats me the way she does, is it all just a fantasy, perhaps, probably, but in the end it feels that good that I don't really care.
She is actually far better than any real girlfriend I have ever had, this lady is in a class of her own where I am concerned.
I think I probably only see other escorts to make sure I don't get completely addicted to her. It is obviously not working, but it is a fun way to try and fool myself.
I see a few that I repeat with and I kind of feel guilty at not seeing them enough as I do enjoy their company and they are all super kind to me each time.
They are all unique in their own way and I would be happy at having anyone of them as an ATF.
Then there is one in particular who I have lost count in how many times I have seen.
With her it is different, yeah I know it is PFP I am not that stupid, but it is like being with a magical enchantress each time, someone I can't wait to see to talk to and just to be with.
I guess it helps that she is the one I have always found to be the most gorgeous and nobody treats me the way she does, is it all just a fantasy, perhaps, probably, but in the end it feels that good that I don't really care.
She is actually far better than any real girlfriend I have ever had, this lady is in a class of her own where I am concerned.
I think I probably only see other escorts to make sure I don't get completely addicted to her. It is obviously not working, but it is a fun way to try and fool myself.
I think Jalimon hit the nail on the head here. Advantage: you are more comfortable and familiar with each other which can lead to better sex and even more flexibility with time sometimes.Disadvantage: too many repeat visits means she can take you for granted as she may no longer feel the need to impress you as much.
Yep. Definitely.
Picky point....I am not sure "mileage" is that phrase I would use. Just sayin'
From the woman's viewpoint (and some will tell you)... they are nervous and trying to figure out if you're a bad guy (annoying guy) the first time.
After one or two times, they know you, they like that you like them (you came back), they don't have to be nervous, they feel safe, they have learned at least some of your buttons, so they feel confident pleasing you....
[Note: There is no woman that every man likes. They all get some rejection. It is tough, as you know.]
There is something, sometimes, in the energy of the first mystery encounter. A spark. But I think this "clash of the titans" idea is over-rated....although I think it can happen.
Repeats, where you and she KNOW the chemistry is working....MUCH better bet.
Still, guys (that would include me and most women too)....sooner (me) or later (women usually) want a little variety too.
Even Filet Mignon would become boring if every night. But then, you probably don't "do this" every night.
Note: Cloudy explained well what I was feeling about "mileage". (Not that the OP really meant it that way.... not sure.) This is not the kind of thing IMO where you try to get "every nickel" out of her. Or to get discounts. It is a time to be generous in all ways, and usually women repay (all kinds of) generosity very well. Women are more generous. I don't mean be super-generous (throwing money around). I mean be (somewhat) generous in all ways.
Picky point....I am not sure "mileage" is that phrase I would use. Just sayin'
From the woman's viewpoint (and some will tell you)... they are nervous and trying to figure out if you're a bad guy (annoying guy) the first time.
After one or two times, they know you, they like that you like them (you came back), they don't have to be nervous, they feel safe, they have learned at least some of your buttons, so they feel confident pleasing you....
[Note: There is no woman that every man likes. They all get some rejection. It is tough, as you know.]
There is something, sometimes, in the energy of the first mystery encounter. A spark. But I think this "clash of the titans" idea is over-rated....although I think it can happen.
Repeats, where you and she KNOW the chemistry is working....MUCH better bet.
Still, guys (that would include me and most women too)....sooner (me) or later (women usually) want a little variety too.
Even Filet Mignon would become boring if every night. But then, you probably don't "do this" every night.
Note: Cloudy explained well what I was feeling about "mileage". (Not that the OP really meant it that way.... not sure.) This is not the kind of thing IMO where you try to get "every nickel" out of her. Or to get discounts. It is a time to be generous in all ways, and usually women repay (all kinds of) generosity very well. Women are more generous. I don't mean be super-generous (throwing money around). I mean be (somewhat) generous in all ways.
I completely agree. I never ask for discounts nor expect to receive any.
Exactly. That has been my experience with second dates for the most part. There are rare gems whom I have repeated with and the subsequent encounters improved, but the magic eventually evaporates, and then time to move on.
Shyman...I have seen this (she starts to take the man for granted...is how I will say it quickly). Yes, some SPs are like that. It has happened to me. BUT, I do not find it as common as you seem to.
Could be many reasons why. Maybe "love" is blind is one of them (ie, I'm blind).
Maybe I have been lucky to find real chemistry a bit more often. Whatever....
Hmmm. "The magic eventually evaporates....". This is famous problem for marriages.
Hmm, well, maybe....how long is eventually for you? I have gone on for several (5+) years with some. IMO, no evaporation. Seems a VERY good deal to me. Although probably eventually you will be right.
The best with regular is no discount and stick and hope for some freebies once in a while (but at the same time... bring some gift too!).
But the day she raises her price, as they all do eventually, I have so far always been offered pre-raised price
Cheers,
But the day she raises her price, as they all do eventually, I have so far always been offered pre-raised price
Cheers,
Yup. The extra mileage is a nice bonus, but not required for me. Theres a reason why I repeat in the first place! After numerous visits, a friendship-esqe relationship and trust is built.
I have maybe 5 that I consider myself regular with, and such benefits are (not in any specific order or a specific girl)
- Anal, although not her forte, but is willing to give it a go with me since it's on my bucket list and she trusts me enough to stop if needed etc
- GFE when they do not offer GFE to anyone
- Personal phone numbers
- Option for incall at their home on their days off if I am unable to see them while scheduled
- Extra options that are not on their menu (some not offered to anyone at all)
- Extra options but void the fee
- Their price has fluctuated over time and depending on where they are working. I get the lowest.
- Extra time
- Intel on other girls that I am thinking of seeing
- Go out to dinner and/or drinks
- Interesting stories lol
And an odd one: Dog sitter for when I'm out of town. I have yet to cash this in though. I guess this is a mutual extra mileage lol
I do not extra any discounts or freebies though. Their time is still money.
I have maybe 5 that I consider myself regular with, and such benefits are (not in any specific order or a specific girl)
- Anal, although not her forte, but is willing to give it a go with me since it's on my bucket list and she trusts me enough to stop if needed etc
- GFE when they do not offer GFE to anyone
- Personal phone numbers
- Option for incall at their home on their days off if I am unable to see them while scheduled
- Extra options that are not on their menu (some not offered to anyone at all)
- Extra options but void the fee
- Their price has fluctuated over time and depending on where they are working. I get the lowest.
- Extra time
- Intel on other girls that I am thinking of seeing
- Go out to dinner and/or drinks
- Interesting stories lol
And an odd one: Dog sitter for when I'm out of town. I have yet to cash this in though. I guess this is a mutual extra mileage lol
I do not extra any discounts or freebies though. Their time is still money.
I think this answer is twofold
Yes you do.
Even sonia once tweeted. Take care of your regulars! 1 regular is better than 10 new clients.
Your regular knows you. What you like. You know her. What she likes. The sex is just that much better.
But than again. Like in a relationship. You need to keep it spicy. Or it can fizzle
And you just lost the point of being a regular
Yes you do.
Even sonia once tweeted. Take care of your regulars! 1 regular is better than 10 new clients.
Your regular knows you. What you like. You know her. What she likes. The sex is just that much better.
But than again. Like in a relationship. You need to keep it spicy. Or it can fizzle
And you just lost the point of being a regular
Ce n'est pas pareil d'une personne à l'autre.
J'ai eu des régulières où les rencontres ont toujours été aussi bonnes et où on a développé une belle complicité. Il y en a même que j'ai connu leur vrai nom et où on est devenu à l'aise comme de vrais amis.
Mais j'en ai eu d'autres aussi où ma partenaire perdait de plus en plus d'intérêt.
J'ai eu des régulières où les rencontres ont toujours été aussi bonnes et où on a développé une belle complicité. Il y en a même que j'ai connu leur vrai nom et où on est devenu à l'aise comme de vrais amis.
Mais j'en ai eu d'autres aussi où ma partenaire perdait de plus en plus d'intérêt.
For years now, I usually have one or two regulars and stray occasionally. My current regulars usually stay noticeably longer than the time agreed and provide even better services than they did at the beginning (e.g. long DFK instead of LFK).
Over the years I have had regulars who started cutting short the time, making less of an effort in bed, showing up late or cancelling at the last minute or confessing that they didn't like some of the standard GFE services with anybody.
I'm absolutely certain that some of them would universally be regarded as absolutely DDG. Those were shocked when I ended our arrangement as they were apparently not used to any man rejecting them. One even threatened me to continue.
Over the years I have had regulars who started cutting short the time, making less of an effort in bed, showing up late or cancelling at the last minute or confessing that they didn't like some of the standard GFE services with anybody.
I'm absolutely certain that some of them would universally be regarded as absolutely DDG. Those were shocked when I ended our arrangement as they were apparently not used to any man rejecting them. One even threatened me to continue.
How did she threaten you to continue? Was she like “Bitch, u better keep payin me to hang out with you!!!”
i gotta hear this
i gotta hear this
She actually acknowledged that I had the right to quit, but didn't care. She claimed to know some rough characters whom she was going to send after me. I saw no choice, but to resort to a counter threat - to expose her, starting with her family.
I haven't heard from her in 7 years.
