I didn’t read the whole thread but yeah, as much as I would like to get gifted a free session I would never go around asking for one. I am also a young guy with a limited buget which forces me to hobby sporadically if I don’t want to end up broke. I’ve had to make sacrifices, I stopped seeing my ATF because she moved to an outcall agency and I refuse to spend hundreds of dollars on a airbmb or hotel cause it’s just not affordable for me, ( my residence is not ideal for outcall). Bad or mediocre sessions also sting particularly hard because the money I spend on the hobby has alot more value to me and I can’t afford to compensate for a bad session by booking another the next day or next week. Sometimes I go 4,5 months without hobbying just cause it’s not realistic budget wise, sitting on a bad session for that long is not a good feeling. Thankfully I only ever had one session that I can truly say was bad, so I guess I am lucky in that department.
Unfortunetly that is part of life and you have to work with cards you have. The girls getting thousands of dollars from sugar daddies are in a way still earning that money, by giving the daddy what he wants, even though they are being overcompensated they still worked for it. Being friends with rich hobbyists doesn’t entitle you to free handouts just cause they like your personality.
We live in a world where when it comes to sex, women have full power over men. Men have to work hard to get laid, which is why the hobby exists to begin with. It’s not good or bad, thats just how our species functions to achieve optimal mating. Its part of being a man, if you want it to change, either get good at attracting women for free or work towards a high paying job that allows you to cheat the system more frequently. Whatever you pick I wish you luck cause I understand the struggle. But don’t start begging, it will get you nowhere.
