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$rockstar1985

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I guess it's a question of whether chemistry is the right word but I'll go with that for now. FOr me it is essential though I know it's never guaranteed and I might feel like there's chemistry and the SP might not, I'll never know. But if the woman fascinates me, like has a brain that fascinates me, that is a surefire turn on for me. Also if we can laugh together I love that. I don't know if those things are chemistry but they are really important for me.
I've been lucky have had it reciprocal,a few times and currently now, who doesn't work for a agency currently but when I'm up there she will come to the city to hang with me,but are first time together was just awesome,chemistry, connection,attraction, and intimacy...perfect...
 

terrybogard88

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Chemistry is important. No doubt about it. One beautiful thing regarding chemistry is the fact that it does not take long at all to surface. Nature speaks by itself. It s like wine, you hate some sort and you like some sort of wine. Nothing you can do about it, it s in your DNA

Although it is important to observe that PLEASURE does not necessarily involve chemistry. even some wine you hate can give you great pleasure (for example when it s the only one you are able to get). And human is more complex than wine. You can have pleasure and fun without chemistry. So no one should be chasing for chemistry when dating SPs. It is not required.
 
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Sean007

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Whether the propre terminologie is chemistry or complicity…. I think complicity is,probably the better description but it is absolutely essential to a good meeting along with a good attitude. Yes it is important she is pretty but pretty alone will generally result in a disastrous encounter if a good attitude is not there, and then if there is good complicity between the 2 of you then I guess there is room for fireworks!!!
 
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newguy39

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Very important to me to feel connection between us and that she likes it as much or even more as I do. I'm ok to simply do what we are there for but way way better to enjoy it with a partner connecting with you and that is what dictated my choice of girl when I can choose right :)
 

DetectiveBOOBS

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My most important repeat factor is chemistry.

My 2 ATF at the moment would not be my typical type but her energy is out of this world I can’t get enough of her.

I have seen girls who were perfectly my type and they were sweet and provided good service but chemistry was missing so only seen them once.
 

Skym

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I'm curious,
Has anyone here had a session with a SP where the chemistry was so bad & intolerable, that you decided to cut the session short or make an excuse to leave?


Cuz I did.
 

twenty4seven

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I'm curious,
Has anyone here had a session with a SP where the chemistry was so bad & intolerable, that you decided to cut the session short or make an excuse to leave?


Cuz I did.
Never. The chemistry just determines whether I repeat or not. If I think we have good sexual compatibility and it's 'clicking' then I look forward to seeing them again. If the sex is good but there's nothing to build on, I don't.
 
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AnthonyAnderson

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I'm curious,
Has anyone here had a session with a SP where the chemistry was so bad & intolerable, that you decided to cut the session short or make an excuse to leave?


Cuz I did.
Yes, once. I felt like I was with a school principal (not a naughty one, lol). Zero chemistry. On top of that, it was a hot a humid day and I was
not feeling so well. That gave me an excuse to cancel the session, in exchange of a reasonable fee for the driver's time.
 

minutemenX

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It's VERY difficult to find, but if somehow you do find it. I'll stick with that girl...after seeing hundreds of escorts..the odds of finding that kind of chemistry is rare
You can build the chemistry with a girl if you work on it. And it is usually not on the sexual side that you can find it. They have seen it all and are not easily impressed or attracted as a client is a client after all. It is from the human side that you can find some connection. After many years of hobbing, I have observed that the best SPs are intelligent girls who in turn appreciate intelligent, humane guys with a good sense of humour and the ability to laugh at yourself.
 
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Skym

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I think nowadays chemistry is so hard to find. Either with hobbying or girls outside the hobby.

Even with some of my past favorite girls, it wasn't exactly the best chemistry.

There were some girls that stood out tho, Amber from Euphoria 2019, Priscilla at XO, Raphaelle at Euphoria. The chemistry was there and good to the point where "it felt like we known each other for a long time" type vibe. I miss those vibes.
 

LeDodo

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I think nowadays chemistry is so hard to find. Either with hobbying or girls outside the hobby.

Even with some of my past favorite girls, it wasn't exactly the best chemistry.

There were some girls that stood out tho, Amber from Euphoria 2019, Priscilla at XO, Raphaelle at Euphoria. The chemistry was there and good to the point where "it felt like we known each other for a long time" type vibe. I miss those vibes.
Chemistry is intemporal and not something you can find. However you can stumble upon it throughout encounters.

As Anthony Bourdain was saying: “If you don’t risk the bad meal, you’ll never get the magical one.” :)
 
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Skym

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Chemistry is intemporal and not something you can find. However you can stumble upon it throughout encounters.

As Anthony Bourdain was saying: “If you don’t risk the bad meal, you’ll never get the magical one.” :)
Ya, chemistry is always the X factor in any meetup with a SP.

It can possibly elevate a session or destroy it.

I remember one time meeting Vero Tinkler at Euphoria when she worked there once. We met up and five minutes into the session, I knew the session wasn't going to work.

We were so different from each other. It was awkwardly bad lol.

I ended up quitting the session after 20 minutes into the session lol

Shortest session ever with a SP. Lol
 

mr.cabrera

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Chemistry is the base of a perfect session.

Chemistry is defined the moment you enter the place. When I used to hobby, I would bring a drink, asked the do and don’ts, common interest and being polite at all time. There’s models that I knew that they wanted to get to know each other before the session. It build trust right at the beginning.

Like there was some models that flew me straight to take a shower and bye bye. I used to do session just talking and laughing.

Cheers!

M.C