Does the Booker change the game ?

[Lionelmessi]

Something I’ve been noticing more and more lately…

When I first started in this hobby, almost all the bookers were men. But over time, I’ve seen a steady rise in women handling bookings.

Sometimes I can already tell if it’s a man or a woman just by the way they use emojis.

It’s subtle, but the tone, punctuation, and little things like that can totally shift the vibe of the convo.

Do you feel a difference when a man books versus when a woman does? Not just in energy, but in the way you/they respond or the questions you/they ask. And does the identity of the booker make a difference as to when you prefer to call for an SP.

And for those who’ve worked/work in agencies does the energy, tone, or management style of the booker actually affect who decides to come in and show up for work that day?

 

[Fradi]

Personally I wouldn’t care one way or another, I don’t like middle men or women and this is one of the reasons I only see Indy’s and only ones that do everything on their own, if they have a booker/assistant what ever you want to call them, they are not for me.
I don’t need or want to go through another layer.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Its a case by case in general nowadays. But as i said before, when i was younger (new in this hobby) with no cell phone, i had to call to book and for some reason it was so uncomfortable for me to talk to a lady booker. I just felt it was "weirder" to talk about specific services or such. I know its irrational as when i am with the escort herself i will have to confirm with her but at least its her directly... im gonna do those things with her specifically. Talking about it to someone else was the issue. With a guy it was less the case (kinda like boys talk). No joke i remember walking in circles for 30 minutes before having the courage to book ... Then i got a cellphone and things got easier gadually.

I think what totally "broke my shell" was when i became myself a booker briefly. Not gonna say i had no shyness to talk to clients but since i was the one "in charge" it was less of an issue. Then i realize how some clients had absolutely no hold back on anything. Some having crazy sexual demands, others wanting me to adapt my bookings/the escorts schedule with an hockey game ending (not even a joke...). I only did this for a little under a month but heard so much stuff i kinda took a more "whatever" aproach after.

Nowadays obviously all my bookings are done by text and i only talk on phone to the bookers if there is an issue or something, but i wouldn't care if its a man or a woman per say.

But like OP i noticed when i text with a female booker or the Indy herself, the tone seem to be more "lighthearted", like more emojies and XXs (to similate kisses) and such. While guys seem to either be straight to the point (as in they talk to you like you're a client at mcdo) or they are the more "polite" style using "sir" and such.

Either way all i ask from the bookers is to be efficient. As in note my booking well, make sure the provider i see is roughly on time with the scheduled time (im always ok with 5 to 10m of disparity incall and up to 20 outcall, even 30 if im being updated nicely). Otherwise just be "nice" and its fine. Can be friendly, professional, flirty... does not matter that much for me.

 

[MCTJ]

for some reason it was so uncomfortable for me to talk to a lady booker. I just felt it was "weirder" to talk about specific services or such. [...] With a guy it was less the case (kinda like boys talk).

It's the opposite for me.

 

[Lionelmessi]

I had to call to book and for some reason it was so uncomfortable for me to talk to a lady booker. I just felt it was "weirder" to talk about specific services or such. I know its irrational…

Not irrational at all I felt exactly the same way.

There were times I even felt ashamed to book with a woman, thinking she might judge me or see me differently. It brought up a lot of inner hesitation.

But things started to shift for me when some SP themselves became bookers. Knowing them intimately made the whole interaction simpler. It wasn’t just about logistics anymore, they already had a sense of what I wanted and real or imagined I felt less judged.

I also feel more and more bookers are interacting on this forum lately, and you start to get a very different sense of who they are beyond just the polite booking texts. The tone they use, how they handle conflict or questions, whether they stay respectful under pressure… it all reveals a lot.
And that goes for indies as well, the way they interact here on the forum can totally change the game.

I actually prefer calling to texting because by the time I finish writing the text, I’m afraid the SP will already be booked but mostly only agencies will still accept phone calls.