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GFE or Dominatrix?

Pablo1234

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Ok I might come out as a noob by saying this but.. what is the difference between GFE and Dominatrix? Ok yes yes GFE is mainly sex stuff and Dominatrix is fetishes and kinks. But here's my thing, like what is the meaning of Dominatrix? People do GFE to at the end cum or engage in sexual activity. What is the real purpose of dominatrix? Is there something I'm not seeing?
 

DetectiveDavidMills

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GFE: it is as you are with your girlfriend, it is sensual, there is kissing which is the most important, there is bbbj, and the sensual love making


Dominatrix: it can go so many ways, but the lady is in charge, she could punish you, hit you, slap you, spank you, give you orders, some male sub likes to be pegged (the lady penetrates the male sub with a strap on)
 

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I'm starting to wonder if you are trolling this forum honestly... :) A dominatrix has the role of dominating the client, it's just a different service, and it requires a lot of training and skills. Clients who want to see a domme aren't seeking to have sex.. A lot of them do cum during a session depending on what they are looking for. But a dominatrix has a different role from an escort (who might or might not dominate her clients during a booking that involve intercourse and similar types of activity). A lot of clients want a session with a dominatrix because they want to relinquish control to a woman, they have different needs and aren't seeking to have sex.

BTW GFE isn't just ''to cum'', a lot of people book GFE because they want companionship, kisses, etc. You can engage in sexual activity and cum just with a massage or FS session.
GFE usually involves kissing, daty and bbbj but doesn't involve a lot of more ''hardcore'' sexual activities.
 

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GFE is where the SP might take your used condom to inseminate herself after you depart, leaving you worried.

A dominatrix will make you take the used condom of her previous client to inseminate yourself. You also leave worried.
 

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I'm starting to wonder if you are trolling this forum honestly... :) A dominatrix has the role of dominating the client, it's just a different service, and it requires a lot of training and skills. Clients who want to see a domme aren't seeking to have sex.. A lot of them do cum during a session depending on what they are looking for. But a dominatrix has a different role from an escort (who might or might not dominate her clients during a booking that involve intercourse and similar types of activity). A lot of clients want a session with a dominatrix because they want to relinquish control to a woman, they have different needs and aren't seeking to have sex.

BTW GFE isn't just ''to cum'', a lot of people book GFE because they want companionship, kisses, etc. You can engage in sexual activity and cum just with a massage or FS session.
GFE usually involves kissing, daty and bbbj but doesn't involve a lot of more ''hardcore'' sexual activities.
A Mistress will cater to your many fetishes like feet, spankings also showing she is the one in control over you! It’s very exciting I must say!
 

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I'll be so serious now : why are you still here? Over half of your posts are either trolling or giving away the fact that you're a minor or something. You CANNOT be serious. "Why would I want someone to dominate me?" you don't have to. Clients are not a monolith, which is why there's a wide variety of offerings in sex work.

Why would I order coleslaw when I don't even like it? Well, I don't. Some people like it though so it's available at many restaurants. Not rocket science.

Stop trolling. It's useless and stupid and you're wasting everyone's time answering your numerous stupid threads.
 

Sylar

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I'll be so serious now : why are you still here? Over half of your posts are either trolling or giving away the fact that you're a minor or something. You CANNOT be serious.

Stop trolling. It's useless and stupid and you're wasting everyone's time answering your numerous stupid threads.
If you have to lick her stilettos or are getting spanked while she chastises you like this, you'll be paying top dollars for her dominatrix services. :p
 

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I'll be so serious now : why are you still here? Over half of your posts are either trolling or giving away the fact that you're a minor or something. You CANNOT be serious. "Why would I want someone to dominate me?" you don't have to. Clients are not a monolith, which is why there's a wide variety of offerings in sex work.

Why would I order coleslaw when I don't even like it? Well, I don't. Some people like it though so it's available at many restaurants. Not rocket science.

Stop trolling. It's useless and stupid and you're wasting everyone's time answering your numerous stupid threads.
At least now he's tasted what it feels like to be put in his place by a no-nonsense domme.... (Seriously: thank you.)
 

DouMan

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Hopeless... Mommy should really check her wittle hunnykins
 

Pablo1234

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I'll be so serious now : why are you still here? Over half of your posts are either trolling or giving away the fact that you're a minor or something. You CANNOT be serious. "Why would I want someone to dominate me?" you don't have to. Clients are not a monolith, which is why there's a wide variety of offerings in sex work.

Why would I order coleslaw when I don't even like it? Well, I don't. Some people like it though so it's available at many restaurants. Not rocket science.

Stop trolling. It's useless and stupid and you're wasting everyone's time answering your numerous stupid threads.
I was just inquiring about difference between GFE and Dominatrix, didn't mean to bother or anything..
 

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I can definitely see a genuine question here. I’m a GFE provider who also deeply enjoys BDSM, kinks, and fetishes (as well as Tantric practices but this is beside the point here). These can absolutely be integrated into a GFE-style session, but it’s important to understand the distinction. In this case, the provider is offering “kink and fetish-friendly” services, not acting as a Dominatrix.

A true Domme operates within a framework of power exchange, where the submissive surrenders to the control of the Domme who holds full authority during the session. That level of dynamic is fundamentally different from a GFE provider incorporating playful elements of kink or fetish without that complete power shift.

Understanding these nuances requires a strong knowledge of both the companion and BDSM worlds. That’s why it’s common to see providers with separate profiles on platforms like T***t—one under Escorting and another under BDSM. When you’re offering genuine Domme experiences with true power exchange, compartmentalizing is absolutely necessary.

Hope this helps clarify things! Let’s keep the conversation respectful and supportive. Wishing everyone a great day.

To answer your question directly: the desire to be dominated often comes from a strong desire to surrender control.
 
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I can definitely see a genuine question here. I’m a GFE provider who also deeply enjoys BDSM, kinks, and fetishes (as well as Tantric practices but this is beside the point here). These can absolutely be integrated into a GFE-style session, but it’s important to understand the distinction. In this case, the provider is offering “kink and fetish-friendly” services, not acting as a Dominatrix.

A true Domme operates within a framework of power exchange, where the submissive surrenders to the control of the Domme who holds full authority during the session. That level of dynamic is fundamentally different from a GFE provider incorporating playful elements of kink or fetish without that complete power shift.

Understanding these nuances requires a strong knowledge of both the companion and BDSM worlds. That’s why it’s common to see providers with separate profiles on platforms like Tryst—one under Escorting and another under BDSM. When you’re offering genuine Domme experiences with true power exchange, compartmentalizing is absolutely necessary.

Hope this helps clarify things! Let’s keep the conversation respectful and supportive. Wishing everyone a great day.

To answer your question directly: the desire to be dominated often comes from a strong desire to surrender control.
Very good explanation. It’s very clear to me.
 
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