your opinion is noted but i disagree
Even with no medical experiance a average person can look at a person and give '' his/her opinion'' on what he/she considers looks good healthy weight range which will vary from person to person
opinions are just that someone saying they like a woman or man who looks healthy is not a diagnosis rather a opinion in their mind of a range of weight they find appealing
an athlete can generally stand out in appearance from the average person being woman or man yet some people are born gifted and with zero training can have this rare body type
a person height weight proportionate may look ''healthy'' yet have some underline illness
a person could be overweight yet be in good health
many people are over sensitive to comments their weight either underweight or overweight
and generally i like skinny or petite woman but .........at my age if a hole in the wall or pile of hair on the barber shop floor gets my dick hard ill fuck it!
But you're actually kind of agreeing with me though. And also missing my point lol
It's not a diagnosis, it's an opinion that isn't based on facts. I'm not sure what value there is in defining what's healthy based on an opinion or thinking of health as an opinion. There are many markers to define health and none of them involve purely personal opinion. Do you just have a 5-minute chat with your doctor about the weather, he gives you his opinion that yup you look healthy and then that's settled and you go home knowing you're healthy? I sure as hell hope not lol
We're not in his head, we have no clue what his perception of what looks healthy or not is. It's just a completely irrelevant and meaningless word that is absolutely loaded with a person's own bias and judgment, has zero validity and therefore adds zero positive value to the comment. It does, however, have negative effects. How is there a dilemma on whether or not to say it. And again, it doesn't even have anything to do with caring about the person's actual health status. The attraction isn't dependent on concern for the other's health. If you think someone's hot and they tell you they just got a bad diagnosis, are you no longer attracted because they are unhealthy? Unlikely. So this is what I mean. It's bullshit fake concern on top of it. We are capable of thinking and changing. Not because we're over-sensitive but because language matters and life is about becoming better, not acting like unthinking selfish robots.
It's not really about being sensitive, it's about using stereotypes that have
real-life consequences on many levels on a lot of people. Ironically, it's using stereotypes that encourage bias that actually harms people's health and in some cases with serious consequences. Being mindful of the ways we reinforce implicit and explicit bias that harms others is not being sensitive. It's being a decent, just, and caring humans and taking means that are easily accessible to us to prevent harming others, or at the very least not be responsible for causing harm.
People can be sensitive but this is not what this is about. And you cannot compare being sensitive about being underweight with the way people who are perceived as even a little overweight are treated. And the feigned concerns about health are absolutely related to all of it. So I'm saying can we please stfu about this fake concern about health and what health should or does look like. Sorry, I just find it so annoying at this point because people aren't stupid, they know what they're saying..I mean, he's not subtle about it either:
I like "healthy looking" ... some meat is needed, but I don't like being able wrap my hand around "a chunk of skin"... except for boobs.
A chunk of skin? We ARE chunks of skin lol I'm fairly sure healthy humans have chunks of skins.
The irony is stating a preference for a body that looks like an adult woman over a child was the "body shaming" that caused offense in this thread. Don't tell me there's not something really weird about what people think of as body shaming.