Has anyone of you ever been refused by a SP because of the size of your penis? By size could be because it was to big or to small and the SP didn't want to complete the act.
Have you ever been refused by a SP?
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That's quite amusing! I’ve never heard of someone being refused service after a transaction was completed, especially due to the size of their penis. While it’s possible, it certainly doesn’t seem like a valid reason; it could simply be an excuse for not providing the service, which could stem from a variety of other factors that I won't delve into for the sake of discretion. I’ve heard numerous accounts of clients being turned away before the service provider entering, but those instances involve different reasons that I prefer not to discuss in detail due to their sensitive nature and to avoid sparking a debate on your thread. Typically, once the service provider is naked or payment is made before the encounter , the transaction is considered final.
If it's too small sure I guess. But too big? I could see this being a valid reason. As someone with a vagina, let me tell you, vaginal pain is no joke. Some women can take bigger than others, but for those who can't, or when the man isn't mindful and pays no attention to foreplay, the pain can be quite unpleasant. I've ended up with a micro tear inside my vagina early in my SP career (at 18 before I even had my first review) due to a guy with a big dick and zero concept of foreplay, and I was in excruciating pain every time I had sex for many months after that. I still had bills to pay so I powered through my appointments but it was awful and I spent months wondering if my sex life was forever going to be like this. I cried almost every day. I wouldn't wish it on anyone and IMO "sorry, I think you're too big" is a valid reason. As long as she either refunds the fee or offers other activities to do that won't cause her pain.
That being said, I've never heard of the opposite (being refused for being too small) lol is this something that happens? Sounds pretty inconsiderate IMO. This is a service, we aren't looking for a partner so our physical preferences shouldn't come into play but that's just my opinion
I don't think it's a valid reason to refuse a client, particularly as an indy, I don't have to see several clients in a row, so I'm not going to discriminate. But like Julia said, if the person isn't careful, it can be quite painful.
A lot of girls said they like the size of my d!ck, I think because my brother is not aggressive to them at all, and make their work easier. And I am a foreplay man, this would even make the session more smoothly. So no girls will deny handling my shrip lol.
Btw I do been refused once because my age is “small”, by a milf SP who only meet client older than her - she said young client normally dangerous and intensive, mean and picky.
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Since I got one or two so-so experience, I'm warning girls I'm a bit oversize but I don't have a monster one.
I remember one time:
Moi: "J'espère que tu aimes les grosses..."
Elle: "J'aime toutes les queues!!!"
Ayoye!
I got one who once put out a measurement tape.
She wanted to order a custom dildo with same size. Ha!Ha!
Should've offered to gift her a clone-a-willy on your next visit haha
Someone could refuse to provide the service if they realize you have a Monster Cock and that would be totally valid. It would suck for you but they’re not obligated to accommodate you and hurt themselves in the process.
I have personally never had to refuse someone because they were too big, I just tell them “you might already know that but it’s pretty big, do you mind if we go slowly to begin?”
If he says he wants to ruin my kitty regardless, I would kick him out.
I have personally never had to refuse someone because they were too big, I just tell them “you might already know that but it’s pretty big, do you mind if we go slowly to begin?”
If he says he wants to ruin my kitty regardless, I would kick him out.
I'd like to take a moment for the providers of anal sex. Monster Cock plus asshole requires a serious consideration.
Reminds me of an old song by America ... a horse with no name. Cool song, but maybe a bad anal.ogy
Last week, my favorite refused and it's ok for me. I don't mind because she's the receiver and for sure I understand.
We did it several times in the past but this time I guess she wasn't ready.
And for me, anal sex is not usual. I tend to see it as a way to put variety in the menu.
I wanted more foreplay but she wanted it badly in her kitty. She didn't have to pray me for long.
We had a fantastic time anyway. Didn't feel I missed something about not doing anal.
Whatever she loves for the moment, I'll go with the flow.
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I remember once, she did put a timer and told me: "If it takes too long, I'll have a hard time to walk tomorrow"...
I used to know an sp who’d refuse clients who insisted on cbj only. She hated sucking on a condom. Hated the taste. So i told her stop worrying about this stuff & just make up an excuse & tell them she’s not available. So that’s what she did. I then suggested she indicate on her website that cbj was out of the question & she was willing to do only bbbj & she took my advice & never did cbj again. Lol
The reasons you can be refused are
1) Bad hygiene
2) Same ethnicities
You might know people she knows so they want to avoid that. Example if she is from Iran, and a guy from Iran wants to book her. What’s the odd they have people in common in Montreal?
3) Being a virgin
Your first time should be with a civilian if possible for your own sake
4) Your are on the black/banned list
Actually I discovered that agencies and probably indies have access to some information on clients who were banned for various reasons. There is some kind of shared information about that between them. That’s pretty good I think. Especially for violent clients etc.
1) Bad hygiene
2) Same ethnicities
You might know people she knows so they want to avoid that. Example if she is from Iran, and a guy from Iran wants to book her. What’s the odd they have people in common in Montreal?
3) Being a virgin
Your first time should be with a civilian if possible for your own sake
4) Your are on the black/banned list
Actually I discovered that agencies and probably indies have access to some information on clients who were banned for various reasons. There is some kind of shared information about that between them. That’s pretty good I think. Especially for violent clients etc.
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