Your experience with BBJ (client and SW)

[Fradi]

The risk is always there from a BBBJ, however the risk is not great and in most cases easily curable with antibiotics.
Never heard of anyone getting HIV from BBBJ. No recorded history of it.
I have never caught anything but the 2 ladies I see most often I know get tested frequently and so do I.

It is always up to you if you are willing to take the risk, if I was married or in a relationship ( actually I wouldn’t be seeing escorts) it is probably better to play it safe and ask for a CBJ. A BBBJ does feel so much better though.

 

[DualDionysos]

For me genitalia to genitalia/anal is a no no, even a pussy slide.
For oral, the key if i understand correctly is to make sure there is no "breach" like ulcers, bleedy gums or blister given the potential blood/blood contact.
Im not aware for the throat specificaly but like @AirBo mentionned, it's sure that an escort is more serious/carefull with their health.

 

[Fradi]

Being tested regularly is great but it is not a 100% guarantee either.
Each STI has different incubation periods so you could have had a negative test 3-4 weeks ago and now have an STI which would only show up on your next test.
We are all grown ups and when we engage in sex with people that are not in exclusive relationships with you and have sex with other people you are always at a certain amount of risk.
You can take steps to lower the risk level like CBJ or dental dams, condoms, no oral sex etc…. but the only sure method is not having sex.
Only you know your own comfort level of risk.
It is not difficult to read up on this, there is ample information available, google is your friend and it has been covered several times in the health section of Merb also.

 

[Rebaynia]

You gave a reply about cunnilingus to a question about rubbing their bare dick against our bare vulva. Lol the response is interesting but irrelevant to the question!

The risks are much higher with a pussy slide because sexual fluids are being exchanged so it's not something clients should ask for IMO

Oh . No that is definitely not allowed. I blockade that any time someone tries. Its a, not a chance. I missunderstood the question for sure. Not something i ever really gave a name to when doing. But i won't let anyone near there uncovered. Wow did I ever space out on understanding what was being asked.

 

[Nachoy]

You gave a reply about cunnilingus to a question about rubbing their bare dick against our bare vulva. Lol the response is interesting but irrelevant to the question!

The risks are much higher with a pussy slide because sexual fluids are being exchanged so it's not something clients should ask for IMO

Very unsafe.

I don’t even offer it to people in my personal life.

No the risks aren’t the same, they’re bigger.

Say you are doing cowgirl and control the dick and only shaft rubbing against you, there no fluid exchange unless he cums. Even if he cums then fluids can be pointed away from you
How is that more risking then cunnilingus or BBBJ when oral secretion are mixed with genitalia secretions?

 

[LC18]

there no fluid exchange unless he cums.

What about precum? What about the woman getting wet? What about possible blisters or micro tears?

 

[Rebaynia]

Say you are doing cowgirl and control the dick and only shaft rubbing against you, there no fluid exchange unless he cums. Even if he cums then fluids can be pointed away from you
How is that more risking then cunnilingus or BBBJ when oral secretion are mixed with genitalia secretions?

Oh no... only way that is happening is if there is still cloths on, dry humping. There is always a barrier of some sort.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Say you are doing cowgirl and control the dick and only shaft rubbing against you, there no fluid exchange unless he cums. Even if he cums then fluids can be pointed away from you
How is that more risking then cunnilingus or BBBJ when oral secretion are mixed with genitalia secretions?

There is no fluid exchange? She has vaginal fluids and she exchanges a lot of fluids with you.

« Si le HPV est l'IST la plus courante dans le monde, le trichomonas est, quant à lui, l'IST la plus fréquente. Elle touche le plus souvent les femmes mais elle ne se transmet pas lors d'une relation exclusivement génito-orale. Une prise d'antibiotiques permet de traiter cette maladie. » Mais les hommes n'ont souvent pas de symptômes, et donc le transmettent facilement lors d'un contact génital/génital.

« Gonocoque et chlamydia - Ces deux infections se transmettent trois fois plus souvent au cours d'un rapport génital que durant la pratique du sexe oral. »

Il y a aussi le fait que les contraceptif hormonaux peuvent changer le revêtement des paroies génitales à n'importe quel moment dans un cycle menstruel, de même qu'avec une infection telle une vaginose par exemple. La femme peut ne pas être consciente de ces infections, irritations ou lésions présentes, soit au niveau du vagin ou de la vulve, ou encore n'est pas consciente de l'amincissement à la paroie protectrice, tout de même ils accentuent le risque de contracter le VIH et d'autres ITS. L'appareil génital féminin a aussi une plus grande surface de contact que celle de l'homme, et peut donc contracter le VIH (ou autres ITS) aisément, elle peut tout aussi bien le transmettre (facilement par ses fluides vaginaux). Et avant qu'elle sache qu'elle a contracté une infection, il peut s'écouler plusieurs mois... et plusieurs partenaires.