First timer, newbie question

[ganja974]

Hi all,
First, thank you for the nice community on merb, happy to have found this website.

I really want to have my first experience with a girl from an agency. But I have some question about the process and what to do what not to do.
I read many nice review and made a small selection of escort/website that seems serious, real deal, real photos etc.

Actually I'm really interested by some girls at euphoria or indy companion.
I never did that so I'm wondering if I should go for incall or outcall, I'd rather try an outcall but is it ok to bring a girl at my place ?

If you have any tips for a newbie who would like to have the best first experience, please feel free to share.

Thanks a lot .

 

[jalimon]

My adivce? Go with any girl of euphoria incall. Why doing it differently, this is the best montreal as to offer right now. If you do not like it, you are not made for this hobby

Cheers,

 

[Doc Holliday]

XXXtase and XO have quite a roster also. I also wouldn't be shy to recommend anyone from Asservissante. Syrah is pretty hot & pretty good in the sack!

 

[ganja974]

Thanks a lot,
Incall mean I'm going to their place ? is that at the agency or the girl's place ? Is it nice .
They indeed look awesome !!!

 

[jalimon]

XXXtase and XO have quite a roster also. I also wouldn't be shy to recommend anyone from Asservissante. Syrah is pretty hot & pretty good in the sack!

Absolutely agree with you. I just tried to put myself in the shoe of a total newbie here. I just think the first encounter of a newbie is easer done incall. But it could have been with XO, Sexynadya, montrealevy, mtlgfe, plaisirebel (one of my favorite because of their laval location), montrealenvy, montrealelite... and the list can go on because I have yet to mention the best of the best, the girl of Indy Companion

Cheers,

 

[Passionné]

Outcall at your hotel is better. When I did incall I had to be in and out in a more strict time frame. And if there was any time lost getting there it cut into my time with the lady. With outcall you make the setting, you control the situation, and you don't have to fit into their structured time slots. With outcall the time frame starts when she arrives and you don't lose your time.

 

[hungry101]

Outcall at your hotel is better. When I did incall I had to be in and out in a more strict time frame. And if there was any time lost getting there it cut into my time with the lady. With outcall you make the setting, you control the situation, and you don't have to fit into their structured time slots. With outcall the time frame starts when she arrives and you don't lose your time.

Agreed. You can pick a place of your liking and order or bring wine and have the music you want and the mood you want etc. etc. The problem can be lack of funding. Every in-call I go to is pretty darn spartan but I try to bring the fun with me. Sometimes I have to do in-call to accommodate the booker who is trying to accommodate my requests. If I have a choice I nearly always prefer outcall.

One thing about incall: If you open the door and there is some scary SP who in no way resembles the photos and is trying to bait and switch you...you can run. And run like hell you should do. Throw down a 20$-40$ to distract them and move.

 

[lgna69xxx]

I agree with you Hungry, Outcall will always be my choice as well. As far as incalls go, the spartan reference says it best but i hear Escorts XO Incalls are the best in the business right now so maybe you should give them a try if you have to "accommodate the booker"

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

My adivce? Go with any girl of euphoria incall. Why doing it differently, this is the best montreal as to offer right now. If you do not like it, you are not made for this hobby

Cheers,

And the best answer goes to.....

 

[jalimon]

And the best answer goes to.....

Beside barcelona, vienna and Toronto, never did an outcall here at home. I live to far from montreal downtown. Putting myself in the shoe of a first timer who already decided to go with a agency or indy companion (which proves us that this newbie is wise) I would still say an incall with euphoria or indy companion is best. So I would say the best answer is mine. No need to congratulate me, ok just a little...

That said, our newbie here is wise, he will see that he got 2 answer from 2 of the most respected senior who total more than 15k post on this board with over about 17 years combined... Maybe he will say screw you jalimon I am taking their advice

Cheers,

 

[talkinghead]

Obviously some veteran advice out here. If by "my place" you mean your home, don't do that. I prefer my hotel room to an incall, but an incall does make things pretty easy for a first-time experience. I was very nervous my first time (and the second, and third...) so I would do what you can to reassure yourself. Use a reliable agency (as you are) and see a girl who has been positively reviewed. Be honest with her that it's your first time; she'll pick up on your nerves anyway--and your nerves may make her nervous until she understands the situation. I would consider a well-reviewed indy; they can be especially good with first-timers, making you comfortable. Finally, a first experience can be a blast! But for me it got much better as I learned the ropes, the etiquette, the boundaries, etc. When I think back to my first time (which was before the internet), I marvel at my naiveté. It's easier now since you can research--as you are.

Have fun!

 

[Doc Holliday]

I also would recommend outcall at a hotel. Many years ago when i first dipped my feet into the 'hobby', hobbying would make me anxious and kind of stress me out days or weeks before the pre-scheduled encounter. But over time in order to ease the tension, i learned a few tricks and among them was pretending the 'date' was actually a real date where i'd book the lady for at least a couple of hours and take my time to get to know her and let her know me. No rushing. I'd always have a bottle of wine (or two) and other drinks available in order to help us (mostly me!) relax and ease the tension. Many times we would up extending the encounter, which wouldn't really be possible in an incall scenario.

I miss those days of hobbying. Years and hundreds of appointments later, it's become all too routine (and often boring) for me. Which is why i've been looking at broadening my sexual horizons and looking for new sexual adventures over the past few years. Life is too short and although we've all said this over the years, you truly realize how true it is when you hit and passed the halfway point in your life expectancy.

 

[jalimon]

Nice answer talkding head and Doc. Talking head, you really saw your first sp before the internet? Few... Maybe newbie here was not born! hehe

My first one was on a business trip out west. An incall to a nice condo. I was so damn nervous... but it went perfectly fine. Funny thing is that I saw the girl the next day, she was working at the convention I was at. I waited for the end of her shift and we had a drink, she then invited me back to her condo. I spent the night there. She did not ask for nothing but I left her about 200... Out of about 100 encounters, this was the first time such thing happened to me, on the very first one I saw! Does not get any better than this

 

[FunSexyMan]

As for myself, I found using the incall locations for Indy Companions works extremely well for me. They have multiply incall locations around the downtown area, which makes it easier to book your appointment.

The few locations that I've seen personally are all spacious. They all have a very comfortable ambiance setup in these locations that makes it very welcoming.

Overall, I would highly recommend setting up an appointment, with one of the many wonderful ladies from the Collective, at one of these incall locations.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Overall, I would highly recommend setting up an appointment, with one of the many wonderful ladies from the Collective, at one of these incall locations.

If he doesn't mind doing incall (but i don't recommend it for him), IC is definitely a good site to check out if you're looking for an indy, although many other beautiful indys do advertise here on merb and on other sites. But it all depends on how much he wants to spend. I recommended booking at least for 2 hours for his first bookings, so going the agency route might be more appropriate if he's on a tight budget since many indys charge more per hour. Not that there's anything wrong with that, by the way.

 

[talkinghead]

Good advice. I remember the first time I booked two hours; it was a revelation.

 

[denick2nd]

A newbie to MTL here. Does client always meet the girl in hotel lobby in MTL? Many thanks.

 

[jalimon]

Only if hotel needs room key to get to the floor. If not wait for the girl in your room. But be dressed. If you open the door and you are naked she will think you are weird and will leave