How do you erase memory of a bad SP experience

[TheDon]

During my early days in the hobby I went for an incall in the McGill ghetto. Confirmed the suite number an up the elavator I went. I knocked on the door and as it opened the SP hid herself behind the door. So in I went and as the door closed and I got to see her and I knew right away she was not my type. But me being new to the hobby I still went through with it, heck I'll just check her type off my list as being been there done that.

It was one of the few occasions I wanted to be in and out as fast as possible. But since she did not turn me on it lasted longer than I wanted and cumming was more of a reflex action than something of pleassure. As I left the building I was just thinking what the heck did I just do. There was no way I was gonna have the memory of that bad experience haunt my day let alone the whole week. When I got home I decided that the ony way to get rid of the memory of a bad experience was to replace it with a good one right away. So I called for an outcall later that evening and thank goodness the SP that I saw was more to my liking.

In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me. It was my first time seeing 2 SPs in 1 day more out of necessity than choice.

So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?


Cheers!!!

TheDon

 

[SamKlemmons]

When I got home I decided that the ony way to get rid of the memory of a bad experience was to replace it with a good one right away. So I called for an outcall later that evening and thank goodness the SP that I saw was more to my liking.

In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me. It was my first time seeing 2 SPs in 1 day more out of necessity than choice.

So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?
TheDon

I have been hobbying for more than 40+ years, and to this day I still have not found a better way to erase a bad experience.

These days, with the review boards, those bad experiences are few and far between. But old timers like yourself will know that seeing an SP in the old days was a real roll of the dice.

Since then, and even today, I always carry enough money to see two girls.

If the first one does not cut it, I send her away and get another.

With some of us, if you have a bad experience it just sits there .... best to wipe away the memory immediately.

 

[Bean]

First thing I do to lol Financially it makes no sense but some how makes me feel abit better

 

[Bean]

I wana "like" that last post lol

 

[TheDon]

lol

Taking a dump in her tub.

That's one way of making a bad session into a classic story!!!

 

[malboro_man]

So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?

Frankly, if the experience is really bad, I don't think you'll get over it 100%. Time will
take care of it but it might be slow but you may not recover 100% as I mentioned.

I had a bad experience with a really fat girl once....I mean really fat....her thighs were
three times as big as mine...she was sticking her tongue into me constantly (Ewwww!).
Her 300-lbs worth of chewing gum was such a turnoff. There was no way Junior was
able to wake up. The whole experience was Eeeewww raised to the power of 5000000!
She had the audacity to claim she runs 5 klicks per day and kids in the neighborhood stare at
her beauty! Occasionally I get flashbacks and nightmares seeing her naked body (again Ewwww!).

Pathetic liar with delusions of grandeur.....she got stares for being the freak of nature. How
can she run 5 klicks? Can't even run 5 steps without falling over from her weight.

I avoid fat girls as a result (a little bit overweight is ok, i.e., 10 lbs).

I felt violated being tongued, touched, felt up by "Big Whale".
Now, I know how a woman feels like to be raped.

 

[PSE.DUDE]

Been there too many times, I usually run back to my more reliable girls and that usually does the trick.

 

[Stroman]

They say ''Time is healer''.

 

[Numerati]

In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me. It was my first time seeing 2 SPs in 1 day more out of necessity than choice.

So how does my fellow MERBites erase a memory of a bad SP experience?


Cheers!!!

TheDon

If the next experience was beyond expectations, you would immediately forget about the previous bad experience. That was good you saw another girl so you can get rid the experience of the bad encounter as it can linger for a while if you don't take action. Actually those are easier to deal with. What is hard is when you had an amazing experience and the next few encounters never measure up. They were not bad at all but just doesn't measure up in any way.

 

[oldbutartful]

I usually take a large scotch and sleep like a babe. I am sure for every bad experince 5 or 6 good ones occur. My worst experience was being with a lady I met in the pub, we went back to her place and just as I about to reach the vinger strokes. I felt a cold wet thing between my buttocks, her dog had got loose and wanted to join the action stuck its cold wet nose where it didn't belong.. Talk about a passion killer. Its funny now but wasn't at the time.

 

[Numerati]

Talk about redefining doggie style.

 

[Madmanacross]

When I got home I decided that the ony way to get rid of the memory of a bad experience was to replace it with a good one right away. So I called for an outcall later that evening and thank goodness the SP that I saw was more to my liking.

In the end I replaced my bad SP experience right away with a better one and not letting it haunt me.

TheDon

I had a terrible experience recently with a very hot girl who was so stoned and into the money that I just could not enjoy her hotness... She was quite business-oriented. I had booked her for 2 hours, but in her perception of things, this meant 2 SOG, which were dealt with within 40 minutes...So after 40 minutes, she called the driver of her agency to pick her up, cause she badly wanted to go partying with her friends and get even more stoned...

I was so pissed and frustrated that I did the same as you: The next day, I called another girl ( Kate, from GG) and really enjoyed myself; still, this did not totally erase the memory of my bad experience... I even decided to take a break from hobbying for a while !! I guess only time will really help me get over it :noidea:

 

[Lily from Montreal]

Time has a way to turn bad meeting into funny ones,so when something happens that is not so nice I just look at it as material for my ''Lily stories''.

I've often been told I should do stand up comedy...but I prefer horizontal play...

It does help to realize that no matter what happened in the hobby it is that, a hobby,so maybe not attach to much importance to it? It is funlife, not real life...

 

[HG Hunter]

I've been fortunate in that I've had very few bad experiences, but I have had my share of lackluster experiences.
I normally do just what the OP did, go to see a reliable regular provider, either the same day or very soon after.

 

[Halloween Mike]

Yeah seeing a regular, somebody you sure to enjoy is a good way of letting a bad experience pass by.

I didn't had a bad experience in a long time, and even there, could i really say it was that bad? Nah, more like i didn't felt it was worth the money. But during the last couple months i had very soso sessions with 2 girls. Physically they where both VERY hot and cute, but the chemistry was not there, not at all. Weird cause for discussions they where friendly and fun, but its like the sexual part never worked.. Too much talking or fooling around, i dunno. The first one i was able to book somebody the same night wich totally made my trip worth it, had one of the best session overall only second to Kate of GG. The other one i saw both Eve and Kate of GG the next day and both where excellent sessions.

Of course when you have been waiting a month or 2 for a trip to mtl and your first session is disapointing, of course you feel a bit down but if you planned to see somebody else and that person turn out to be a memorable session, it kinda erase a bit the first one. Of course the best is to have 2 great sessions back to back.. now thats awesome

 

[Siocnarf]

I agree with Lily; with time many bad memories become a good memories. I`ve had a few bad experiences for different reasons, but no erasing for me. There was this thread a year ago:
https://merb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?84072-Bad-Experience-with-Escort-Can-you-outdo-my-Top-5-Failed-SP-Encounters&p=612608&viewfull=1#post612608

When I have an experience that leaves me totally unsatisfied, I will want to try to get a different one soon. But not absolutely on the same day. Sometimes it`s best to cool off a bit and regain your clear thinking, before making another decision.