Repeat visits

[Great]

Question:

Do you feel sessions generally get better on repeat visits? Extra's that weren't available the first time; better attitude/connection; more enthusiastic sex/service...

Or you generally find SP's consistent across repeat visits?

SP's/MP's lurking, feel free to add your opinion.

 

[LeDodo]

Well extras I'm not sure and even if that was the case it's still limited vs the number of visits you can do unlimitedly. I guess with time you can have some specific requests (outfits, toys, etc.) that can occur

Best to say it's YMMV but in the good way.

Each visit is a bit different in term of intimacy. Sometimes it can be a longer blowjob, more pleasure to her, steamy session, etc.

We are all humans so it depends of the mood for both of us of the moment and what is happening in our respective life. The frequency you see her also comes into play.

What is sure is the connection grows deeper as we get to know each other more and better. And that chemistry is invaluable.

 

[minutemenX]

Question:

Do you feel sessions generally get better on repeat visits? Extra's that weren't available the first time; better attitude/connection; more enthusiastic sex/service...

Or you generally find SP's consistent across repeat visits?

SP's/MP's lurking, feel free to add your opinion.

Well, improvement with repeated visits is not a given. Sometimes the service degrades when your attachment is taken for granted.

 

[LeDodo]

But,...., There are also cases that service decreases with time which is sad. Sometimes, it feels like the SP take you for granted with repeat visits, then it leaves you with your head scratching, should i invest more in repeat visits?

There is also the first time factor. The SP puts lots of effort the 1st time and the subsequent visits the sparkles just might just fade away

 

[CokeMentos]

i only repeat whit SP who tik all my boxes, sexually and the personality.....

 

[Hmmm…]

It really depends if 1. you both click 2. she can upsell you.

1. I don't think there are services that they will give to repeats that they won't give to new clients especially if its advertised, but if you both click you can learn more about the girl's life but also the industry and thus form both a more intimate connection. But also you get more insight on other "opportunities." For example, one girl told me how she stripper first and that in Montreal touching is allowed. There are many clubs that have girls go FS and even in the club and clubs don't regulate what girls do out of the club. To me strip clubs always seemed to me just tease factories. She's like you should go and try it. lol

2. They become more open and assuming they like you as a client willing to do incall/outcalls outside the agency which could be great if they booked fast at the agency. One hinted upselling duos esp with her friends she trusts (vs rando SPs at the agency) with the benefit that she would know their health history and switching protection between girls would not be needed.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Is it the SP who takes you for granted or is it the other way around?

Personally I find that with some repeat clients and regulars things improve with time and we always like finding each other again, but with others I start feeling a certain pressure to give more and reveal more about myself in a way that can be compromising.

I have clients I've seen occasionally for the past 3-4 years, they wouldn't come back if I didn't put an effort into seeing them.

But sometimes I feel like the person is trying to get me to expose vulnerabilities to him & trying to get more from me than I can offer, and that can make intimacy very hard.

Some things are a turn off, like if the person is always talking about the industry during bookings and very active online in SW related spaces.. it feels like I have no real intimacy with the person if that makes any sense. I still make an effort in those cases but I feel uncomfortable if I sense that the person is seeking something from me that I can't give, is obsessed with me or obsessed with the industry. It's also hard if the person keeps asking for things I already said no to and uses the fact that he's a regular or repeat client as leverage..