Entry level hobbyist seeking advice from veterans

[st-cum]

Hey fellas,

I hope that some of you can help me choose which direction to focus in my hobbying.

Without going into too much detail (I have covered the essentials of my personal history and backround in previous posts) I am a new hobbyist to the scene in his late twenties. I am trying to make a short list of SPs to see based on ads and reviews on MERB. Reviews, looks, and cost are all factors but now I`m putting in a new variable: age.

Because of my younger age compared to the MERB average, should I capitalize and go for ``older`` SPs first, seeing as how there will always be SPs younger than us, and because of the high quality of SPs in their 30s as of late? I don`t need to drop names but I am sure you know which of the top Montreal companions over 30 that I am refering to.

In short, if you were in my shoes, what would you do?

Any opinions are welcome.

st-cum

 

[Ricky bonds]

Hello.
Im ricky bonds, a newer member here on the board.
You can find some rather interesting posts.. And reviews started by me by going on my page.. And clicking on threads by this member..
Isnt there a place in quebec called 'st-cum-sur-le-cap-de-bit' ??
Being in the sAme age bracket as you, i think i might be able to help?
I used to just randomly shoot off names according to my tastes and mood?.. But starting here i will do things differently, starting with you.
I'd like to ask you a few questions to get in your skin.. And then maybe i can point you in the right direction...

1) what type of client are you?

-Diamond cutter ( get along great with all ladies, even ones others dont get along with.. Having a gravitational pull.. You connect easily, and end up becoming friends with sp's.. And find youself occasionaly on crescent street with sp's on their off time.. You have yet to meet a heart you couldn't conquer..)

-stone faced killer ( you dont care much for human interaction.. And just want to pay for fun.. No smalltalk.. Just stop-shop-pack-and-go....?*

-sensitive guy ( nice all around guy.. That needs a certain level of chemistry before the passion, or needs passion before getting physical...you wont just show up expecting to be out the door in 20, if youve payed for an hour?.. And instead of having 30 minutes, you'll pay the hour so you can take your time and have some smalltalk before getting down to business.)

-sponge cake ( you fall in love when its too good to be true, and buy gifts that are un-necessary...
If an sp says casually that she likes how she looks in a louis vuitton bag? You go to ogilvys on your sick day and spend more that 5 sessions on a bag?)

2) what physical charecteristics appeal to you?

3) what do you expect to be paying? Does the cost relate more to beauty, and her physical?
Or does the cost relate more to services offered, and level of passion they are executed with?

4) do you do outcalls at home? Motel? Or do you rent a suite?... Or is it incalls you prefer..?

5) in your previous encounters.. What was your level of satisfaction if you could sum them up to an average..

 

[Turbodick]

Hey fellas,

I hope that some of you can help me choose which direction to focus in my hobbying.

Without going into too much detail (I have covered the essentials of my personal history and backround in previous posts) I am a new hobbyist to the scene in his late twenties. I am trying to make a short list of SPs to see based on ads and reviews on MERB. Reviews, looks, and cost are all factors but now I`m putting in a new variable: age.

Because of my younger age compared to the MERB average, should I capitalize and go for ``older`` SPs first, seeing as how there will always be SPs younger than us, and because of the high quality of SPs in their 30s as of late? I don`t need to drop names but I am sure you know which of the top Montreal companions over 30 that I am refering to.

In short, if you were in my shoes, what would you do?

Any opinions are welcome.

st-cum

So, unless I`m misunderstanding, you want to know if you should enjoy the older ladies now before they get ``too`` old and then bang all the younger ones a little later? Poor guy, what a problem you have.
I`d say that there will always be talent coming and going and you should not count on anyone to be here tomorrow or next week. So, mix it up a bit but don`t try to be too calculating...just enjoy and pick what appeals to you tonight and take it as providence allows.

 

[RobinX]

Newbie section?

...I used to just randomly shoot off names according to my tastes and mood?.. But starting here i will do things differently, starting with you.
I'd like to ask you a few questions to get in your skin.. And then maybe i can point you in the right direction...

You ask some good questions in your post, even though some of the descriptions may be a bit exaggerated. However, exaggeration is one way to get one's point across. I would even suggest that your post would make a good starting post as a sticky in a separate Newbie section or a Newbie guide, similar to what finds on some other boards.

Suggestion for the Mods:
A search for threads with the word "newbie" in the title returns 3 pages of results. A lot of them probably ask the same or similar questions, and there are probably a lot other similar threads which do not contain the word "newbie" in the title, such as this thread. If all of these were in a separate Newbie section, with posts such as that by Ricky Bonds as stickys, those asking these questions might have all of their questions answered by simply reading the threads in this section. We could also put together a Newbie Guide with the answers to the questions asked most frequently.

 

[joelcairo]

Very good suggestion RobinX.

 

[lgna69xxx]

Check your pm`s

Hey fellas,

I hope that some of you can help me choose which direction to focus in my hobbying.

Without going into too much detail (I have covered the essentials of my personal history and backround in previous posts) I am a new hobbyist to the scene in his late twenties. I am trying to make a short list of SPs to see based on ads and reviews on MERB. Reviews, looks, and cost are all factors but now I`m putting in a new variable: age.

Because of my younger age compared to the MERB average, should I capitalize and go for ``older`` SPs first, seeing as how there will always be SPs younger than us, and because of the high quality of SPs in their 30s as of late? I don`t need to drop names but I am sure you know which of the top Montreal companions over 30 that I am refering to.

In short, if you were in my shoes, what would you do?

Any opinions are welcome.

st-cum

 

[Merlot]

Hey fellas,

I hope that some of you can help me choose which direction to focus in my hobbying.

Without going into too much detail (I have covered the essentials of my personal history and backround in previous posts) I am a new hobbyist to the scene in his late twenties. I am trying to make a short list of SPs to see based on ads and reviews on MERB. Reviews, looks, and cost are all factors but now I`m putting in a new variable: age.

Because of my younger age compared to the MERB average, should I capitalize and go for ``older`` SPs first, seeing as how there will always be SPs younger than us, and because of the high quality of SPs in their 30s as of late? I don`t need to drop names but I am sure you know which of the top Montreal companions over 30 that I am refering to.

In short, if you were in my shoes, what would you do?

Any opinions are welcome.

st-cum

Hello St-cum,

When I used to do a lot of research I found it, and still find it fairly uncommon to find the very good milf/cougar types that are truly GFE. But when I did discover such ladies they turned out to be remarkable lovers, uninhibited and extremely sensual. So if you have a real chance to be with such a lady I would say grab the opportunity. There are always plenty of younger hotties around by the dozen, but not always the truly great older woman.

Happy endings,

Merlot

 

[st-cum]

Everyone's comments so far are deeply appreciated! BTW when I wrote that I am merely seeking advice from veterans, well that's not really fair as I only have two such experiences and therefore for me anyone that has wisdom to share is welcome to post his or her opinion.

st-cum

 

[czar]

I don't know. Is it just me or is there a generational thing that these younger newbies seem to over-analyze, and expect everything spoon-fed....

Twenty years ago without the Internet and MERB, I and many others, managed to have a lot of fun with a lot of different ladies. For me, half the fun was the adventure, the unknown, the hint of danger in discovering new ladies. And not only discovering new ladies, but discovering things about myself that I didn't know. These discoveries never would have happened if I stuck to researching specific preconceived ideas of what I wanted. They often resulted from unplanned encounters. There was no one to guide me...it was fun exploring on my own.*

Now with the Internet it is almost possible to dial up the girl you want by entering the right search criteria and poof...she appears.*

Don't get me wrong...having more info is sometimes good and limits unpleasant surprises, but it also limits new experiences. *Even now I enjoy popping into an MP or incall and take what ever comes up. other times I have a craving for a Milf, young spinner, bbw or a taste of Asia. The Internet is helpful then.*

My advice to newbies....stop over-analyzing your desires/requirements. Just go for it. *Go with the flow a little more. Take a chance on something new. *You might be surprised and learn something about yourself.*

Czar

 

[st-cum]

That's also very welcome advice so thanks for the contribution; thanks as well as the PM I got from lgna69xxx

Hopefully others will benefit from this discussion, definitely for me

 

[lgna69xxx]

Excellent advice!

My advice to newbies....stop over-analyzing your desires/requirements. Just go for it. *Go with the flow a little more. Take a chance on something new. *You might be surprised and learn something about yourself.*

Czar

 

[evillethings]

Because of my younger age compared to the MERB average...

WTF, u ask for advice + backhand us across the head with ur ageism ... listen punk!...

I think czar put it nicely... in the end, does it really matter which end of the hot dog you start eating... as long as you enjoy the wiener or sausage, scarf it all down.

If you've got ur TDL all polished up and properly researched... go for it.

But if you're not so pumped about your performance, the 30something mlifs are pretty good at teaching so take that into consideration.

 

[st-cum]

I'm inspired to go for broke and go for older. I've even thought up a great (and totally unoriginal) roleplay which will be shared upon completion of that romp.

I know this thread isn't improving my popularity. I swear that I'm not that douchy!

 

[lgna69xxx]

LOL, listen, just do what YOU feel is right and what YOU want to experience.... every thing else is irrelevant to YOU!

I'm inspired to go for broke and go for older. I've even thought up a great (and totally unoriginal) roleplay which will be shared upon completion of that romp.

I know this thread isn't improving my popularity. I swear that I'm not that douchy!

 

[evillethings]

Right then... here's a couple of tunes to inspire...

Lemonheads Mrs Robinson and...

Blur's cover of Maggie May

 

[lgna69xxx]

Excellent! totally agree OA!

I think that a segment of skill that goes totally to waste in the 30something population, but most guys are not so interested.
If you meet a girl who's willing to show you things, go for it!

 

[Fr. McKenzie]

Every place is a little different, so just take a chance and enjoy. You may have a bad experience as many do once in awhile, but thats part of the game.