How likely are you to report a bad hobbying experience?

[LeDodo]

I am wondering about this since I entered the industry. Where does the expectation for escorts to have extremely beautiful faces, model-like body, inaccessible look, being overall show-stoppers come from? Because my first knowledge of the concept of sex workers in life comes from street workers, which said model archetype does not apply. They exist, but those glamourous, exceptional girls would not be charging Montreal rates.

My guess is that with the widespread use of social media. the expectation of unachievable naturally, hard to maintain body standards is more common.

 

[mtlspacial]

I am wondering about this since I entered the industry. Where does the expectation for escorts to have extremely beautiful faces, model-like body, inaccessible look, being overall show-stoppers come from? Because my first knowledge of the concept of sex workers in life comes from street workers, which said model archetype does not apply. They exist, but those glamourous, exceptional girls would not be charging Montreal rates.

Social media is a big culprit here. The algorithm will literally feed you only videos and pictures of stunning models. You end up expecting that's the standard. AI made it even worse. A stunning model (real) doesn't compare to a perfect fake AI girl in the looks department IMO.

 

[Wildstar]

My guess is that with the widespread use of social media. the expectation of unachievable naturally, hard to maintain body standards is more common.

I read an article recently that put forth the same thesis, namely: the rise of social media, instagram and filters have flattened the concept of beauty. So many people are chasing the same beauty standards (Karadshian/Jenner, Emily Ratajkowski, Olivia Rodrigo, etc.), and getting the same cosmetic procedures, and therefore converging on a similar look as the standard. It also claimed that it had distorted the dating market, in that guys in small town Iowa are not the only ones competing for the hometown beauty queen; she's getting offers to be flown out by, for example, Miami influencers. Like most 'just so' stories, it's overdetermined, but was interesting nonetheless. Here's an article from a few years ago discussing the converging beauty standards theory: https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/beauty-features-same-face-instagram-b2534111.html

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Interesting to note as well than men are increasingly and substantially affected by these exagerrated beauty standards, whether it has to do with hair loss, shape of the jaw line, biceps, etc.

 

[madmonkey82]

My guess is that with the widespread use of social media. the expectation of unachievable naturally, hard to maintain body standards is more common.

I think the filtered, botox injected dolls are actually ugly AF IMHO. I much prefer natural looking women in general.
It feels so wrong and broken to have everyone have this asthetic and often zero personality.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I read an article recently that put forth the same thesis, namely: the rise of social media, instagram and filters have flattened the concept of beauty. So many people are chasing the same beauty standards (Karadshian/Jenner, Emily Ratajkowski, Olivia Rodrigo, etc.), and getting the same cosmetic procedures, and therefore converging on a similar look as the standard. It also claimed that it had distorted the dating market, in that guys in small town Iowa are not the only ones competing for the hometown beauty queen; she's getting offers to be flown out by, for example, Miami influencers. Like most 'just so' stories, it's overdetermined, but was interesting nonetheless. Here's an article from a few years ago discussing the converging beauty standards theory: https://www.the-independent.com/life-style/beauty-features-same-face-instagram-b2534111.html

"Are we all going to end up with the same face?"

So many girls look exactly the same now, it's horrifying.

I (personally) don't think I am beautiful, or rather I never felt like I fit the typical beauty mold, yet I don't try to meet those high standards. I don't even wear make-up! I look like myself, "a normal-looking person" (to quote @Hmmm…), and that's where I am the most confident.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I had to look up what was an "hickey" and ...yikes ! Lol

I would prefer this to not happen to me. I bruise easily and it takes forever to go.

To answer OP as long as its done politely/constructively and is not gratuitous bashing, i think a negative review is just as fine as a positive one. The service/attitude part is what is the most important in my opinion.

I seen look being mentioned. Thats the part i sometimes feel a little uneased with when clients are harsh with an SP on that side. Unless pictures are clearly done in a deceiving way, i don't think its an important factor to bring too much on. And if it is, i think it can be mentioned in a respectful matter.