007 and I will likely never see eye to eye on a many number of thingsIt seems like a massive overreaction, TBH.
I usually never pay that much attention to the underwear if it’s white. If it’s a sexy color like red or pink I do more but never got something like you.
If you're into dirty underwear, then by all means, I can point you to her and get your fix. But personally, that's not my thing. And no, this wasn’t some bargain basement Asian massage parlour. The $200 I mentioned was just for the provider; I didn’t even bring up the $80 I paid for the room. So if you think $280 in total is “cheap,” you must be living large.If I recall correctly reading one of your posts, aren’t you the same guy who browses Leolist just to save a few bucks? That’s the thing with you, you’re so full of animosity toward me that even if I said the sky is blue, you'd show up just to argue that it’s not. Let it go, man, move on.
No, that's not what he asked at all. His experience was with uncleanliness. He had a reaction to it, and asked if others had had similar reactions to anything, not necessarily uncleanliness, that turned them off. and turned them off to the hobby. He asked specifically about having a reaction and then overcoming that reaction to resume hobbying.He asked how to deal with what he considered uncleanliness.
Agreed, and that's why I said very clearly that everyone is different and it is what it is as far as reactions go.We ALL have our limits
Not gonna argue with your interpretationNo, that's not what he asked at all. His experience was with uncleanliness. He had a reaction to it, and asked if others had had similar reactions to anything, not necessarily uncleanliness, that turned them off. and turned them off to the hobby. He asked specifically about having a reaction and then overcoming that reaction to resume hobbying.
Agreed, and that's why I said very clearly that everyone is different and it is what it is as far as reactions go.
Now, the meat of this is that if your bar is low for whatever it is that bothers you then you either need to severely refine what you do or go do something else. If climbing a stepladder makes you dizzy and queasy then perhaps skydiving isn't for you. If a clown at a kids birthday party frightens you then perhaps you should avoid the circus. You see where I'm going with this. If the sight of a pair of dirty underpants is enough to kill the urge to monger in you then you either need to refine your experiences to minimize the chance of it ever happening again or you need to quit, as the OP were tempted to do. An obvious solution is one you already suggested: Go see someone you already know is great. Of course, in time everyone you like will retire or disappear and you will be left looking again. You can also forget mongering in anything except the most sanitary conditions in sterile environments, which quite frankly is a much less enjoyable way to approach the hobby and will cheat you of many great adventures (and admittedly some bad ones). They all become good stories. lol. It would also absolutely preclude you from engaging with almost the entire world market. As you say, everyone's tolerance is different, and everyone has every right to have their preferences and to exercise their prerogatives with respect to those preferences, but if my bar for tolerance was that low I'd just quit and be done with it. YMMV
But then you did, immediately afterwards. So, whatever. I'm not going to worry about it, and it's certainly not worth having an extended argument about. We'll each interpret it as we will, and the discussion will go where it goes, as it does in all threads on MERB. There's nothing that anyone has said here so far that really invalidates anything anyone else has said, so let's just roll with it and see where it takes us.Not gonna argue with your interpretation
These are much harder problems to address.For example vagina that smells really bad (not a natural smell). I’m talking the kind that you have to smell upwards to avoid it. That to me is worse
But the worst for me that really made me consider cutting my hobby is shit attitude entitlement, soulless service and being overly shy (not in a cute way).
I totally agree. It's been getting worse and it's just annoying to be honest. Whenever I come across a girl like that, especially the entitled attitude type, I just leave immediately. Over the years, I've become quite good at detecting it immediately.But the worst for me that really made me consider cutting my hobby is shit attitude entitlement, soulless service and being overly shy (not in a cute way).
You lower your chances of bad hygiene and smelly pussies but not a guarantee. I met nice girls in attitude and had some smells.I totally agree. It's been getting worse and it's just annoying to be honest. Whenever I come across a girl like that, especially the entitled attitude type, I just leave immediately. Over the years, I've become quite good at detecting it immediately.
While there are never guarantees, I found that if you avoid this kind of girl, chances are high that you're also avoiding poor hygiene and smelly pussies.
"Parlez-en en bien, parlez-en en mal, mais parlez-en."I don’t know if what I say is pertinent to this thread, but I just wonder when people posts about their bad experience whether it was bad service or scam or bad hygiene, why do people still ask for rates and location? Makes no sense to me that after a bad review, why would someone actually want to know about the hier whereabouts? I would take note and turn away