Good dating sites

[azzaro]

I have tried pof for at least 2 years. Quite a prude crowd there just like most Americans.
Those 2 sites are the biggest sites in the USa and have a policy of no shirt-off pics and no sexual language/asking anything about sex/even mentioning sex AT ALL (even as a joke).

 

[azzaro]

But who am I kidding right?. Pof and Okcupid are American sites and USA is the most sexually repressed western country and the most violent country in the world!. Most sites that advertise as sexually open to find partners are fake and only very stupid people will sign up and pay money to them. But there are still enough suckers out there that do sign up just like there there are suckers who are conned by some escorts (10% escorts are like that).

 

[november]

Try meet up. You pick an activity you like and meet people with similar interest. They also have singles parties.

 

[azzaro]

Try meet up. You pick an activity you like and meet people with similar interest. They also have singles parties.

Thanks but I am in IT and I am a member of enough groups in my field. Besides, most people who join social groups in their field or hobbies have a very slim chance of finding someone of the opposite sex that they might end up in bed with. Most American meeting/dating sites are created for motives that are so prudish (yes , sex is a big part of human life and is ignored only prudes) are useless in nature even if they do put Canada and Europe as possible locations. Most Europeans socialize the old fashioned way. By being friendly, open, outgoing, social and open to sexual advances/acceptance. Americans mature later in life socially and sexually not to mention emotionally.

 

[PopeDover]

Americans mature later in life socially and sexually not to mention emotionally.

So you're saying there's still hope for me?

:crazy:

 

[Numerati]

I tried HowAboutWe, Had a few encounters. Met some really interesting civie gals on there. Two of them we dated for a few months. The rest I still keep in contact with and hang out but nothing serious though.

 

[SylvainP]

J'ai essayé plusieurs sites de rencontres. Il faut être un bel homme pour avoir le droit de rencontrer ou d'avir une réponse positive. Je n'ai jamais eu le droit de rencontrer. Je n'y crois pllus pour les hommes qui, comme moi, ressemblent à Cyrano de Bergerac.

 

[azzaro]

J'ai essayé plusieurs sites de rencontres. Il faut être un bel homme pour avoir le droit de rencontrer ou d'avir une réponse positive. Je n'ai jamais eu le droit de rencontrer. Je n'y crois pllus pour les hommes qui, comme moi, ressemblent à Cyrano de Bergerac.

So Sylvain I agree with you.
If a guy is ugly looking, he has much less chance of meeting any girl who is decent looking.
However, most women on dating sites say that personality matters the most and looks are not that important. So who is lying and who has the upper hand in dating. Its women most of the time in USA and most of Canada. Europe is quite diffrent from here.

 

[azzaro]

Dating sites are the same thing that in real life. But the only difference is that want you got in quantity you don't necessarily get it in quality. I use a lot reseaucontact.com in the past and I meet quite a lot of wowen, but it a lot of work to find the one. It's not a question of looking good, because three of my friends that aren't so beautiful were getting more laid than me. Sometimes is timing and what you wrote in your profile and messages that you send. But i'm more like Azzaro, europeans still have it, the old fashion way is the best. We're so frigid in north america compare in Europe. But it's just my opinion.

Since women have the upper hand in North America I would classify them like this ==> Half of them have been very very sexually active with losers and now want a "nice guy". But in trying to find a nice guy, they will take "revenge" on several hundred of the nice guys too since the women have become sort of haters of men first. The other half are the prudes in North America. Never been kissed, never been touched, never socialized or did not have the opportunity to socialize (social background/small town etc). I would say less than 5% of women are TRULY on the sites to actually meet nice guys/socialize.

 

[Meter]

Why would a guy in a right mind want to have a steady and long term relationship with a woman. Unless you are a young guy and never been in a long term relationship, you would want to try that. Ask any guy with experience, they would tell you stay away from that commitment. The best way is to pay for what you want and once you are out the door the crap won't follow you the whole day. You will be your own boss and king of your own domain. The way it goes now days soon we will have to get paid to be performing as escorts and masseurs. Women are occupying more and more well paid jobs and positions in work force now and the number of male agencies serving female clients is in a rise. Just make sure you are in a good shape when that time comes. And no the nice guys would never have a chance , cus mostly they don't have either money or stamina for female psychology. Women always after bad boys ( wild, rich and handsome like sons of anarchy type) and men always after nice girls ( quite, sexy and pretty with or without money or education) . This is written in our genes .

It is a funny video , you may have watched it before . It is about us against them https://youtu.be/J19gC_5vHrg

 

[azzaro]

OkCupid is a site where one can find BBWs to connect with, if somebody is into that. Even though there is no mention of that in the site ads anywhere on the internet. BBWs need love (and sex) too. But alas, there are too many overweight girls in North America...and they refuse to slim down!. I would say close to 50% of women in most of USA and 25% in Canada are overweight by more than 40% of what they should be.

 

[master_bates]

But who am I kidding right?. Pof and Okcupid are American sites and USA is the most sexually repressed western country and the most violent country in the world!. Most sites that advertise as sexually open to find partners are fake and only very stupid people will sign up and pay money to them. But there are still enough suckers out there that do sign up just like there there are suckers who are conned by some escorts (10% escorts are like that).

Actually POF is Canadian, it started in Vancouver.

I have had quite a bit of success on there but it's tough!

 

[snoodle]

Why would a guy in a right mind want to have a steady and long term relationship with a woman.
The best way is to pay for what you want and once you are out the door the crap won't follow you the whole day.
You will be your own boss and king of your own domain.

Ya ! This guy knows what he's talking bout ! :thumb:

 

[amanda_001s]

I'm on OKcupid and i've met a terrefic chix there, she's just perfect. I also met a couples of persons that are now friends.
I also mention that I'm a sex worker, people are pretty friendly and open-minded, lot's of artistic persons. More complete is your profile and the better chances you'll get. Also I find the match questions quite interesting.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Why would a guy in a right mind want to have a steady and long term relationship with a woman.

It is a funny video , you may have watched it before . It is about us against them https://youtu.be/J19gC_5vHrg

For your first part..... Family. Should not need to explain.

The video is funny and true for a lot but not the majority.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

Actually POF is Canadian, it started in Vancouver.

I have had quite a bit of success on there but it's tough!

I was on POF a few years ago and yes it is tough, managed to get 2 dates and quit trying, do not like jumping through hoops to meet someone. I even put in my profile " Just looking for a dinner companion with good conversation, NSA ". One of the two I met was quite nice but when I came back from my 6 month Alberta leave she had a serious relationship going. The other one..... well lets just say I made a bad choice and over after the first.

Your best bet to find someone is to have a friends girlfriend/wife set you up, some women love to be matchmakers.

 

[MtlNewbie]

online dating is tough but it isn't impossible. I met lots of women and dated a few of them. It's not easy though because the numbers are skewed towards the women so heavily but you need to be persistent and either be good looking or have a bit of charisma to get their attention. If you write 10 girls and expect a reply then you're just not informed of what the numbers are really like. All those girls have a ton of messages. Also this is the wrong site to talk about dating sites, dating, or any kind of monogamous long term relationship. 95% of the general population does not hobby so the opinions you're getting are obviously biased.

Also what you were saying about American this blah blah blah makes no sense. First of all because regardless of the site, the women you're contacting are local.

 

[themonk83]

there's no good dating sites. i've spent time on okcupid, réseau contact and pof on a span of 8 years or so. it is hard, very hard. i've exactly had 2 meets. no follow up.

the thing about dating sites, you not only have to be at least decent looking but you have more chance of a reply if you are of the desire ethnicity. in my case, the girls i would attract all had some asian fetish and i was stereotype like hell. when they write you to say they enjoy korean, japanese food that they read mangas (japanese cartoons) and that they like gentle guys, it's so not a turn on for me.

its like me writing to a québécoise that i like poutine and pâté chinois. anyway, there is some good women on it but they are so few of them, you need to strike fast because the next guy is just one message away to scoop her up.

and i have to say, people expectations online are way way way out of line. i've met some of the girls i message back then in real life because we have some mutual friends and they were a lot more open-minded and down to earth than you would think.

funny thing, some of the girls i messaged back then turned out to be SPs and MPs. who knew? some of the girls in the business are quite familiar

 

[randolph]

Never had any trouble meeting women on dating sites. Perhaps a factor of age group: if you are looking for 45 and up the odds are stacked in favour of men. There are many, many women looking for a partner in that group, but a lot have let themselves go, don't keep in shape, and have settled into boring routines. By conventional standards--it's a stereotype I know--a lot men (not all!) age better than women, especially if they keep fit, eat well, etc But almost all women I've met in regular life have been terrible at sex--but that's another story I guess. A good lesson that there is a lot more to life than sex . . .

 

[TigerWould]

I've mentioned it here before but I've had huge success on Seeking Arrangement website. Actually was juggling 3 at one time and super hot. Lots of young 22-28 yr old girls mostly students and desperate for money. Give them 200 and spend as much time with them as you want. All GFE and willing to do anything to please you and see you again. Amazing.