When i was younger i used to hang out with a stripper she matched me with a 4 feet 11 99 pounds girl, she was hot and she gave me the best BJ i ever had, in the bed she was dynamite, god i miss 1996 things were so easy back then.
Do you like skinny girls?
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Just say you like slim. "Healthy looking" doesn't mean anything. You cannot know a person's health status just by looking at them, so it's an assumption made based on nothing objective. What people will see as "healthy looking" also changes all the time and varies based on what the beauty standards happen to be at any given time in any particular culture or social norms.
Makes more sense to state what your preference is, as opposed to implying it automatically equates to health and everything else is therefore unhealthy looking or unhealthy. It also has nothing to do with health, so why even pretend it does.
Also, as others have mentioned when someone says skinny, I understand it as a synonym for thin or slim. I don't think "maigre" although I think it's the dictionary definition. Most people say skinny interchangeably with thin/slim. They mean "not fat". They don't say it thinking anorexic or cancer patient weight. They mean fitting beauty standards IMO.
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But you're actually kind of agreeing with me though. And also missing my point lol
It's not a diagnosis, it's an opinion that isn't based on facts. I'm not sure what value there is in defining what's healthy based on an opinion or thinking of health as an opinion. There are many markers to define health and none of them involve purely personal opinion. Do you just have a 5-minute chat with your doctor about the weather, he gives you his opinion that yup you look healthy and then that's settled and you go home knowing you're healthy? I sure as hell hope not lol
We're not in his head, we have no clue what his perception of what looks healthy or not is. It's just a completely irrelevant and meaningless word that is absolutely loaded with a person's own bias and judgment, has zero validity and therefore adds zero positive value to the comment. It does, however, have negative effects. How is there a dilemma on whether or not to say it. And again, it doesn't even have anything to do with caring about the person's actual health status. The attraction isn't dependent on concern for the other's health. If you think someone's hot and they tell you they just got a bad diagnosis, are you no longer attracted because they are unhealthy? Unlikely. So this is what I mean. It's bullshit fake concern on top of it. We are capable of thinking and changing. Not because we're over-sensitive but because language matters and life is about becoming better, not acting like unthinking selfish robots.
It's not really about being sensitive, it's about using stereotypes that have real-life consequences on many levels on a lot of people. Ironically, it's using stereotypes that encourage bias that actually harms people's health and in some cases with serious consequences. Being mindful of the ways we reinforce implicit and explicit bias that harms others is not being sensitive. It's being a decent, just, and caring humans and taking means that are easily accessible to us to prevent harming others, or at the very least not be responsible for causing harm.
People can be sensitive but this is not what this is about. And you cannot compare being sensitive about being underweight with the way people who are perceived as even a little overweight are treated. And the feigned concerns about health are absolutely related to all of it. So I'm saying can we please stfu about this fake concern about health and what health should or does look like. Sorry, I just find it so annoying at this point because people aren't stupid, they know what they're saying..I mean, he's not subtle about it either:
A chunk of skin? We ARE chunks of skin lol I'm fairly sure healthy humans have chunks of skins.
The irony is stating a preference for a body that looks like an adult woman over a child was the "body shaming" that caused offense in this thread. Don't tell me there's not something really weird about what people think of as body shaming.
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I think I mentioned that my preference is a nice hour glass figure with curves in the right places around 5’4” to 5’8” with long dark hair and a gorgeous face and nice rear end.and if she happens to have a fabulous voice and French accent all the better.
Having said that I am not opposed to spinners who have a pretty face and a friendly disposition.
There are many things about a woman that can turn you on for instance I think a young lady who is let’s say on the lighter side of the scale who advertises here I find very attractive and hot and on the other end I also think Lou Simone who is a totally gorgeous BBW is hot also.
Having said that I am not opposed to spinners who have a pretty face and a friendly disposition.
There are many things about a woman that can turn you on for instance I think a young lady who is let’s say on the lighter side of the scale who advertises here I find very attractive and hot and on the other end I also think Lou Simone who is a totally gorgeous BBW is hot also.
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