GFE or Dominatrix?

[E.B.]

Very good explanation. It’s very clear to me.

You’re very welcome! I can sense a bit of confusion in this thread, and this is a topic that’s right up my alley.

It’s absolutely possible to offer a unique service that blends GFE, PSE, tantric elements, kinks, and fetishes. This fusion can create an incredibly unique experience. You can also choose to compartmentalize these services, depending on the kind of outcome you want to create as a service provider.

On T***t, an individual can have up to three profiles—as long as each falls under a different category. For exemple, someone might have a profile in the Escorting section for GFE/PSE services, another in BDSM as a Domme, and a third in the Massage section, offering either erotic or tantric massage. That setup makes perfect sense and allows for clarity in the service provided.

I also highly recommend exploring the concept of Tantric/Therapeutic BDSM; it’s a fascinating approach that blends both BDSM and Tantric practices you can learn more about.

 

[LookAlike]

You’re very welcome! I can sense a bit of confusion in this thread, and this is a topic that’s right up my alley.

It’s absolutely possible to offer a unique service that blends GFE, PSE, tantric elements, kinks, and fetishes. This fusion can create an incredibly unique experience. You can also choose to compartmentalize these services, depending on the kind of outcome you want to create as a service provider.

On T***t, an individual can have up to three profiles—as long as each falls under a different category. For exemple, someone might have a profile in the Escorting section for GFE/PSE services, another in BDSM as a Domme, and a third in the Massage section, offering either erotic or tantric massage. That setup makes perfect sense and allows for clarity in the service provided.

I also highly recommend exploring the concept of Tantric/Therapeutic BDSM; it’s a fascinating approach that blends both BDSM and Tantric practices you can learn more about.

Lot of concepts to explore. Not easy to find a provider who can master the art of GFE combine with a real kink and fetish service in the same session.

 

[E.B.]

Lot of concepts to explore. Not easy to find a provider who can master the art of GFE combine with a real kink and fetish service in the same session.

Indeed, it is an art that takes years to develop and master. A true passion is also absolutely necessary

 

[Pablo1234]

I can definitely see a genuine question here. I’m a GFE provider who also deeply enjoys BDSM, kinks, and fetishes (as well as Tantric practices but this is beside the point here). These can absolutely be integrated into a GFE-style session, but it’s important to understand the distinction. In this case, the provider is offering “kink and fetish-friendly” services, not acting as a Dominatrix.

A true Domme operates within a framework of power exchange, where the submissive surrenders to the control of the Domme who holds full authority during the session. That level of dynamic is fundamentally different from a GFE provider incorporating playful elements of kink or fetish without that complete power shift.

Understanding these nuances requires a strong knowledge of both the companion and BDSM worlds. That’s why it’s common to see providers with separate profiles on platforms like T***t—one under Escorting and another under BDSM. When you’re offering genuine Domme experiences with true power exchange, compartmentalizing is absolutely necessary.

Hope this helps clarify things! Let’s keep the conversation respectful and supportive. Wishing everyone a great day.

To answer your question directly: the desire to be dominated often comes from a strong desire to surrender control.

Thank you! finally someone who has the courage to answer my question properly, appreciate it

 

[Julia Sky]

Acting like nobody else did lol. You must've not read the other actual replies you got because you were too busy being a troll to actually care about the answer

 

[Enjoying life]

I can definitely see a genuine question here. I’m a GFE provider who also deeply enjoys BDSM, kinks, and fetishes (as well as Tantric practices but this is beside the point here). These can absolutely be integrated into a GFE-style session, but it’s important to understand the distinction. In this case, the provider is offering “kink and fetish-friendly” services, not acting as a Dominatrix.

A true Domme operates within a framework of power exchange, where the submissive surrenders to the control of the Domme who holds full authority during the session. That level of dynamic is fundamentally different from a GFE provider incorporating playful elements of kink or fetish without that complete power shift.

Understanding these nuances requires a strong knowledge of both the companion and BDSM worlds. That’s why it’s common to see providers with separate profiles on platforms like T***t—one under Escorting and another under BDSM. When you’re offering genuine Domme experiences with true power exchange, compartmentalizing is absolutely necessary.

Hope this helps clarify things! Let’s keep the conversation respectful and supportive. Wishing everyone a great day.

To answer your question directly: the desire to be dominated often comes from a strong desire to surrender control.

That explains why i get kink and fetish-friendly” services not a serious Dom from my mistress!

 

[Fradi]

Acting like nobody else did lol. You must've not read the other actual replies you got because you were too busy being a troll to actually care about the answer

I am with Julia.
Definitely a troll, nobody can be this naive about sex and not know the difference or smart enough to google it before asking these type of questions.
If nothing else most young men have looked at porn to see what a Dom is and what GFE is.
Unless this guy is borrowing his dad’s phone and is actually around 10 or less.

 

[E.B.]

That explains why i get kink and fetish-friendly” services not a serious Dom from my mistress!

If it is mixed with full service, yes it explains it

 

[Enjoying life]

If it is mixed with full service, yes it explains it

Not full service just cbj, spankings , massage, slapping, golden , prostate and massage

 

[E.B.]

Not full service just cbj, spankings , massage, slapping, golden , prostate and massage

Ask if a full surrender of power would be possible

 

[Enjoying life]

Ask if a full surrender of power would be possible

It’s more like I have to tell her ok let’s do this , then when it’s enough I go let’s try blah blah Like that! Things still get done though!

 

[E.B.]

It’s more like I have to tell her ok let’s do this , then when it’s enough I go let’s try blah blah Like that! Things still get done though!

Here’s how a conversation with a professional Domme should go:

You start by sharing your personal limits and preferences—what you’re open to and what you’re not—while keeping in mind the Domme’s own boundaries and the type of experience she offers. You should also talk about your desire outcome and the intensity of pain and surrender you’re looking to explore/experience.

Then, you should agree on a unique safeword that will immediately stop all activity if needed, and consider using traffic light codes like green, yellow, and red to help guide the flow of the session for the Domme.

Above all, ensure the conversation remains open, respectful, and judgment-free. Consent, mutual enjoyment, and safety should always be at the core—unless you’re both intentionally playing within a carefully negotiated framework of kink or fetish

Hope that helps xx

 

[Enjoying life]

Here’s how a conversation with a professional Domme should go:

You start by sharing your personal limits and preferences—what you’re open to and what you’re not—while keeping in mind the Domme’s own boundaries and the type of experience she offers. You should also talk about your desire outcome and the intensity of pain and surrender you’re looking to explore/experience.

Then, you should agree on a unique safeword that will immediately stop all activity if needed, and consider using traffic light codes like green, yellow, and red to help guide the flow of the session for the Domme.

Above all, ensure the conversation remains open, respectful, and judgment-free. Consent, mutual enjoyment, and safety should always be at the core—unless you’re both intentionally playing within a carefully negotiated framework of kink or fetish

Hope that helps xx

Thank you! It’s still a lot of fun just I like more viciousness with a dom !

 

[E.B.]

It’s more like I have to tell her ok let’s do this , then when it’s enough I go let’s try blah blah Like that! Things still get done though!

You could also buy her this book :

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