Does Money equals Sex or Sex equals Money?

[Cliff Nobles]

What do you think?

Do you still get free sex in 09?

 

[Regular Guy]

Sure

What do you think?

Do you still get free sex in 09?

Sure! It's called the one night stand! This of course presupposes you didn't buy the drinks didn't give anything of yourself in conversation and were completely selfish during the act. Of course you did supply your body parts if you can put a value on that.

 

[oobe]

Do you still get free sex in 09?

Of course, getting as much free sex as I'm giving free attention, care and emotional presence. Oh, and I don't necessary get it on demand either... you see, that's the nature of free things, they have to be given freely too.

 

[Regular Guy]

The level playing field - equal for both

The "one-stand night" and the "fuckfriend think" are the really worst things happens with all the liberations we did live in the few last decades in the sexuality world.....

Perhaps this is because you feel that the guy is getting more out of it than the lady is? He is getting what he wants and the lady feels used? Or is it something else?

I really don't beleive that everything should be permitted and accepted...like normal...... Thinks have to be differents of between each others kind of relationship: amant, ami, amoureux, and aquaintances (I learn this word this week... ...)

So Maria, are you saying that there should be something more happening between two people than the physical during sex? Perhaps even if he admits to appreciating her as a person and shows it in some way, either with spending time or money or giving of himself?

In my "all-days live", sex is offered like to have fun, and to not have any comittements coming with... It is really not different of the "escort zone"... but I am feeling so much more appreciating in the "escort zone"...

So I do understand your idea of live life to the extreme and every day like it is your last – and no commitments. Could it be that the one night stand makes you feel that you are not “on a level playing field.” That you are at a disadvantage? But if the gentleman is giving to you a large sum of what he has (money) then it is a sign that he appreciates what you are worth. Otherwise he would not give up what could bring him other things in life. And just maybe he will make more effort to show how much he appreciates you so that the experience for him will be the best. And in this way the experience is better for you as well. Is that about right?

 

[hormone]

The "one-stand night" and the "fuckfriend think" are the really worst things happens with all the liberations we did live in the few last decades in the sexuality world.....

There is a big difference to me between a one night stand and a fuck friend! The fuck friend you will see again, so you are respectuous and more interested in mutual pleasing than the one night. A fuck friend is not a mistress, it is not someone you deceive, it is a friend--someone you care about-- with whom you agree to have sex, usually on a regular basis, but without the strings of a relationship. Usually, it results in great sex! Actually, a great fuck friend is rare and very precious! This is the peak of pleasure without any of the "have to's" of a relationship!

 

[Regular Guy]

Best of both worlds?

There is a big difference to me between a one night stand and a fuck friend! The fuck friend you will see again, so you are respectuous and more interested in mutual pleasing than the one night. A fuck friend is not a mistress, it is not someone you deceive, it is a friend--someone you care about-- with whom you agree to have sex, usually on a regular basis, but without the strings of a relationship. Usually, it results in great sex! Actually, a great fuck friend is rare and very precious! This is the peak of pleasure without any of the "have to's" of a relationship!

Do they still nag about leaving your socks on the floor and hand you the garbage to take out?

 

[Cliff Nobles]

There is a big difference to me between a one night stand and a fuck friend! The fuck friend you will see again, so you are respectuous and more interested in mutual pleasing than the one night. A fuck friend is not a mistress, it is not someone you deceive, it is a friend--someone you care about-- with whom you agree to have sex, usually on a regular basis, but without the strings of a relationship. Usually, it results in great sex! Actually, a great fuck friend is rare and very precious! This is the peak of pleasure without any of the "have to's" of a relationship!

I've heard once that it's almost impossible to keep a good fuck friend for a good period of time. In any case one or the other falls with emotions or for someone else......always

 

[naughtylady]

Do they still nag about leaving your socks on the floor and hand you the garbage to take out?

No nagging about the socks but they might ask you to take the garbage with you when you leave

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

P.S. I was discussing the concept of "you get what you pay for" with a friend earlier today (we were talking about automotive replacement parts: jobber vs manufacturer)... I wonder if the concept applies here? Is free sex some how less good than paid for sex?

 

[Regular Guy]

No nagging about the socks but they might ask you to take the garbage with you when you leave

Then I will have to be sure not to tell them I can cook, do renovations, plumbing and electrical, change diapers and tires.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

P.S. I was discussing the concept of "you get what you pay for" with a friend earlier today (we were talking about automotive replacement parts: jobber vs manufacturer)... I wonder if the concept applies here? Is free sex some how less good than paid for sex?

Well one big difference. Escorts are careful to avoid emotional involvement on both sides. With free sex both are into it, complete with affection and lovemaking. You can buy all the acronyms but in the end they all come down to sexual athletics. Would be great for some SP out there to make me a believer but I don't think that will happen anytime soon. Hell you didn't even flirt with me when we met socially

 

[naughtylady]

Well one big difference. Escorts are careful to avoid emotional involvement on both sides. With free sex both are into it, complete with affection and lovemaking. You can buy all the acronyms but in the end they all come down to sexual athletics. Would be great for some SP out there to make me a believer but I don't think that will happen anytime soon. Hell you didn't even flirt with me when we met socially

Then you do get what you pay for! LOL

Ummmm, refresh my memory: when did we meet socially? Sometimes I confuse people and handles.

Ronnie,
Naughtylady

 

[Dr Edgar Who]

I've heard once that it's almost impossible to keep a good fuck friend for a good period of time. In any case one or the other falls with emotions or for someone else......always

I think this is almost true by definition.

A fuck-friend relationship is a one where the two like each other as friends and enjoy having sex together. For it to last, both have to agree that it won't work as a long-term serious relationship and continue to agree on that and neither person can meet someone they do want to have a serious relationship with. A very rare set of circumstances I think.

 

[Dr Edgar Who]

You think too much and base your living on hearsay.... go out and live. Take a chance and try to fail.... you may succeed. It will do you good and help you to grow up.

This is not a rehearsal...

Good advice, just because that kind of relationship won't last forever doesn't mean it isn't worthwhile.

 

[Cliff Nobles]

You think too much and base your living on hearsay.... go out and live. Take a chance and try to fail.... you may succeed. It will do you good and help you to grow up.

This is not a rehearsal...

Been there done that!

Was cool while it lasted.