"Freestyling" AKA meeting a SP organically

[Fradi]

I had this happen many times in Russia, Poland, China and Check République while on business.
At the time my wife was still alive so no I declined, I don’t believe in cheating.
These ladies were quite agressive especially the ones in China at the Hard Rock Cafe in Beijing, there were at least 50 of them in the bar all amazingly gorgeous, and strangely there were almost as many Russian ones as Chinese, ( the Chinese men were all hitting on the Russian women) had to remove one of the empty chairs from my table as every 2 minutes one of them would sit down next to me and try their luck. My hotel was across the street from this bar. The walk to the bar was through a small park and on your way there you were also hit on by a number of street walkers, these ladies didn’t even come close to the ones inside the bar but neither did the price.

 

[Jordd]

I can’t speak for others but I personally never approach men, I am too scared they’ll be turned off by the aggressiveness. I just flirt from a distance and then if they do approach me, I’ll keep the conversation going until I feel like it’s an appropriate time to tell them what I do for a living.

At the end of the day, they’re the one choosing me not the other way around so it’s better if I let them come to me. If I feel like the attraction is mutual, I’ll reciprocate the attention.

Agree with that.

As in real life, the men should pursue the women. I guess I’m old-fashioned that way.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

It's not really popular or well known because it comes with a lot of risks but have you ever found a SP organically? Let me give you some exemples, maybe you were going for a walk with your dog and happened to see an attractive younger woman with her own dog. How would you go about 1. figuring out if she's an SP and 2. booking her without coming across creepy

If you are on twitter, you've probably seen some tweets of women mentioning that they've found clients while "freestyling" in a bar. I think it's probably one of the best ways to start a SP-client relationship because you both know how the other person looks, you'll both know if there's chemistry and in most cases it avoids wasting your time.

So how do I approach a woman without offending her? I would say let her do the work. You don't know if she's a SP and the last thing you would want to do is insulting her if she's not. A question that might help breaking the ice is "what do you do for a living?" Some providers carry business cards, others have their website ready on hand, some just don't.

How do I know if I can afford her services? If she gave you her name, a business card, her website, I would recommend that you excuse yourself to the bathroom and go take a look at her rates. Yeah, you could probably just look at her website while she's sitting next to you but that would be awkward no? If you decide to pass, you can come back at the table/bar and tell her you'll call her (to be polite).



What are some good places to find a SP? I'm not sure I can name places so please let me know if it's not allowed and I'll edit my post.

Upscale bars and lounges such as:
Marcus
George
Yama
Cathcart
Yoko Luna
Nacarat
StillLife

For my experience I never went freestyling. I will love to try it but I’m so stressed to not attract nobody. My few times that I freestyle without even wanting to freestyle was at really random places and I was dressed like a regular nobody girl lol.
I was once in a Tim hortons and a man couldn’t stop looking at me. I ordered and left the store but he keeps looking at so I smile at him. He then come and say hi and that same evening he book a 30min appointment with me !
Once at the shopping mall ( I rarely go ) a guy came to me and ask for my number. He ended up meeting me twice as a client.
And recently (last Sunday ) I was going to enter my car when the guy in the car next to me said hi so I said hi and smile at him. He then proceed to complement me and ask to see me again. I told him if you got money we will sure meet so he is now planning a date soon.
So I think when they really wants you (whatever place he met you) and that the conversation brings you to the « transactional part » they will not think twice before wanting you right now!

 

[Fradi]

For my experience I never went freestyling. I will love to try it but I’m so stressed to not attract nobody. My few times that I freestyle without even wanting to freestyle was at really random places and I was dressed like a regular nobody girl lol.
I was once in a Tim hortons and a man couldn’t stop looking at me. I ordered and left the store but he keeps looking at so I smile at him. He then come and say hi and that same evening he book a 30min appointment with me !
Once at the shopping mall ( I rarely go ) a guy came to me and ask for my number. He ended up meeting me twice as a client.
And recently (last Sunday ) I was going to enter my car when the guy in the car next to me said hi so I said hi and smile at him. He then proceed to complement me and ask to see me again. I told him if you got money we will sure meet so he is now planning a date soon.
So I think when they really wants you (whatever place he met you) and that the conversation brings you to the « transactional part » they will not think twice before wanting you right now!

I think it is kind of hot to be hit upon by an attractive woman even if she turns out to be a working girl.
Does wonders for the male ego lol.
Yes I would book her why not but I would do my research first and I don’t think I would do it outside of Montreal in a foreign Country, I have seen too much of that and it is not always safe.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

The more likely scenario is a streetwalker approaching you Most of them are scary looking but hey you may find a gem in a rare encounter.

If it’s a scary looking guy withfor sure

I think it is kind of hot to be hit upon by an attractive woman even if she turns out to be a working girl.
Does wonders for the male ego lol.
Yes I would book her why not but I would do my research first and I don’t think I would do it outside of Montreal in a foreign Country, I have seen too much of that and it is not always safe.

Yes I will definitely take more time to get to know the girl or guy for safety reasons. Usually they take my number and chat a little before booking or they simply don’t contact me. But my only time I got like « at the moment appointment » he shows me his ID (he was okay for me to write his name down and even take a picture of it) and paid me in cash and I show him my website; social media and Onlyfan. He asked me how he can trust i won’t run with his money and I ensure him that I have a reputation. As soon as I do something wrong he can literally go on the internet and report me. I think we both looks trustworthy and he was really interested to have a good time before going back home. The funny part was that I was in jogging and a big hoodie so non of my assets were visible; and I didn’t needed to get in a sexy lingerie set for him to be ready. I guess he fall for my grumpy face in the Tim hortons lineup lol!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

As for the dog walking scénario, my last dog has been 8 years in the grave now, so even if I dig him out for a walk I doubt anyone would approach me!

Jokes aside, it never happened to me here. But very often in Spain, Peru, Ecuador, Colombia, Belgium and France. I did went for it twice, both in San Sebastian on the same topless beach. I couldnt resist, they we're both absolute babes and I was in my prime at 34. I didnt regret it a second, it was 2 very beautiful and memorable nights.

Now @LC18 , la question qui tue:

How do you screen them when freelancing?

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

As for the dog walking scénario, my last dog has been 8 years in the grave now, so even if I dig him out for a walk I doubt anyone would approach me!

Jokes aside, it never happened to me here. But very often in Spain, Peru, Ecuador, Colombia, Belgium and France. I did went for it twice, both in San Sebastian on the same topless beach. I couldnt resist, they we're both absolute babes and I was in my prime at 34. I didnt regret it a second, it was 2 very beautiful and memorable nights.

Now @LC18 , la question qui tue:

How do you screen them when freelancing?

Personal opinion :
I think if it’s a « right now session » you just go with the flow and how you feel. Ask for his ID or anything personal that you can write down or do a picture (with his permission). Invite him to your hotel room instead of his or when at his place make sure that you look around to see if anyone else is there. Taking your own car or making sure his car is empty and danger free ( I had a first time client picking me up with his huge pickup at the airport of a city I have never been to before and I politely ask him if I can look around. I checked the rear truck and put my stuff in the back sits instead and I kept an eye on the road plus having my own gps on). Make it clear to him that you are contacting and giving your location to someone (and ACTUALLY do it ). Literally call someone right in front of him and even put it on speaker. Always keep an eye on your drink like in a club and make sure that if you are at his place to have all your stuff placed at one place and easy access ( it avoids you going around looking for your stuff ). You do anything that will make you feel safe and if he is a good guy he should be okay with all this. Its never enough precaution; always keep an eye on him and the surroundings like objects that may be harmful !
If it’s maybe a « later appointment » you got more time to properly screen him or at least enough time to think twice about it.
I write longggggg comments sorry

 

[LC18]

Now @LC18 , la question qui tue:

How do you screen them when freelancing?

Like streetwalkers, you have to trust your gut and quickly judge their character. This is why many people don’t freestyle, it’s more dangerous. Unless of course you just exchange information and you have time to go back home and screen or check blacklists before meeting.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

Like streetwalkers, you have to trust your gut and quickly judge their character. This is why many people don’t freestyle, it’s more dangerous. Unless of course you just exchange information and you have time to go back home and screen or check blacklists before meeting.

I said the same thing but in a long ass text haha.

 

[hob12]

Female police officers do fake being SPs sometimes.

Too much risks involved.

 

[Like_It_Hot]

A lot of my peers have been banned from entering the country. I don't know if it's the same client wise.

You were considered as illegal workers...

 

[LC18]

You were considered as illegal workers...

I can travel to the states

 

[Anong]

Had a crackhead with no teeth offer to blow me for $10 outside of couche tard at 3am

No chance of getting hurt.

 

[UncleBuck]

Interested in the other side of the coin

What are the benchmarks that decide, as an SP, to approach an ‘organic’ encounter as a civi or as a working girl?

Is it predetermined that you are looking for clients as you’re walking into the establishment?

Would you greet the person as a civi life encounter rather than a perspective client if they were more attractive or closer to your type?

 

[Julia Sky]

I freestyled during my latest tour ! All appointments had cancelled that day, I was annoyed and scrolling my phone in the bath with a full face of makeup (did my makeup for a guy who never showed up). The fire alarm suddenly went off so I got out of the tub, put my clothes and heels on, and went downstairs in the lobby. Noticed a guy staring at me so I approached him and casually asked if he'd heard what they said in the intercom as they were talking about the floor above mine but I couldn't hear too well... He answered my question, we kept talking, one thing lead to another he said he was feeling lonely and I ended up in his room about 2h later for a booking.

I'd love to go freestyling at the casino or something like that but I don't want to go alone. @Alisha Cantaloupe shall we ? lol

 

[GreyPilgrim]

Female police officers do fake being SPs sometimes.

If the female cop is the one who instigates the contact and proposes her fake services, no matter if it happens in Canada or the US, then it would be considered entrapment and that case would never fly.

Basically, all they could do is lecture you.

 

[annabellerileyx]

Now that i think of it

There used to be a bar on Belanger between Papineau and Marquette, sp's and clients met there and sp's improvised as waitresses at times, but this was ages ago.

I remember going at that bar just out of curiosity, i go in, all the ladies were looking at me, i was like whoa!!! A lady (a sp) asked me if i needed a drink. It is the world was upside down.

I went there again and i picked one up later lol.

That bar was the purpose of sps and clients hanging out to later have dates

Does this still happen there? I'm not far...

Idk if I'm meant for that though. I also don't drink, smoke or do drugs...

 

[Jordd]

I'd love to go freestyling at the casino or something like that but I don't want to go alone. @Alisha Cantaloupe shall we ? lol

Let me know where and when and I will come meet you girls! LC will you join?

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

If you are genuinely interested in getting to know someone without assuming they are a service provider,it is best to focus on building a genuine connection through conversation and shared interests. Asking about their profession or hobbies can be a natural way to get to know someone better. However, it is essential to avoid making assumptions or pressuring anyone into disclosing personal information.If you find yourself interested in someone and suspect they may be a service provider, it is important to approach the situation with sensitivity and respect. It is not appropriate to assume someone's profession or intentions based solely on their appearance or circumstances. It is always best to let the other person lead the conversation and disclose any relevant information about their profession or services if they feel comfortable doing so.Regarding affordability, it is advisable to discuss rates and services directly with the service provider in private, if and when they indicate their professional status. It is not appropriate to assume or speculate about someone's rates or services without their explicit consent or disclosure.Ultimately, it is vital to prioritize consent, respect personal boundaries, and maintain open and honest communication.

 

[Alisha Cantaloupe]

I freestyled during my latest tour ! All appointments had cancelled that day, I was annoyed and scrolling my phone in the bath with a full face of makeup (did my makeup for a guy who never showed up). The fire alarm suddenly went off so I got out of the tub, put my clothes and heels on, and went downstairs in the lobby. Noticed a guy staring at me so I approached him and casually asked if he'd heard what they said in the intercom as they were talking about the floor above mine but I couldn't hear too well... He answered my question, we kept talking, one thing lead to another he said he was feeling lonely and I ended up in his room about 2h later for a booking.

I'd love to go freestyling at the casino or something like that but I don't want to go alone. @Alisha Cantaloupe shall we ? lol

Absolutely @Julia Sky
Let’s plan to drain them with our big boobs in their face.