"Freestyling" AKA meeting a SP organically
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The two example scenarios are very different for me:
1. Call me arrogant, but if I were to walk with my dog and met an attractive woman who starts a conversation with me, I'd believe that she is just genuinely interested in either my dog, me or both. We are both fairly attractive (my dog much more so than me
) so it does happen.
2. I've been approached at bars by SPs a lot in different places but never in Canada and it was mostly obvious what their intent was. As for the other way around, I would approach a potential SP the same way as I would a non-working girl. Their profession shouldn't matter, and I just start a conversation and see where it leads me.
1. Call me arrogant, but if I were to walk with my dog and met an attractive woman who starts a conversation with me, I'd believe that she is just genuinely interested in either my dog, me or both. We are both fairly attractive (my dog much more so than me
) so it does happen.2. I've been approached at bars by SPs a lot in different places but never in Canada and it was mostly obvious what their intent was. As for the other way around, I would approach a potential SP the same way as I would a non-working girl. Their profession shouldn't matter, and I just start a conversation and see where it leads me.
Just saw this thread.
Any updates on this (probably very limited) scene in Montreal?
There are many clubs in Central and South American countries with this type of freelancer format. The clubs are typically set up for this, so it's not 100% true organic, but otherwise the concept is similar. One good part is that since the girls are "known" at the club, there is typically some quality control AKA much lower risk of a rip-off. This would seem to be a higher risk in a less organized and controlled environment like might exist in such spots in Montreal.
At the places I've gone in other countries, depending on the venue, it's typically fun if not a thrill to walk into one of these clubs, get a drink and settle in, do a walk around to see the options, have some prelim convos with a few to narrow the field down, and just let the night progress. You might have drinks with one or a few if you're having trouble making up your mind, have more drinks with the girl of your choice (maybe some mild petting and kissing thrown in), then make a deal for an onsite room, or back to your hotel, or maybe off to dinner first then action after. With the true freelancers that aren't obligated to go to the club, you can make all sorts of social and intimate arrangements for multi-hour dates or longer. At the top venues you can meet and greet dozens, and in a few places 100+, girls generally in the 8-9 range. Your head will be spinning. It's a wonderful scene.
Montreal will never have venues quite like this, but I'd be interested to know any hot spots where you might find at least a few options for freelance company. I only ran into this once in Montreal, in the bar in the Omni Hotel. I was sitting having a drink by myself, probably reading stuff on my phone, and there was a middle age guy and a young woman conversing one seat over. The guy was in town for a conference or something, and it was clear they didn't know each other. Well this woman was young and attractive and very charming. I was filled with an interesting mix of curiosity and jealousy as she charmed (worked) this guy for almost an hour. I was probably partly hoping she might free up so I could meet her next. But they finished up, she gave him her number and a kiss on the cheek and walked out of the hotel. Maybe I need to hang around the hotel bars more lol. But I always have a list of ladies I want to see when I'm in town so time is short.
Any updates on this (probably very limited) scene in Montreal?
There are many clubs in Central and South American countries with this type of freelancer format. The clubs are typically set up for this, so it's not 100% true organic, but otherwise the concept is similar. One good part is that since the girls are "known" at the club, there is typically some quality control AKA much lower risk of a rip-off. This would seem to be a higher risk in a less organized and controlled environment like might exist in such spots in Montreal.
At the places I've gone in other countries, depending on the venue, it's typically fun if not a thrill to walk into one of these clubs, get a drink and settle in, do a walk around to see the options, have some prelim convos with a few to narrow the field down, and just let the night progress. You might have drinks with one or a few if you're having trouble making up your mind, have more drinks with the girl of your choice (maybe some mild petting and kissing thrown in), then make a deal for an onsite room, or back to your hotel, or maybe off to dinner first then action after. With the true freelancers that aren't obligated to go to the club, you can make all sorts of social and intimate arrangements for multi-hour dates or longer. At the top venues you can meet and greet dozens, and in a few places 100+, girls generally in the 8-9 range. Your head will be spinning. It's a wonderful scene.
Montreal will never have venues quite like this, but I'd be interested to know any hot spots where you might find at least a few options for freelance company. I only ran into this once in Montreal, in the bar in the Omni Hotel. I was sitting having a drink by myself, probably reading stuff on my phone, and there was a middle age guy and a young woman conversing one seat over. The guy was in town for a conference or something, and it was clear they didn't know each other. Well this woman was young and attractive and very charming. I was filled with an interesting mix of curiosity and jealousy as she charmed (worked) this guy for almost an hour. I was probably partly hoping she might free up so I could meet her next. But they finished up, she gave him her number and a kiss on the cheek and walked out of the hotel. Maybe I need to hang around the hotel bars more lol. But I always have a list of ladies I want to see when I'm in town so time is short.
I don't go to bars anymore so this scenario is very unlikely for me. I will say, however, that I would be more inclined to just talk to her normally and if along the way, it came around to her telling me and things were cool between us, I would get her number and book her at some point in the future.
There was one time in my past where I happened to run into a lady that I had seen professionally a couple of times before. She was out walking her dogs and I happened to be coming the other way. I stopped and petted her dogs a bit and we chatted and had a nice convo. She asked me if I wanted to book her right then but funds were a little low at the time so I politely declined but did book her a couple weeks later and we had what seemed like even better chemistry. Probably because I treated her with respect when we met in public and wasn't creepy. That and her dogs loved me. Lol.
There was one time in my past where I happened to run into a lady that I had seen professionally a couple of times before. She was out walking her dogs and I happened to be coming the other way. I stopped and petted her dogs a bit and we chatted and had a nice convo. She asked me if I wanted to book her right then but funds were a little low at the time so I politely declined but did book her a couple weeks later and we had what seemed like even better chemistry. Probably because I treated her with respect when we met in public and wasn't creepy. That and her dogs loved me. Lol.
Never happened to be approached by a freelancer here in Montreal. I guess it might depend where one hangs out. But one time I was sipping a drink at a well known trendy hotel bar and chatting with the barmaid. It was a slow week day afternoon and through our conversation she hinted that for a certain compensation she would be willing to spend the night with me. Although she was a redhead hottie, I declined her invitation because, in those years, I wasn’t into SPs at all.
I also spent several months in Washington D.C. on different work trips and yes, it happened very often to be approached by freelancers. There again, I didn’t partake for the same reasons. I also had a good Romanian lover over there as I was going back regularly.
I also spent several months in Washington D.C. on different work trips and yes, it happened very often to be approached by freelancers. There again, I didn’t partake for the same reasons. I also had a good Romanian lover over there as I was going back regularly.
Never ever would i say yes to a paid meeting that i didn't looked/booked online, did my researches, know ill be safe, not robbed, not arrested etc etc.
Its just common sense.
Its just common sense.
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