do you think an sp can stay more than a year in the buisness without using drug

[Mod 8]

Hello everyone,

We have been very tolerant in allowing this thread to continue but I will ask everyone not to discuss any specific lady or agency in this thread. As in any other thread on MERB we do not allow speculation or unprovable rumor or accusations to be posted. If you wish to have a general discussion there is no problem at all but as soon as names begin to be mentioned, things have crossed the line.

Thread cleaned, 4 posts removed.

Thank you,

Mod 8

 

[Perverted]

You can discuss it in a girls personal thread but God forbid you mention it on a general thread about the issue lol, you made me laugh at least thanks for that.

 

[Mod 8]

Actually you cannot make any specific claims in a review thread either. When we notice such claims, they are also removed and a warning posted. If someone wishes to include comments in a review regarding a SPs behavior during their encounter, that is fine as long as they do not make any assumptions regarding the reason.

M8

 

[Perverted]

Your so full of shit because so many posts say that they thought the girl was stoned or drunk and you never removed them or asked for an alcohol or drug test, plus those posts had been there a couple of days how come today was the straw that broke the camels back, quoting white rabbit was a little too much or is it Alice in Wonderland that you dont like lol. Maybe its just because it was directed towards some of the devils minions, no names or places.

 

[Perverted]

Just cant let it go Reverdy even with so much proof, what an ass kisser.

 

[Mod 11]

Perverted, telling a Mod he's full of shit is never a good idea... Think about that for the next week.

We don't read all threads. That would take way too much time for 2 persons to do. We do have a life outside MERB and Fred isn't paying our bills.

When members see something out of line, we appreciate being warned about it. Holding back and dropping it all in one shot when it's convenient for attacking us is counter productive at best.

Can anybody imagine the time it will take to read these threads from start to end, make judgment calls on what's good or not, editing what's not without rendering the thread incomprehensible? Knowing it while it was happening instead of 8 months later would have made things easier and would have avoided the situation to move ahead.

 

[mixfight]

The name of the trade is kind of absurd itself.

 

[lgna69xxx]

Well said, and I for one do not know how you guys do it for free let alone want to do it for free but keep up the good work boyz! Seriously, you have a thankless "job" and many are grateful to you both.

Now, is it really not allowed to say a girl was intoxicated on the "date"? Think of it this way, say you see her at 1am and her shift started at 6. You offer her a drink and she has one or 2 glasses of wine or other alcoholic drinks, which alot of girls do with clients. I doubt the client at 1am is the only one she has been drinking with and likely she drank with all of them or in the car for the last 6 hours, so it is wrong to still say she was maybe intoxicated? I can see not saying she was on heroin or cocaine, but alcohol? At least it is legal so why is it not allowed to say if she seemed to have had a little too much if true? Just asking.

We don't read all threads. That would take way too much time for 2 persons to do. We do have a life outside MERB and Fred isn't paying our bills. When members see something out of line, we appreciate being warned about it. Holding back and dropping it all in one shot when it's convenient for attacking us is counter productive at best..

 

[lgna69xxx]

Reverdy,

I dont think the Mods have a problem with that type of post because it does not say things like "I think she might of been doing lines of coke or shooting heroin in the restroom"...... ya know tho, those types of serious allegations could hurt a sp's rep, but it could also save her life if there really is a problem... it is a fine line between right and wrong as far as allowing those types of comments in a girls thread without proof. Tough call for the mods, I mean who do you trust in that situation? The SP? The client? Afterall we are all mostly strangers to one another, fine line indeed.....

 

[Julius Ceasar]

Some dancers do not use drugs at all, and some dance to take drugs. Many drink excessively.

 

[Max69]

I think that more than 25% of girls are taking something to stay in the business, think about it for a minute:

The average GFE with an agency in Montreal works 4 to 6 nights a week, they start at 8:00 AM and finish as late as 4:00 AM, they meet about 6 to 8 guy's a night and have to be full of energy with each and every client.

I have met several GFE's with some of the most popular agencies in Montreal (who I will not name) anywhere between 10:00 PM and 3:00 AM and I can tell you that 50% were trashed (not drunk) on something, and then their were the ones that were the girl next door type that were on nothing and I have not seen ever again in the business because I guess they just couldn't take it anymore.

Cash is one thing, but keeping up with the whole thing for years is another!!!

 

[santa-fe]

You mess with the wrong crowd Maxi. I know many girls who work only 1-2 shifts per week have also day jobs and do not touch drugs. So, do not generalize... Those who do drugs always find an excuse...

 

[Mod 11]

There's a difference between facts, fabulation, suspicions and accusations.

Facts: "she was walking in zig-zag, had red eyes, dilated pupils, tiny red dots all over her arms" or "she was acting strange and was fidgeting non-stop" - That's what the guy saw, nothing more.
Fabulation: "25% of escorts are on drugs." - Where's that coming from? Thin air or guesstimates aren't accepted as facts. While it's not prohibited, it's a thin line. Let's call it the "Capitaine Bonhomme" clause... (for our English friends, google the name, it's worth it.)
Suspicion: "I think she was stoned" - You did blood tests? You can't prove that.
Accusation: "She was stone and I know she is a junky" - That's a direct accusation, with no way for the accuser to prove it.

It's not always a clear cut but, as a rule of thumb, if it stays with FACTS, it won't be a problem.

For example, if a member say he saw a provider snorting coke or shooting some IV, that's a fact that can lead to say the provider was on drug and then, it would be acceptable. If the customer only see the effects of a drug, he can't say 100% it was a drug issue so, it wouldn't be acceptable to say so.

 

[bumfie]

Why was this thread started at all? Can anyone work at a gas station a year without taking drugs? Can anyone be PM for a year without drugs? Who the heck knows?

 

[Net Profit Margin]

"She was acting strange"

... is a statement based on an opinion about what acting normal should be, no more no less factual than "I think she was stoned" but thank you nonetheless, Mod11, for your attempt at teaching logic. Seems like you have a very low opinion on the member's abilities to tell on their own the difference between facts, opinions, fabulation and accusations. You also appear not to have much faith in member's judgement and in their abilities, as a group, to correct information without the moderators intervening every second.

You moderate your board as you wish but what you do, nitpicking on every second post or quote and making ad hoc rules, alters the dynamics of the board and it's capacity as a whole to self-regulate and balance information. Thank you.

 

[Mod 8]

There can be many reasons for someone to give off the impression that they are under the influence of drugs. The person could be on simple cold medication, could be pumped from drinking too much Red Bull or other energy drink, they could be on prescription medication or they could simply be nervous. Just drinking a lot of coffee could be enough to give some people the shakes. There are a lot of possible explanations. It is not always the result of illegal drugs.

If a SP walks into your room and lights up a joint or lays out a line of coke on the table, then that is something you have witnessed and you are free to report it. But making any accusation without proof is irresponsible and can damage someone's reputation. We do not permit accusations, suspicion, rumor or hearsay to be posted here.

A little note to Net Profit Margin....posting on MERB through the use of a proxy server is against MERB rules. If you make one more post in this manner, your account will be permanently banned.

Mod 8

 

[Siocnarf]

In 21 months of escorting it only happened to me once to get an escort that was clearly on something. That was more then a year ago and I was not on merb at the time, but here's the facts in all their informativeness.

It was an incall and when I knocked at the door it took her forever to open, while I could hear her moving inside and opening cupboards. So I thought I'm a bit early and she's not ready. When I first saw her she seemed a bit weird, but I have no experience with drugs so I did not catch on right away. She just seemed frantic like someone who drank a gallon of expresso. I give her the money and took off my clothes. She starts kissing me wildly but stops to open and close the cupboards and the empty fridge like some obsessive-compulsive. Her state was getting worse and she was walking up and down the room saying how hot it was in here (it was actually cold). So what to do? This was in an appartment building, so I don't want there to be a fuss and put myself and the agency in trouble. Because she was not really paying any attention to me at that point I put back my clothes on quickly, walked out and called the agency from the stairwell to tell them to come and take care of her. That was in the morning and she was with just one client before me. The owner gave me back my money and told me she had just been with her boyfriend and don't know what they did.

It was the second time I was seeing that girl in less then a month and before she looked very healthy. So even after that I can't really say anything about her lifestyle. Since it happened only once, I consider it a fluke. If any client gets this 25% of the time then yes there is a problem with their providers.

 

[Marlow]

The question is more complicated than you think, there may be other reasons why a person turns to drugs.