Do you prefer booking a SP days in advance? or more spontaneously?

[Skym]

Hey guys,
What's your personal preference when booking a lovely lady?

Do you prefer booking more in advance, like days in advance? Or more spur of the moment? Spontaneously?

Are you more of a long term planner when booking or more booking in the short term? Kinda like heat of the moment or wake up with morning wood lol jk



Discuss!

 

[EastWind]

I miss the days when you can book an agency girl weeks in advance. That was in the days when the HDH market was in full swing. If for some reason the girl you wanted to see became unavailable the agency reaches out to you for alternatives.

 

[Ogre Tones]

I don’t control my work agenda. It is very hard to book in advance. I tried a couple of time and then when I need to change my meeting, I felt that ir was an irritant for the girls I was planing to meet. So I have move to be more last minute. It doesn’t work super well…but at YPG it works. Hence my go to. OT

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

I like to plan in advance to ensure a booking.

However, booking in the spur of the moment brings more excitement and adrenaline rush, especially if the meeting ends up being outstanding, it feels like winning lol. But booking last minute can also have the adverse effect too.

 

[newguy39]

I prefer to go semi spontaneously as I try to book but the same day, or sometime last minute if someone I like is still avaible (partly because of job and family planning too that cannot be plan too much in advance).

But for some pearl that are hard to book, I do some exception and reserve in advance to enjoy their nice company

 

[nycc77]

I’m firmly in the advance booking camp, especially when you want a truly customized experience.

Planning ahead allows me to actually select preferences, or specific “flavors” I’ve been looking for….Last-minute can be fun and spontaneous, but too often it’s just whoever’s available and the chemistry/experience ends up in the average range.

When I know I’m traveling or have a free evening coming up, I’ll reach out a day or two (sometimes more) in advance to lock in someone who matches what I’m craving. The anticipation itself is part of the fun. Spur-of-the-moment has its place when the stars align, but for the really memorable ones ..advance bookings wins every time for me in MTL or abroad.

 

[CLOUD 500]

I like to book in advance has I have a rigid schedule, everything is planned in advance. But with agencies it is hard to book in advance, only few agencies post a schedule in advance but most you will not know till the same day.

 

[envelopes]

I pretty much never ever book SPs in advance. The max I would do is 4-5 hours.

In the past, I did book days in advance and either A) the SP flakes, waste of my time, B) I'm not in the mood anymore, C) I'm not sure if I'll end up being busy. But most of the time, I'm just not in the mood anymore. I would go, end up not really being into it, and wasting my money.

I rather just take whoever is available than to book someone in advance.

 

[newguy39]

Both ways are thrilling imo:

in advance it's exciting to anticipate the fun meeting upcoming with a well reputed provider mmm

and last second it's kind of feeling lucky to find someone nice still avaible that fit your schedule and have together a nice time assuming your natural instinct with her, yesss

 

[David Sel et Poivre]

I prefer booking days / weeks in advance, but I have, on very rare occasions, booked on the spur of the moment...

 

[newguy39]

Fun fact, I sometime have a specific sp in mind for days that I don't book in advance as I try to resist my addiction but when comes the moment planned, I call or text just last minute to see if she's still avaible and if it's meant to be than she is and I go for it (kind of approved/legit and light heart).... but if she is fully booked, then it was not meant to be... till the next time (I can't control my libido these days hehe)
I don't know if I'm the only one using sometime the last minute option as kind a filter ?

 

[S.S neo]

I never book in advance ... it’s not a haircut or a dental scaling...

Too much cancellation chances on both sides.

 

[EastWind]

I never book in advance ... it’s not a haircut or a dental scaling...

Too much cancellation chances on both sides.

Yeah understandable if the date is too far out.

 

[Great]

Spontaneous.
Some days I'm not in the mood, or haven't slept well, or just feel more like being left alone, etc... Lol some days I wake up & am ready to go. Hard to predict.

I hate the performance anxiety of 'I have to do this now or it's money wasted', it can feel perfunctory instead of something I want to do...

 

[bodick7]

I prefer at least 2 days before so I can prepare properly. I got a military schedule…
Whatever will happen, will happen at session time.
It’s usually ok.
It happened a couple of times that mood was so so and sessions just recranked me up

 

[mtremblay]

I prefer to book on the same day. It could be a spur of the moment or a schedule date where I look at my options. I have tried booking up to 3 weeks in advance and it just drove me mad from anticipation. I'm ok with booking a few days in advance when booking an independent, I understand the challenges of managing the incall and related stuffs. And I am more flexible when booking a special session with multiple parties

 

[Johnny82]

With indies : in advance
With agencies : impossible to book in advance now for most agencies

It’s one of the reason why I prefer to book with indies

 

[Smitty Jaeger-Manjenson]

I'm much more likely to know if I have time/am in a good condition the day of.

 

[EastWind]

I have tried booking up to 3 weeks in advance and it just drove me mad from anticipation.

For me the build up to the day of the actual meeting with the girl is a part of the adventure in this hobby. A huge part. That is why I like to book in advance. Putting things in a mental and emotional pedestal until I actually meet the girl adds to the intensity. It is a double edge sword though. If things went great I am on Cloud 9 for weeks and months. If things didn't go well I just scream at myself for being an idiot and put things to past ASAP lol. It's all good I mean this is a fantasy with known boundaries in a controlled environment.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Since not located in Montreal i need to book in advance unless i have a show or something to attend that day and im going anyway. And still its possible that day my top 3-4 choices from agencies are not available and the indies are already booked. So while i may book someone that wasn't on my "priority list" and have a great time, there is still that disapointement to not being able to see someone you been hoping to see for a while. Especially when you know your next visit is in 2 months minimum. So what i usually do is i book someone in advance to be sure i have one good time, but i keep a possible 2nd meeting if by luck one of the SPs i really want to see is working that day at the right hours. That tough is for 2 agencies SPs at roughly 300. I can't do it if i have booked an indy at 600...

I know if i had a car going to Montreal would simply mean being mindset on driving 3h that day (90m back and forth) and that would be it, but since i don't it involve either a friends to host me or booking an hotel and planning multiple transports. Last minute is just not possible if im going for that. And quite honestly i already find the ride tedious as a passenger... can't imagine driving ...lol

Otherwise i am still a very sexual person in my 40s as like Bruce Banner would say "Here's my secret Capt, im always horny" lol so i never really feel not being in the mood (unless its a terrible day of cancellations and its getting very late). But basically if i book in advance, i refrain from "pleasuring myself" a day or 2 and i know for a fact ill be horny when i get there