Half hour sessions
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I suppose if you're just looking for a hole to stick it in, it's ok. Personally, I like a little more interaction. I like to spend time showing her a good time. You can't do that in 30 minutes. Can barely do that in an hour.
I don't agree with you rumple.
How do you know beforehand that you will like her or that she will like you? 30 minutes session are a good way to "test the waters". I see 30 minutes session like little canapés or new products they let you taste in a supermarket. If you like it, you buy the damn thing, if you don't...the hell with it.
This thing of "showing her a good time" is more representative of a true date with a regular date or prospective date than with an escort. I book escort because I want to have fun, to let out an excess of sexual energy. Then a 30 minutes pop is quite enough for me. The times I put down my pants I'm already erected and ready for action.
Besides that, if there is some kind of chemistry between you and her you can still extend it to a multi hours session or see her for a longer period of time. I had a friend of mine in Brazil (a French ex-pat and he was my mentor in São Paulo): before booking a girl he was renting a small office for an hour (you can do this in Brazil) and he was "interviewing" the girl before finalizing or not with a session (naturally he was paying the girl the price of a session). This may sound radical but I swear to you that he was really doing it!!!!!
I'm a very difficult person to please on an intelelctual level. 70% of the time I find escorts boring and with very limited education. Don't shoot at me! There are exceptions!!! (And I know several of them that I cannot mention here) The problem is if she is too interesting there will be an imbalance with my role as a client and her role as a sexual provider. I don't want to cross this line. This is why I reserve long time session with potential date. To each is own.
How do you know beforehand that you will like her or that she will like you? 30 minutes session are a good way to "test the waters". I see 30 minutes session like little canapés or new products they let you taste in a supermarket. If you like it, you buy the damn thing, if you don't...the hell with it.
This thing of "showing her a good time" is more representative of a true date with a regular date or prospective date than with an escort. I book escort because I want to have fun, to let out an excess of sexual energy. Then a 30 minutes pop is quite enough for me. The times I put down my pants I'm already erected and ready for action.
Besides that, if there is some kind of chemistry between you and her you can still extend it to a multi hours session or see her for a longer period of time. I had a friend of mine in Brazil (a French ex-pat and he was my mentor in São Paulo): before booking a girl he was renting a small office for an hour (you can do this in Brazil) and he was "interviewing" the girl before finalizing or not with a session (naturally he was paying the girl the price of a session). This may sound radical but I swear to you that he was really doing it!!!!!
I'm a very difficult person to please on an intelelctual level. 70% of the time I find escorts boring and with very limited education. Don't shoot at me! There are exceptions!!! (And I know several of them that I cannot mention here) The problem is if she is too interesting there will be an imbalance with my role as a client and her role as a sexual provider. I don't want to cross this line. This is why I reserve long time session with potential date. To each is own.
Hi Protagoras,
I don't know how you can manage to delve into an SP's personality and then make out with her in only 30 minutes. Again, it all depends on the kind of experience you are looking for: release v.s. erotic. You are obviously a smart and intellectual member here and I am curious to know how can you do this in just 1800 minutes.
I don't know how you can manage to delve into an SP's personality and then make out with her in only 30 minutes. Again, it all depends on the kind of experience you are looking for: release v.s. erotic. You are obviously a smart and intellectual member here and I am curious to know how can you do this in just 1800 minutes.
I understand your point of view HFE. As I said, I'm primarily looking for relase. The whole erotic & sensual thing is a something I pursue with a regular woman or a woman that I want to see on a regular basis. It is not because I prefer to see escort for the sole purpose of having animal sex that I treat them as "piece of meat".
Read my recent posts on my sessions in São Paulo: I never impose my tempo or my sexual desires on a woman. It is true that I'm looking for a quick relief but it is also true that I respect escorts by letting them decide what type of service they will offer.
The reason I prefer to have shorter date - and not getting too much into the erotic/personal/emotional zone - is due to the fact that I draw a robust line between frolicking and dating. A real date take hours. You have to see a person several times before feeling something that is true for that person.
That's why I usually book 60 minute sessions first time around. After that, I'll book 90 minutes or two hours. Right now, I'm spending time with two different girls, seeing each every other week. I've now seen each three times. It will likely continue like this for a couple of months, then, if history holds, I'll slow down with them and move two or three others into the rotation. I find the more time you spend with one woman, the better is the sense that she gets of what floats my boat.
I don't agree with this, Protagoras. My experience has taught me that the more fun she has, the more fun I'll have. Not only is she more likely to go the extra mile to please me if she's turned, watching her lose control and go over the top is, well, fun.
If all I need is a quick squirt, I can handle that myself.
No, no, I agree with you completely. While, I'm not on your plane, intellectually, I appreciate intelligence and am easily bored by girls who can't carry on an articulate conversation, which is why my habits are as outlined above. The pool of girls who interest me is quite limited. (No brain, no pain.) And, no, I'm not looking to spend 180$ for an hour of de-constucting Hegelian dialectics.
Bingo. For me, if it's just release I'm looking for, I don't need any help. If I want female company, thirty minutes just won't do it.
I really like the extra time to soak the girl in and all their beauty.
You can barely do that in an hour let alone half an hour.
You can barely do that in an hour let alone half an hour.
Very good point Patron.
You are right about these things
1) 30 minutes sessions could bring an unexpected afflux of customers to a venue. LE can than be easily aware that somethings special is occurring there. I forgot to mention in my last post in the São Paulo thread that it is what happened to Vani's Way yesterday. Red Way and Vani's Way are both owned by Vani. Red Way was closed last Friday apparently because there were plumbing pipe problems. I heard another version that a jealous wife made a complaint to the authorities and Vani was forced to close RW. Most of the girls that were working in RW are now working in Vani's Way (this place used to be very quiet before). Since the 30 minutes option is available in these brothels an incessant activity was noticed in the viccinity of Vani's Way (there is a "chic" restaurant not far from there: Esfiha Imigrantes).
So went I went out of the room and went back to the waiting room there were at least six policia militar "raiding" Vani's Way. They had received complaints about increased activity and they were there to know what was happening. They were also looking for minors (Vani don't hire minors). I was a little bit nervous because I didn't know what was going on. I asked Takuma if there were any problems for us. He laughed and he said no: They are friends of mine; they are only looking for minors. They are not even interested in bothering the customers and the garotas.
2) Second point: 30 minutes sessions are good for tourists. I do it only in Brazil during the day time. The evening, for example, I book for longer period (see my Wednesday post: late afternoon a 30 minutes session (at R$70) as a kind of "mise en bouche" and later the same day a 1 1/2 h session at R$400 with a sophisticated freelancer.
3) I don't do 30 minutes in Montréal and I wouldn't.
Gents,
I got stuck into 1/2 hours sessions twice during incalls. In both cases it was my first year in Montreal, and it was a matter of the agency cutting my time because I was a bit late trying to find the place and the next guy was already booked back to back. I would have left if it hadn't been the last day of the trip and very late in the day each time with few other choices. I was not relaxed because of the situation, and even though the ladies were appealing I just couldn't enjoy myself. It's a bad idea to try to get "one last dance"
at the last moment. I Never tried it again.
I don't see why a client shouldn't be able to book an escort for 1/2 an hour if he can find one willing and he can be satisfied with that. But for myself it's much too cold and rushed and I prefer to deal with the ladies as something more than a quickie sex toy type of meeting. I like to get a feel for the person inside the individual. That's often the biggest turn on.
I'm a bit surprised. I didn't take you for the quickie type.
Happy choices,
Merlot
I got stuck into 1/2 hours sessions twice during incalls. In both cases it was my first year in Montreal, and it was a matter of the agency cutting my time because I was a bit late trying to find the place and the next guy was already booked back to back. I would have left if it hadn't been the last day of the trip and very late in the day each time with few other choices. I was not relaxed because of the situation, and even though the ladies were appealing I just couldn't enjoy myself. It's a bad idea to try to get "one last dance"
at the last moment. I Never tried it again. I don't see why a client shouldn't be able to book an escort for 1/2 an hour if he can find one willing and he can be satisfied with that. But for myself it's much too cold and rushed and I prefer to deal with the ladies as something more than a quickie sex toy type of meeting. I like to get a feel for the person inside the individual. That's often the biggest turn on.
I'm a bit surprised. I didn't take you for the quickie type.
Happy choices,
Merlot
Are you crazy nobody can have a good relationship with just an half hourh. or you are an amimal just for sex
in 30 mins i could have a good sex session... but then that would be purely sex and thats it, as im not a minute man... I kinda like that talk and introduction and such with the girl... even repeat its fun to learn what she has been up to... I dunno... i tough about 30 mins incall a few times but never actually did them... maybe if i wanted a quick bang with a regular girl... but since most of the agencies doing it charge not that less for it... better pay the extra bucks to get the ful hour...
And an hour is so quick anyway...
And an hour is so quick anyway...
6 years ago when I returned to the hobby scene, I started with 30 minute sessions, but I found those session like a tease, it didn't give me total satisfaction, since I am a MSOG kinda guy, so if my lover of the moment really inspires me, I really need more than 30 minutes. Like some others said, even an hour is not enough sometimes but it is the average time needed to be fulfilled.
Nowadays, it is very rare that I take 30 minutes session, I only do when I feel a weird vibe from the SP and to test the water as we say.
Nowadays, it is very rare that I take 30 minutes session, I only do when I feel a weird vibe from the SP and to test the water as we say.
damn i wish i could MSOG... but i usually talk too much... lol, i kinda feel being not talking much is kinda direspectfull... but then sometimes i overdo it too...
I usually do the 1/2 hr when I go to the airport ( drive right past 2 incalls ) and I am a little early, it is quick but then I usually just go for a BBBJ & 69.
When you meet a new lady, it's hard to know in advance what will be the perfect duration. I always take 1h, sometimes 2 when it's someone I know. Normally 1h is just right, but even when the sex part is consumed in the first half hour, I like to relax with some massage or just cuddling and chat. An SP has to be very bad at her job for me to feel like leaving after 1/2 hour. The escort I know here who offer 1/2 hour are not expensive ones, and 1h is a much better deal anyway.
When I started seeing escorts, time was more a source of stress. You pay for a time, and it has to happen within that time. So I always preferred 1h. In my perfect world, you would stay with her as long as you feel like and pay by the minute (a bit like lap dances where you can stay for 1 song or 5).
When I started seeing escorts, time was more a source of stress. You pay for a time, and it has to happen within that time. So I always preferred 1h. In my perfect world, you would stay with her as long as you feel like and pay by the minute (a bit like lap dances where you can stay for 1 song or 5).
I enjoy 30 minute sessions. I personally find that getting to know a girl who is not even going to tell you her real name is kinda pointless. Obviously, my sessions end up being sex only with very little intimacy. I don't mind that. I find it more honest. Do you guys really think that the SP you are kissing is oh-so-excited about kissing you? She is doing her job. That being said, if you really want intimacy or a distant semblance of it, multi-hour session with a friendly, caring and empathetic SP is a good idea.
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