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Hot Take, Giving money to fellow Clients.

Halloween Mike

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This may get me a bit of hate/hot water from the get go, and if it does.. well so be it. I don't think it violate any rules by the board but if it become too controversial, the mods are welcome to delete/lock this.

I see a lot of post, mostly on twitter about paying providers gift for various reasons. Tonight i seen a post about one provider mentioning how a guy was willing to pay for her studies. Seem to be american studies too, so very expensive.

The whole sugar babies/financial dom is a real thing too, lots of guys are more than willing (they crave) partaking in it.

So my question is, how comes helping fellow "johns" is NEVER a fetish/desire of the "more rich" guys in the business.

I mean, don't get me wrong, i had a lot of fellow merbiste offering to pay me a beer in partie and i apreciated every single peoples who did that. But a beer is a beer... a few bucks.

But i never had anybody with a lot of money offering me to pay a full session with someone. Im talking a guy with a lot of money who meet a lot (at least once a week), could be retired or very rich and/or with very little else expenses.

Now im using myself as an exemple because i been on the board for a lot of years, i mentioned many times how "hobbying" is a "very part time" for me and i can only do it every once in a while after saving up for it. Its not secret. But it could be anyone. I hope you don't see this thread as ebegging lol.

Im saying this because its kinda actually one of the first thing i would do if i became rich. I already said it before (and you can find the thread if you doubt me) that one of the first things i would do if i became rich (winning the loto) is actually throwing parties, around once a month, where i would have 5/6 providers in the party and there "mission" would be to find 5/6 dudes to have sex with without them knowing they are providers that night. Guys that are shy, not your typical attractive style, etc etc. Kinda like my way to give back some love to the guys like me who were never lucky with women. Make them feel special that night. Maybe its a bit out of a movie ill admit, but if possible, i would love to give that.

But i can't, im no rich guy, and maybe i have this "fetish"/want to do because especially im no rich guy. But in a world where everything is a fetish, to some stuff you would NEVER imagine could be a fetish (lol), im kinda shock this is not one of them, or at least i never heard of it. In a world where its so common to uber tip providers, to gift them expensive stuff (in the thousands from what i see on twitter), you could think taking a "young" unlucky block under your wing could be one of them? lol.

I guess im delusional. But i wanted to share this thread and maybe i dunno get some taughts from you guys, even if you think this is an absurde thread. Please keep it polite and civile so mods are not forced to remove it IF they allow it to stay.
 

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Sorry Mike. There is no free lunch. No one is going to give you a free date with an escort. I do give to charities routinely and if you were starving or facing a crisis I would chip in some money to help but not being able to afford escorts on a regular basis is not a crisis. My advice to you is to put down the Gameboy/Xbox or whatever those time wasters are and take up something like Chemical Engineering or Marketing or learn a trade like welding or plumbing and work hard and you will have the funds you need for escorts. This can be your motivation.
 

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Hey Mike,

I was one of those guys who bought you beers at the parties, more than a few. I did not buy them because I am "rich", or because I could do so, I bought them because you seemed like a nice young guy. I should note that you never bought me anything, not that I expected any kind of quid pro quo like Trump did with the Ukrainian guy ("you give me dirt on Biden or no financial aid for you"). But you were not the only guy I bought a drink for in my life. I usually only do it if I feel like someone deserves it, not to show off my largesse. It is something that is an approved social tradition.

Other than that I agree with the post of hungry101 above. In the past you made a lot of posts about your sorry financial state and I should tell you frankly that those posts were not well received by a lot of folks on this board. You should not have a welfare state mentality, it's just not a way to solve problems. I never once asked anyone for money in my life, even when I was younger and needed. I was raised to believe everyone has to stand on their own 2 feet, if they are healthy and capable of doing so.

BTW, I one time paid for an HDH escort for Doc Holliday. I did not do that because he needed money, or because I wanted him to get me an HDH in return. I did it because when I was a neophyte Montreal hobbyist/tourist Doc gave me all kinds of great advice (not just on the Montreal escort scene but about Montreal generally, including hotels and restaurants, just really great intel). He also served as a French translator for me on some different occasions. He also ran a very useful chatroom for many of us called "Doc Holliday's Saloon." I felt he deserved it for good deeds done. It was the only time I did this directly for a fellow MERBite. But he in my eyes earned the right for such a gift. And since he started that tradition and now that I am more experienced, I try to share it (when it is asked for), as he did with me.
 

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Beav you are more generous than you let on. Remember buying time with a HDH escort for a friend for his birthday ?
When a guy is fun , very knowledgeable and has a lot of contacts.....he may very well get a couple of freebies for hanging out with his American buddies
Now doing much better financially on social networks are FemDoms especially those practising financial domination. They and many others are not shy about asking for expensive gifts , gift cards and expensive trips. When they get it, they flaunt it, making other girls jealous and wanting similar benefits.
 

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Beav you are more generous than you let on. Remember buying time with a HDH escort for a friend for his birthday ?
When a guy is fun , very knowledgeable and has a lot of contacts.....he may very well get a couple of freebies for hanging out with his American buddies.

I amended my post above to explain that and why I did that.
 

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Patron I guess you and I mostly don`t follow the same women on twitter. On my feed I see plenty of fetish posts every day. Many girls who don`t regularly post fetish ads ,like the former Unicorn girls , are into fetish and SM activities. Once about a year ago I saw a vanilla sex girl from a local popular agency and near the end of our session she pulled out a whip from her purse and asked if we can try it.
 

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I was just curious to see some takes on it guys. It seem to be a popular thing in the business as i mentioned (the concept of sugar babies and such), so i just wanted to see opinions on that "spin" but so far its mostly what i taught i would see. Thanks for contributing.

Hungry, well.you did get Xbox right . Gameboy tough its been a loooong while.But nah i won't stop gaming. Its part of my life. Ill be 75 and will still game. I know some older folks see it as a "child past time" but its really not anymore. I was lucky to grow up with the evolution of gaming and ses almost all its phase from NES til now (Atari was before my time) so it always revolutionized itself and stayed fresh for me. But i disgress.
 

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Look behind you.
There are many places to get grants to go back to school for adults, the government will pay for your schooling plus give you money to live off.
As for gaming I still play the PS4 ( Waiting for the PS5 ) and I am almost 64. If the weather sucks and the house is clean smoking a bowl and playing a game kills the time plus is enjoyable to me.
 

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Now would this be a great John Grisham book or what?

His current stuff has gotten really boring, by the way.

Old guy dies with $22 million.

A million goes to family, who are pissed and contesting the will.

$21 million does to a private trust the rest of the family wants access to, but can’t get.

A million goes out of the trust to lawyers and the trustee.

The trustee, a young guy just out of college, is the trustee,

$1 million each goes to the old guy’s 20 favorite hookers during his lifetime.

He knew some of their real names, but not all of them. Sometimes it is just their work names and histories and tats and service offerings.

Some are older now and have left the industry. Some are still active but all he has is their work names and identifying characteristics.

The trustee has little experience with sex work. So the book is mostly his exploration into a world he has never been exposed to.

He is booking escorts, making sure it is really them, etc., for the active ones. Yes, he is having sex with them. Fuck ethics. Mostly because word has started to spread about what is happening, and when he books “Sunshine” there is the real possibility that someone else is going to show up.

The more interesting cases are the retired ones. Do they want to be found? Can they be found? What happened to them? Are they Volvo-driving soccer moms? Or did they fall into the tired stereotype of poverty, drugs and even death? Finding them ain’t easy, by the way.

He is being pursued by the old guy’s family, some of whom are rich enough to fund mischief, possibly even trying to blackmail the women into not taking the money as a result of the possibility of them being “outed”.

Propose some ideas if you want

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Love this! But has to be set in Dickens' London!
 

Halloween Mike

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Yes it would make a good book or even better, a movie or TV show !

School? Been there done that. School/completion is not an issue. I just don't see myself in these "career jobs". Its just not for me.
 

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Mike - I'm not suggesting that you stop something that you love so much. I'm just saying that don't let it preclude you from you life goals. I don't know if it is. You may need to step back and reevaluate.

I assume you are talking about girls on Twitter. I am as baffled as you are. There seem to be some crazy, lonely, delusional guys with too much money. Girls like to go on Twitter or Facebook and show pictures of cash or show gift cards. It's maybe a way to show off to their other escort acquaintances more than actually thanking anyone for the gift that some sap sent them. Then there are girls on Twitter that have this entitled attitude like they expect it. I've read from girls on Twitter...some that get 800$ an hour...and they talk about us like we are an inconvenience. Some only go on twitter to rant about how awful we are and we should just send them gift cards. How dare we review them and how dare we ask about acronyms.

I just read a review about guys paying a couple thousand dollars a each to attend a gang bang including a (did I read this correctly?) $1500 dollar CDN deposit for dinner and a two hour date with three guys and three providers and guess what? Two of the girls that were advertised didn't show up! They found two girls to fill in (they were hot) but my point is you try not showing up for a date and you will be blacklisted and bashed on Twitter and on advertiser only sections of MERB/TERB. And no, those girls didn't lose their deposits.

There is a very successful escort in GTA that has the cutest face. I am a sucker for such things. She looks to be putting on weight but that face is so cute I don't care. More to love! I got to her web site and she is 500$/hour...OK, maybe I'll splurge. then I read no reviews and she only wants to see customers that don't describe themselves as hobbyists and don't know the meaning of the acronyms and if you take her for a longer date and give her a boat load of money that a certain percentage of time must be out in public. I guess this is so she doesn't have to touch me or something...Another is pissed because some guy suggested she wear a certain type of practical outfit. She could of just said "no'' but she had to go on twitter and blast the guy for even suggesting he even consider it and they all chime in...nothing but Misandry!

That is why I love the girls on MERB that get nominated or voted Best of and they come on here and thank the academy. I recently had a girl from GTA thank me for a review. She said she enjoyed reading it and it made her smile. Over the years I've had a few girls from MERB tell me the same...one girl said she was laughing another said it made her hot as hell and she was at work reliving the experience while reading it at work. TER came back up and I saw I had two PMs that were almost two years old: Both were thanking me for reviews I wrote...It is nice to see that girls like their job and they don't take us all for granted.
 

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Yes it would make a good book or even better, a movie or TV show !

School? Been there done that. School/completion is not an issue. I just don't see myself in these "career jobs". Its just not for me.

How about trade school. My buddy is a welder and he makes as much or more than I do. He went to a trade school to learn the trade and got a job with the Big 3.
 

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How about getting certified as a refrigerator technician? I could actually use one right now as I have water pooling at the bottom of my refrigerator and the likelihood of me finding or fixing the issue is zero. Besides that refrigerator functionality is a very important thing generally. People need to keep their food cold or it spoils. There will always be some money in doing those repairs when needed. Although until now I had this Kenmore 17 years and never once had it serviced but now I need someone.

You could also be a plumber. I have needed plumbers lots of times. Water heater leaking or needing to be replaced. Toilet problems, sink leaks. Pipes needing to be replaced, water shut offs needing to be installed. Outdoor spigots needing to be piped and fed. Lots of work to do.
 

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HM, you have stated that last year you saw "only 5 or 6" sp's, consider yourself very lucky because I know many people who would have to cut many corners just to see 1 sp so they don't partake in this business, you are way too addicted to this business which seems to have overwhemed you(I am guilty of this also), seeing sp's is nice but I would suggest that you take up some sort of course to improve your life skills and divert some of your attention away from this business because nobody is going to give you anything for free, that's just reality.
 

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Pardon my ignorance but what is "trading school"? You trade what? lol.

EB, i never been much of a manual guy when it comes to these things. Patience is really not my virtue. As you know i live in a small town too, there is like one dude who does those kinda job, everybody knows him, and even him i think as another job. Fridge are not what they used to be, nowadays peoples just don't bother, they buy a new one. I think the guy i mentioned recycle them too for parts (so a car with trailer or pickup is nescessary) and then sell some on the cheaper side for peoples with less money.

I never been really interested in pursuing a career and comitting, its weird. The only career i would love to do is in cinema, but its so "small" here in Quebec. Maybe i should take the extra leap on that and who knows, could end up in the states at some point. That would be years and years of studies tough and at mid 30s already, i dunno if its worth it.

Hungy, yes Twitter is something at times to say the least. Been myself in heated arguments a few times. Everytime i told myself its not worth it and i should stop replying to that but for some reasons its always stronger than me... lol. I always have that glimmer of hope i can make the person change their mind, but peoples are very entitled overall, especially there.

In the video game world Patreon and streaming donations are also a huge thing, some guys live on that. Wich prove that peoples are willing to donate not just for hot attractive young ladies. Peoples also donate when they are not required. So thus why i was wondering about the concept of a male sugar baby or "protege" in this business (that sound better i guess) if i can say :p

Ill be honest, when i posted that late last night i did had a few beers... quite a few (heads hurt a bit this morning lol) and i considered deleting the thread this morning but reading myself again, i think for somebody who was pretty drunk i formulated well the post, and it did bring an interesting conversation. Its obvious ill be judged (and already been) for even sugesting that, but so far peoples have kept it very civile and like i said it did bring an interesting conversation so i personally will let it up.

I just hope the ladies do not see it on the bad side for bringing this up, as its a huge part of their business. Im not suggesting guys should stop being kind to them either. Actually if any providers want to comment on it, i would totally welcome the take, so do not be shy.

Oh and last, yeah EB, Hungry and a few others, hopefully one day we can meet again if you guys are willing and ill buy a keg of beer so we drink together ;)

Im actually not in a bad financial situation right now. Surprisingly i think i managed to control my "expenses" (mostly escorts, video games and beer lol) quite well and im actually refunding my debts well lately.

Add to that i reached 95 pounds loss yesterday and i can say i had a great 2019 and beginning of 2020.

Edit : Saw Joe's comment after i posted.

Yes, i consider myself lucky still to be in a situation like i am. I know some guys get it much worst than me. Saw 5 providers last year, and it was 5 very good meeting, so i can't complain. Obviously there is also "looking up" and "looking down". Sometimes i look up and i see some guys mention how they seen THOUSANDS of providers (daaamnnn lol) but then i can look down and see some peoples struggle to just even get food. So yeah im always gratefull no matter what for what life bring me. I got a nice place to live, i have plenty of free time to enjoy my passions, i eat well (litteraly in the 2 senses now haha) and i made improvements to my life last year like i said above.
 

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How about getting a job as a bartender somewhere? Good cash tips. Would pay for an extra girl here and there. Tip: If you apply at The Keg on Rene Levesque, they get lots of SPs as customers, especially Sunday nights for some reason. It is across the street from the Queen E hotel and a few blocks from Le Centre Sheraton and in the middle of the financial district. The bartenders there seem like all cool guys. Some cool female bartenders as well.
 

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HM, you have also seen a girl many times that I consider to be one of the hottest sp's to ever grace the Montreal scene, consider yourself incredibly lucky, I wish that I saw her the amount of times that you did, HM = one very lucky bastard.:thumb:

https://xhamster.com/videos/ad4x-video-pixie-dust-et-kate-full-video-hd-porn-quebec-3544800


EB, excellent suggestion, bartending is one of the best jobs for meeting hot girls on a social level, especially the location that you suggested.
 

Halloween Mike

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Don't they look for attractive peoples as bartenders? Usually hot young ladies but sometimes hot young stud? I mean outside of the small bars were the owner also bartend...

Honestly its something i could actually like doing, even tough it could be risky for me. I mean i don't currently have an alcool addiction, i control myself very well at home, but being all around alcool all nights many nights a week, i dunno. Kinda like working at Mcdonald.. I manage to eat well now at home etc but being surrounded by this delicious fast food every day... another story lol.

And thanks for the tip on The Keg, now im kinda curious to go there for a drink :p

Joe, yes those are great memories that only Alzheimer could take away. But as lucky as i was to see her that many times, wish i seen her more, especially one last time before she retired for good. But you are also a lucky dude, you saw Anna Nikova many times :p and Maria Star too.
 

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ive met many generous wealthy members who have regularly taken or at least offered to take me to a good dinner.
was a famous Female service provide who regularly called me up and took me out for drinks and food and never let me pay.
 
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