GF used to be an SP
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Hahahaha! Friggin hilarious. This old canard again....
What is it you want to know? Half of all marriages end in divorce so the starting point for a successful long term relationship is shaky at best and then you want to ask what if you add an ex-SP to the mix? Ok, sure. Tell you what, it's going to work out just great! GREAT, I tell you! You want us to give you permission for something you know is foolish but want to do anyway? Or is this just a curiosity thing and it's a random thought that popped into your head? Either way this board is filled with horror stories and guys that get totally messed up from trying to turn a hoe into a housewife and thinking that the wonderful hour they spend with a girl could be multiplied over months or years. The math simply doesn't work that way. It's a mirage and you need to understand it as such. It's a wonderful escape for an hour or two but it doesn't scale up to weeks or months.
What is it you want to know? Half of all marriages end in divorce so the starting point for a successful long term relationship is shaky at best and then you want to ask what if you add an ex-SP to the mix? Ok, sure. Tell you what, it's going to work out just great! GREAT, I tell you! You want us to give you permission for something you know is foolish but want to do anyway? Or is this just a curiosity thing and it's a random thought that popped into your head? Either way this board is filled with horror stories and guys that get totally messed up from trying to turn a hoe into a housewife and thinking that the wonderful hour they spend with a girl could be multiplied over months or years. The math simply doesn't work that way. It's a mirage and you need to understand it as such. It's a wonderful escape for an hour or two but it doesn't scale up to weeks or months.
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"Hobbyist", registered march 2021, and this is your 1st post? I think you may have posted a few days early.
PS. I may have taught her that thing you like...
She was SP 8 years ago and retired already - had a kid and is a single mom now. I know it can be the road to hell but I can't help the way I feel. I read some posts here and yes mostly the girls are crazy but I also read that some settle down. My situation is a bit different because even though I used to try the girls in my past I stopped also. And I fully agree with you eviltmp 'normal' women can be just just a bad with 50/50 success rate and will take you to the cleaners in divorce - rare is the one that won't. So regardless I'm still looking at best at a 50/50 and maybe even less because of her background. But I am wondering if out of all those failures there are some who manage to settle down with an SP and made it - probably if it worked they are not on here anymore to tell the success story...
I think you should stop thinking this way that, she was a SP long time ago and it might effect your relationship some way in future. You know, many girls have very active sex life with multple partners before they settle down. I don't see any difference between those girls and your ex-SP in this case. It's all in their past.
Every new relationship should be taken one day at a time. If it lasts then it lasts, if not then at least it was fun while it did.
Still a very weird thread. An ex hobbyist coming to ask about an ex SP on an escort review board
Maybe if you give her SP name some guys might be able to rate how good or bad her BJ skills were. That would be way more interesting than asking if it works or not
Maybe if you give her SP name some guys might be able to rate how good or bad her BJ skills were. That would be way more interesting than asking if it works or not
I appreciate you answering my question. You're looking for permission to do something you already know to be questionable. Luckily the PERMISSION has been GRANTED! Now go forth, spend time with your sweet flower (and flowerette) and I sincerely hope you'll be back here at some point to share your story. I know I'll be among the first ones to read it and to enjoy your adventures. Best of luck!
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She has stopped being an escort 8 years ago as you have stated.
What is in the past is in the past for both of you.
She is a woman like any other with the same dreams and wishes.
All relationships require a lot of work and trust and having a child already makes it even more difficult as there will always be another involved in your life.
That being said it is what the two of you make it to be and advice from a bunch of hobbyists on an escort review board is probably the worst place to go.
What is in the past is in the past for both of you.
She is a woman like any other with the same dreams and wishes.
All relationships require a lot of work and trust and having a child already makes it even more difficult as there will always be another involved in your life.
That being said it is what the two of you make it to be and advice from a bunch of hobbyists on an escort review board is probably the worst place to go.
It's not as crazy as it sounds. He knows the board members here can relate to his situation and a handful will have experience with something similar. At the core he knows deep down it's a bad idea but wants external approval to go ahead and make the mistake anyway. I have a pretty good idea how this relationship will evolve over time but what's the fun in that for the OP? Living it will be more exciting and the roller coaster ride will be one for the books! Yipee!
Heyy it's your story
Meaning your can have an happy ending
There is no guarantee in life
People can change
If you have strong feelings for her
You could give her try
You also have a past ...
The only thing is you can't change a bad person into a good person ...
The Corona Virus is the best time to really know somebody ... Alot of couple will break up , some parent learn how there children really are.
The difference between her and the other woman is both of you know their past .
When you date other woman they don't
know that you use to be a hobbyists
it's still does not make you a bad person
If you decide to give a try
Just go one day at the time ...
Simple fact that you would create a new account on merb to ask about this says two things about you:
1. You are not comfortable with her previous work as SP
2. You are too ashamed to ask advice from your friend IRL
Personally I agree with testingsite if promiscuity is what you are worried about, this has nothing to do with SP vs civilian. There are promiscuous civilians just like there are SPs who are very chaste outside of their work.
It comes down to a matter of personal preference and mindset. I don't think you should date someone with a history that make you uncomfortable or that you wouldn't want your friends and family to know about.
If you are so worried about her partner count and fear being judged by others for her previous job, you will never be able to shake that monkey off your back. Safer for both parties involved to move on prior to getting too involved.
1. You are not comfortable with her previous work as SP
2. You are too ashamed to ask advice from your friend IRL
Personally I agree with testingsite if promiscuity is what you are worried about, this has nothing to do with SP vs civilian. There are promiscuous civilians just like there are SPs who are very chaste outside of their work.
It comes down to a matter of personal preference and mindset. I don't think you should date someone with a history that make you uncomfortable or that you wouldn't want your friends and family to know about.
If you are so worried about her partner count and fear being judged by others for her previous job, you will never be able to shake that monkey off your back. Safer for both parties involved to move on prior to getting too involved.
Really? Could be wrong. But from what I have read. Guys on the board are either cheaters, or not looking to be in a relationship. Hobbying is the easy way to go.
@Patron. I don’t think many people stigmatize dating an escort or ex-escort in this thread.
i think we are all wondering why OP feels like he needs a hobbyist opinion on whether or not it could work.
maybe he could get a better response on match.com with
Help. My girlfriend has slept with over 1000 guys. Do you think it will work between us?
i think we are all wondering why OP feels like he needs a hobbyist opinion on whether or not it could work.
maybe he could get a better response on match.com with
Help. My girlfriend has slept with over 1000 guys. Do you think it will work between us?
I think having a kid is a bigger issue and could be way more problematic than being a former escort.
There will always be another man in your lives who may not be so pleasant to deal with for either and not all children warm up to a new man who is not their real father.
I will always say that women are women and they all have the same wishes and dreams the stigma if any attached to them will always be there unfortunately but it is up to you to stand by her if it comes out during your relationship.
There will always be another man in your lives who may not be so pleasant to deal with for either and not all children warm up to a new man who is not their real father.
I will always say that women are women and they all have the same wishes and dreams the stigma if any attached to them will always be there unfortunately but it is up to you to stand by her if it comes out during your relationship.
I've read all points and all points have validity to them.
The fact that you know that she's a former SP (I'm assuming she told you), you're already starting off on an OK foot. Meaning that this is not a skeleton in her closet.
I say go for it especially if you can have fun together in every way possible and you don't have a problem with her being a former SP.
The fact that you know that she's a former SP (I'm assuming she told you), you're already starting off on an OK foot. Meaning that this is not a skeleton in her closet.
I say go for it especially if you can have fun together in every way possible and you don't have a problem with her being a former SP.
Problem with dating (ex)escorts:
1. Almost all of them will think of how much $ they could have made each time you have sex
2. They've done pretty much everything already in terms of sex, and everything would become a routine
3. Just like with girls who have high body counts, there will be comparisons between you and the past clients in their mind. (this applies to any girl who had a relationship in the past, but exacerbated in this case)
1. Almost all of them will think of how much $ they could have made each time you have sex
2. They've done pretty much everything already in terms of sex, and everything would become a routine
3. Just like with girls who have high body counts, there will be comparisons between you and the past clients in their mind. (this applies to any girl who had a relationship in the past, but exacerbated in this case)
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